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A trans man returns to his Florida hometown for Christmas after his career goes up in flames, only to cross paths with his high school ex in this charming rom-com about family and second chances from the author of the “delectable” (Time) Chef’s Kiss.
Eli Ward hasn’t been back to his suffocating hometown of New Port Stephen, Florida, in ages. Post-transition and sober, he’s a completely different person from the one who left years ago. But when a scandal threatens his career as a TV writer and comedian, he has no choice but to return home for the holidays. He can only hope he’ll survive his boisterous, loving, but often misguided family and hide the fact that his dream of comedy success has become a nightmare.
Just when he thinks this trip couldn’t get any worse, Eli bumps into his high school ex, Nick Wu, who’s somehow hotter than ever. Divorced and in his forties, Nick’s world revolves around his father, his daughter, and his job. But even a busy life can’t keep him from being intrigued by the reappearance of Eli.
Against the backdrop of one weird Floridian Christmas, the two must decide whether to leave the past in the past…or move on together.
Eli Ward hasn’t been back to his suffocating hometown of New Port Stephen, Florida, in ages. Post-transition and sober, he’s a completely different person from the one who left years ago. But when a scandal threatens his career as a TV writer and comedian, he has no choice but to return home for the holidays. He can only hope he’ll survive his boisterous, loving, but often misguided family and hide the fact that his dream of comedy success has become a nightmare.
Just when he thinks this trip couldn’t get any worse, Eli bumps into his high school ex, Nick Wu, who’s somehow hotter than ever. Divorced and in his forties, Nick’s world revolves around his father, his daughter, and his job. But even a busy life can’t keep him from being intrigued by the reappearance of Eli.
Against the backdrop of one weird Floridian Christmas, the two must decide whether to leave the past in the past…or move on together.
352 pages, ebook
Expected publication December 5, 2023
About the author
T.J. Alexander
3 books308 followersTJ Alexander is an amateur baker and author who writes about queer love. Originally from Florida, they received their MA in writing and publishing from Emerson College in Boston. They live in New York City with their wife and various houseplants.
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August 30, 2023
This book is like the cover, colorful and joyful! A Christmas story readable all year long. But I’m sorry, Eli. I love John Lennon’s version of So This Is Christmas far more than Celine’s. I like you nonetheless. And of course Nick too!
A second chances romance. Two almost forty-year-old men, one of them trans. Superb side characters. And if I had a daughter, I would love her to be like Zoe. She’s so cute and funny!
When I started reading this story, I thought it would be darker. According to the author’s note Second Chances in New Port Haven is a funny book with a happy ending. The author also says it contains heavy topics like alcoholism, the loss of a parent, the rise of hateful transphobic legislation, and more. Yes, all those subjects are touched upon but not very profoundly. At times I wanted to shake Eli for the choices he made, and my heart ached when Nick and Laurie had their talk about Zoe. But overall, Second Chances at New Port Stephen is a rather light story with lots of swooning and longing and, therefore, one for everyone who needs a comfort read! What isn’t in the author’s note is that there’s also demi rep, and I loved how Nick didn’t know what demisexuality was at first and was never scared to have feelings for a trans man suddenly. He just searched the internet for more information.
This was the first book I read by T.J. Alexander, and I’m definitely going to check out their other books too!
I received an ARC from Atria Books and
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A second chances romance. Two almost forty-year-old men, one of them trans. Superb side characters. And if I had a daughter, I would love her to be like Zoe. She’s so cute and funny!
When I started reading this story, I thought it would be darker. According to the author’s note Second Chances in New Port Haven is a funny book with a happy ending. The author also says it contains heavy topics like alcoholism, the loss of a parent, the rise of hateful transphobic legislation, and more. Yes, all those subjects are touched upon but not very profoundly. At times I wanted to shake Eli for the choices he made, and my heart ached when Nick and Laurie had their talk about Zoe. But overall, Second Chances at New Port Stephen is a rather light story with lots of swooning and longing and, therefore, one for everyone who needs a comfort read! What isn’t in the author’s note is that there’s also demi rep, and I loved how Nick didn’t know what demisexuality was at first and was never scared to have feelings for a trans man suddenly. He just searched the internet for more information.
This was the first book I read by T.J. Alexander, and I’m definitely going to check out their other books too!
I received an ARC from Atria Books and
NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
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September 19, 2023
Disclaimer: I received a review copy for via NetGalley, and am voluntarily and happily sharing my honest thoughts. Many thanks to the publisher, Atria Books, for the opportunity!
3.5 rounded up. I really enjoyed the setup of this one, and loved the way that TJ approached the situation overall. There were some great moments with both sides of the MC's families here, and I adored Eli's parents for trying their best. The relationship that Nick had with his ex-wife and daughter was also an interesting one, and it was nice to see healthy divorced family dynamics. Nick's dad was also a great addition, and I felt so much for Laurie as the small dose of unhealthy familial ties with Kay was well-depicted (and I'm glad it was just a pinch because I could not handle more right now 😂).
The chemistry and feelings between Nick and Eli were great, and it was really fun to see things from both POVs, and the mix of a bit of uncertainy, confusion, but attraction and love from both past and present really shined through. And I felt that there was a fine balance in this later in life romance where Nick and Eli were still also trying to navigate through life because it made them feel a bit more relatable, and it was nice to see them help each other in a comforting way. I also liked that there was some discourse on growing up in Florida, and how it touched a little bit on the difference between community and generalization, as well as the bit of Christmas cheer as well. The themes of parenthood was great too, with examples from both MCs' parents as well as Nick and Laurie wanting to do their best for Zoe.
The only thing that was frustrating to me was the miscommunication that was sprinkled throughout. Obviously it's confusing times as it's a second chance romance with totally different circumstances, but I feel like Eli was a little insensitive with a lot of his assumptions (to which I'm glad Nick stood up for himself), and the lack of communication in some parts, especially with the texts/phone calls when there were Major Things happening did upset me a bit. Minor third act spoiler: But I guess that's pretty realistic too, and in a way, it was nice to see both Eli and Nick get their own moments of clarity before coming together as a team.
I would totally read another book from TJ!
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3.5 rounded up. Great moments, but some super frustrating miscommunication. Loved Nick as a MC, but Eli had his ups and downs for me because of the way he handled some things with Nick. Most side charas were great except for the obvious one that was supposed to be horrible and succeeded in being horrible. 😂 Full RTC.
3.5 rounded up. I really enjoyed the setup of this one, and loved the way that TJ approached the situation overall. There were some great moments with both sides of the MC's families here, and I adored Eli's parents for trying their best. The relationship that Nick had with his ex-wife and daughter was also an interesting one, and it was nice to see healthy divorced family dynamics. Nick's dad was also a great addition, and I felt so much for Laurie as the small dose of unhealthy familial ties with Kay was well-depicted (and I'm glad it was just a pinch because I could not handle more right now 😂).
The chemistry and feelings between Nick and Eli were great, and it was really fun to see things from both POVs, and the mix of a bit of uncertainy, confusion, but attraction and love from both past and present really shined through. And I felt that there was a fine balance in this later in life romance where Nick and Eli were still also trying to navigate through life because it made them feel a bit more relatable, and it was nice to see them help each other in a comforting way. I also liked that there was some discourse on growing up in Florida, and how it touched a little bit on the difference between community and generalization, as well as the bit of Christmas cheer as well. The themes of parenthood was great too, with examples from both MCs' parents as well as Nick and Laurie wanting to do their best for Zoe.
The only thing that was frustrating to me was the miscommunication that was sprinkled throughout. Obviously it's confusing times as it's a second chance romance with totally different circumstances, but I feel like Eli was a little insensitive with a lot of his assumptions (to which I'm glad Nick stood up for himself), and the lack of communication in some parts, especially with the texts/phone calls when there were Major Things happening did upset me a bit. Minor third act spoiler: But I guess that's pretty realistic too, and in a way, it was nice to see both Eli and Nick get their own moments of clarity before coming together as a team.
I would totally read another book from TJ!
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3.5 rounded up. Great moments, but some super frustrating miscommunication. Loved Nick as a MC, but Eli had his ups and downs for me because of the way he handled some things with Nick. Most side charas were great except for the obvious one that was supposed to be horrible and succeeded in being horrible. 😂 Full RTC.
August 27, 2023
✰4 stars✰
This is a very cute and clever second chance romance! It does take place around the holidays so you could certainly read this as a holiday romance but because it takes place in Florida, it does give off perfect beach or poolside read vibes as well.
Our main character Eli is a comedian so this entire book I’d riddled with witty humor.
Eli is back in his hometown for the holidays, which is a far cry from New York where he has been living. New Port Stevens is certainly not his favorite place in the world, especially with the negative memories and current political climate of Florida. Eli is trans and being back home is a reminder of a lot of things he left behind.
His parents accept him and are certainly trying but they do miss the mark a few times and it does end up being a story of growth between them too.
Nick is a single father living in New Port Stephens, and incidentally, Eli’s high school ex-boyfriend. They run into each-other at the store and reconnect. They hangout and catch up as friends, and it’s clear that Nick has a soft spot for Eli still. He might not realize it’s attraction at first but their connection is definitely noticeable.
Most of this story is them clearly being in love with the other and hiding it because they think the other doesn’t want anything serious. It comes off frustratingly endearing because you want them to admit it to each other already!!
This story is a very lighthearted read with little to no angst. You definitely feel for the characters but you won’t be taken through the wringer of emotions and left out to dry.
It’s funny and feel good with a well deserved happily ever after, which I think is perfect for the story of these characters.
Highly recommend if you’re looking for a sweet ending and some good laughs!
I received an eARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
This is a very cute and clever second chance romance! It does take place around the holidays so you could certainly read this as a holiday romance but because it takes place in Florida, it does give off perfect beach or poolside read vibes as well.
Our main character Eli is a comedian so this entire book I’d riddled with witty humor.
Eli is back in his hometown for the holidays, which is a far cry from New York where he has been living. New Port Stevens is certainly not his favorite place in the world, especially with the negative memories and current political climate of Florida. Eli is trans and being back home is a reminder of a lot of things he left behind.
His parents accept him and are certainly trying but they do miss the mark a few times and it does end up being a story of growth between them too.
Nick is a single father living in New Port Stephens, and incidentally, Eli’s high school ex-boyfriend. They run into each-other at the store and reconnect. They hangout and catch up as friends, and it’s clear that Nick has a soft spot for Eli still. He might not realize it’s attraction at first but their connection is definitely noticeable.
Most of this story is them clearly being in love with the other and hiding it because they think the other doesn’t want anything serious. It comes off frustratingly endearing because you want them to admit it to each other already!!
This story is a very lighthearted read with little to no angst. You definitely feel for the characters but you won’t be taken through the wringer of emotions and left out to dry.
It’s funny and feel good with a well deserved happily ever after, which I think is perfect for the story of these characters.
Highly recommend if you’re looking for a sweet ending and some good laughs!
I received an eARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
July 24, 2023
This is the first book I've read by TJ Alexander, and it definitely won't be my last. I loved this book!!! I loved the overarching theme of how it's never too late to discover who you are and how we are all learning and growing.
In this book we follow Eli, a trans man, coming home for the holidays who runs into his highschool ex and their journey of re-meeting and getting to know each other again.
Maybe it's the millennial in me, but this book was SO relatable on so many levels. The boomer parents, the fucked up things we said and did as kids, the awe of younger generations and how we can learn so much from them. There's something really special when the main characters are in their late 30s, but have known eachother since they were kids. I personally cringe all the time when I think of how I acted/my beliefs when I was in my teens, and TJ really captures that sort of growth/mortification.
I loved all the supporting characters (except Kay). I don't normally love kid characters, but ZOE??? SO cute and funny.
TJ also did a really good job of handling a wide range of topics thoughtfully, and all of the political issues mentioned are present IRL (unfortunately). I loved this, it was so refreshing to read a book that doesn't shy away from a lot of the fucked up realities that make up living in the USA as any sort of minority.
The spice!!!! It was really good, and never felt repetitive (which is how I feel about spice a lot of the time).
Also all the Florida man references made me laugh and the Florida references were perfect.
One thing I didn't love was the cover, but that's just a personal preference.
Thanks to Netgalley and Atria for the ARC!
In this book we follow Eli, a trans man, coming home for the holidays who runs into his highschool ex and their journey of re-meeting and getting to know each other again.
Maybe it's the millennial in me, but this book was SO relatable on so many levels. The boomer parents, the fucked up things we said and did as kids, the awe of younger generations and how we can learn so much from them. There's something really special when the main characters are in their late 30s, but have known eachother since they were kids. I personally cringe all the time when I think of how I acted/my beliefs when I was in my teens, and TJ really captures that sort of growth/mortification.
I loved all the supporting characters (except Kay). I don't normally love kid characters, but ZOE??? SO cute and funny.
TJ also did a really good job of handling a wide range of topics thoughtfully, and all of the political issues mentioned are present IRL (unfortunately). I loved this, it was so refreshing to read a book that doesn't shy away from a lot of the fucked up realities that make up living in the USA as any sort of minority.
The spice!!!! It was really good, and never felt repetitive (which is how I feel about spice a lot of the time).
Also all the Florida man references made me laugh and the Florida references were perfect.
One thing I didn't love was the cover, but that's just a personal preference.
Thanks to Netgalley and Atria for the ARC!
August 27, 2023
4 stars
Thank you, Netgalley and Simon Schuster, for the arc!
Eli is trans, almost 40, and back home in Flordia for the holidays with his family. He's recently lost his job but doesn't want to burden his family with the news. Eli runs into his ex, who he hasn't seen since he transitioned. The two reconnect and begin to spend more time with each other. It turns out you're never too old to discover who you are.
It's always been you
Second chance
Single dad
The authors' note and trigger warnings made me think this book would be a lot heavier and darker, but I was surprised by how light and fun it was. I enjoyed the overall theme that it's never too late to rediscover who you are. I thought TJ handled a wide range of serious topics (transitioning, politics, ew Florida, etc) very thoughtfully, and it never felt out of place. The family drama and antics felt so relatable, some parents have the best of intentions and still mess up, and others never change (I'm looking at you, Kay). This book was a pleasure to read.
Eli is so funny, his inner monolog killed me, and I love how he just says whatever is on his mind. His Florida Man news headline thoughts were some of my favorite.
Nick and his precious daughter stole my heart so fast. I totally get where Eli was coming from and was just as smitten as he was. The spice was good and it felt natural and organic. Eli handled Nick's questions with care and in the end it made my heart melt with how much I adored these two characters. My only complaint was the miscommunication because it could have cleared up a lot if they just talked to each other about how they felt
Thank you, Netgalley and Simon Schuster, for the arc!
Eli is trans, almost 40, and back home in Flordia for the holidays with his family. He's recently lost his job but doesn't want to burden his family with the news. Eli runs into his ex, who he hasn't seen since he transitioned. The two reconnect and begin to spend more time with each other. It turns out you're never too old to discover who you are.
It's always been you
Second chance
Single dad
The authors' note and trigger warnings made me think this book would be a lot heavier and darker, but I was surprised by how light and fun it was. I enjoyed the overall theme that it's never too late to rediscover who you are. I thought TJ handled a wide range of serious topics (transitioning, politics, ew Florida, etc) very thoughtfully, and it never felt out of place. The family drama and antics felt so relatable, some parents have the best of intentions and still mess up, and others never change (I'm looking at you, Kay). This book was a pleasure to read.
Eli is so funny, his inner monolog killed me, and I love how he just says whatever is on his mind. His Florida Man news headline thoughts were some of my favorite.
Nick and his precious daughter stole my heart so fast. I totally get where Eli was coming from and was just as smitten as he was. The spice was good and it felt natural and organic. Eli handled Nick's questions with care and in the end it made my heart melt with how much I adored these two characters. My only complaint was the miscommunication because it could have cleared up a lot if they just talked to each other about how they felt
September 29, 2023
I received a physical early copy of this book via Goodreads Giveaway so as always,many thanks.
Looking for a “second chance” romance? How about one with LBGTQIA+ representation and DILFs?
Ok so first off, I would say this isn’t the type of book I normally read. with that being said, I couldn’t put this book down. The story had me wanting more. Being from Florida myself I thought it felt very authentic.
This book is well written. Characters are great, setting is… Florida. It’s kinda a Christmas book but not one that would feel out of place to read during any season.
I’m not in love with the cover, but that’s alright. It’s all about what’s on the inside that counts. I’ll definitely have to check out other books by this author in the future.
Looking for a “second chance” romance? How about one with LBGTQIA+ representation and DILFs?
Ok so first off, I would say this isn’t the type of book I normally read. with that being said, I couldn’t put this book down. The story had me wanting more. Being from Florida myself I thought it felt very authentic.
This book is well written. Characters are great, setting is… Florida. It’s kinda a Christmas book but not one that would feel out of place to read during any season.
I’m not in love with the cover, but that’s alright. It’s all about what’s on the inside that counts. I’ll definitely have to check out other books by this author in the future.
July 26, 2023
This book is an absolute joy. They are queer! They are middle-aged! One of them is a hot Taiwanese single dad! The other is a trans guy who can never resist a joke! (That’s a compliment.) Both are incredibly obtuse about the other one’s feelings, and they fall in love. (Again.) Truly, what is not to love about that. Aside from the romance, I also loved TJ Alexander’s varied and nuanced depictions of the messy thing that is family, as well as the experience of being queer in a conservative town.
As an Asian American queer person, I think my sleeper favorite character was Tian-Yi, Nick’s dad. He is an absolute legend and to see his relationship with his son was so important to me!!! There is so much to love about Nick and his family: the Hokkien dialect, the delicious food descriptions, Lunar New Year, and I will never forget when Tian-Yi said “Aiya.” Not something I ever thought I would get to read in a trans and queer romance novel, let me tell you. I repeat: LEGEND
I am a huge fan of all of TJ Alexander’s works, and this is such a great addition to the line-up. It is hilarious and heartwarming as always. Loved to see a guy in his 40s exploring his identity and finding himself again; loved the QUEER SEX (and yes it is queer in all caps); loved the many moments in narration that center trans and queer perspectives, continually, throughout the book. It is all so important. As with all their works, I feel so seen as a queer person and I know others will too. Truly can’t wait to read this again when it comes out, and then all their other releases after that ❤️
Thanks very much to NetGalley and Atria for the ARC.
As an Asian American queer person, I think my sleeper favorite character was Tian-Yi, Nick’s dad. He is an absolute legend and to see his relationship with his son was so important to me!!! There is so much to love about Nick and his family: the Hokkien dialect, the delicious food descriptions, Lunar New Year, and I will never forget when Tian-Yi said “Aiya.” Not something I ever thought I would get to read in a trans and queer romance novel, let me tell you. I repeat: LEGEND
I am a huge fan of all of TJ Alexander’s works, and this is such a great addition to the line-up. It is hilarious and heartwarming as always. Loved to see a guy in his 40s exploring his identity and finding himself again; loved the QUEER SEX (and yes it is queer in all caps); loved the many moments in narration that center trans and queer perspectives, continually, throughout the book. It is all so important. As with all their works, I feel so seen as a queer person and I know others will too. Truly can’t wait to read this again when it comes out, and then all their other releases after that ❤️
Thanks very much to NetGalley and Atria for the ARC.
September 14, 2023
(4.5 Stars!)
I LOVED reading this book !
Eli, a trans man, returns to his hometown for Christmas and sparks fly with a former love.
Read For:
-Trans MMC
-Single Dad
-Second Chance Romance
I really enjoyed reading Nick and Eli's second chance! Truly the cutest story with so many laughs! I found the main characters to be endearing and funny. Their story felt relatable and understandable as they've both grown in the decades between their last romance but also each holds and deals with their own demons and insecurities that they're forced to work through.
I also found that the story itself was just so good! The side characters were endearing and so widely accepting and dependable. There are so many great moments throughout like recreating old family pictures, visiting a gay bar, and so many other shenanigans these characters get up to!
My only hang ups with this book were it was at times a bit wordy and also I missed Zoe at the end! I wanted her reaction to the epilogue! Otherwise, this book is a perfect holiday themed, second chance romance that will burrow into your heart.
Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for an advance e-copy in exchange for my honest review.
I LOVED reading this book !
Eli, a trans man, returns to his hometown for Christmas and sparks fly with a former love.
Read For:
-Trans MMC
-Single Dad
-Second Chance Romance
I really enjoyed reading Nick and Eli's second chance! Truly the cutest story with so many laughs! I found the main characters to be endearing and funny. Their story felt relatable and understandable as they've both grown in the decades between their last romance but also each holds and deals with their own demons and insecurities that they're forced to work through.
I also found that the story itself was just so good! The side characters were endearing and so widely accepting and dependable. There are so many great moments throughout like recreating old family pictures, visiting a gay bar, and so many other shenanigans these characters get up to!
My only hang ups with this book were it was at times a bit wordy and also I missed Zoe at the end! I wanted her reaction to the epilogue! Otherwise, this book is a perfect holiday themed, second chance romance that will burrow into your heart.
Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for an advance e-copy in exchange for my honest review.
August 8, 2023
I would like to say a MASSIVE thank you to Atria for sending me this eARC in exchange for an honest review.
This is my first book by this author and it will absolutely not be my last. This book was absolutely incredible. Second chance romance is a personal favorite, and TJ Alexander wrote a perfect example of it.
Second Chances in New Port Stephen follows Eli, a trans comedian down on his luck, and Nick, a single father just trying his hardest. The two dated in high school, and after running into one another at a liquor store, it’s like hardly any time passed. After getting reacquainted, Nick begins to question what his feelings for Eli mean as a “straight” man.
This was SUCH a beautiful book full of discovering yourself later in life. There were so many awesome examples between Eli, Nick and Jamar. I loved seeing these people come to terms with who they are and it’s almost like you could feel them inhale, the joy was palpable in this book. Seeing these two men fall right back into each other had me giggling and kicking my feet.
If you’re looking for an actually HILARIOUS, heartwarming celebration of queer love (scratch that, love in general), look no further.
This is my first book by this author and it will absolutely not be my last. This book was absolutely incredible. Second chance romance is a personal favorite, and TJ Alexander wrote a perfect example of it.
Second Chances in New Port Stephen follows Eli, a trans comedian down on his luck, and Nick, a single father just trying his hardest. The two dated in high school, and after running into one another at a liquor store, it’s like hardly any time passed. After getting reacquainted, Nick begins to question what his feelings for Eli mean as a “straight” man.
This was SUCH a beautiful book full of discovering yourself later in life. There were so many awesome examples between Eli, Nick and Jamar. I loved seeing these people come to terms with who they are and it’s almost like you could feel them inhale, the joy was palpable in this book. Seeing these two men fall right back into each other had me giggling and kicking my feet.
If you’re looking for an actually HILARIOUS, heartwarming celebration of queer love (scratch that, love in general), look no further.
September 18, 2023
Second Chances in New Port Stephen is a new favorite and truly a delight. From the moment I picked it up, I couldn't put it down, and actually wound up reading it in one sitting.
As someone who is trans, myself, it frames a very realistic world for the current situation in Florida, as well as the reality of being a trans person a time in history when our safety and rights are on shaky ground. Second Chances doesn't gloss over any of this, but doesn't doomsday our situation either - opting to pull in and showcase opportunities of authentic, unabashed trans and queer joy; of unconditional acceptance; of healing trauma; of embracing new discoveries, even later in life.
Eli is a delight, and one of the greatest trans characters I've ever encountered. He isn't encumbered by his gender identity, but like every trans person, he deals with the day-to-day microaggressions and social faux pas that are often (for lack of choice) navigated with so much grace and patience. These experiences were plucked right out of my own mind and life. Yes, you can be a fully realized, fully out and proud trans character, and still get swept in a rip current of dysphoria and "gender angst" (for lack of a better way of putting it) when you least expect it - especially when encountered with your past. TJ Alexander walks this fine line splendidly and even seeks to repair the trauma Eli has experienced; for this reason alone, Second Chances is a must-read for trans people.
As someone who is also in my late 30s (the same as Eli and Nick), so much of this book personally resonated with me. Beyond just the queer and trans journey, I could completely relate to where they are in life - neither old nor young, emotionally mature but still growing and learning, planted firmly in adulthood but still stuck in seemingly quarter-life crisis situations. TJ Alexander writes it with so much nuance and authenticity that I was quite literally transported into a world - into a family - I didn't want to let go of.
The truth is, Eli and Nick could be my friends. So could several of the supporting characters, who are individual and rooted in the very real world TJ Alexander is framing, and in turn, feel like every day, normal people. Even one less savory character feels (unfortunately) settled in reality; or their own lack of reality, as it were. Nick's daughter Zoe, as well as Nick and Zoe's overall dynamic, is truly beautiful.
As for the two leads: Eli and Nick feel settled in, familiar, with a shared, unspoken history and natural chemistry. In the end, their reunion and ultimate coming together are well-earned and fought for and so rewarding as a reader.
This book also explores different types of queer identity, particularly genderqueerness and demisexuality/asexuality; mostly from the lens of older coming out experiences. As someone who experienced something very similar, it was gratifying and therapeutic as hell to see people like myself fully realized on a page, layered and likable and even someone to root for.
I read Second Chances in September, but would recommend this book at any time of year for anyone wanting a touch of Christmas or the holidays. This book almost feels incidentally set at Christmas, but could be enjoyed at any time of the year. This is a book I plan to return to time and time again, and purchase when it hits shelves.
The acknowledgment at the end of the book was equally wonderful, emotional, and well needed. I can only hope this time in history is a blip, but stories like these make it a bit easier.
Thank you to NetGalley and Atria Books for providing me with an eARC in exchange for an honest review.
Rating: 5/5
As someone who is trans, myself, it frames a very realistic world for the current situation in Florida, as well as the reality of being a trans person a time in history when our safety and rights are on shaky ground. Second Chances doesn't gloss over any of this, but doesn't doomsday our situation either - opting to pull in and showcase opportunities of authentic, unabashed trans and queer joy; of unconditional acceptance; of healing trauma; of embracing new discoveries, even later in life.
Eli is a delight, and one of the greatest trans characters I've ever encountered. He isn't encumbered by his gender identity, but like every trans person, he deals with the day-to-day microaggressions and social faux pas that are often (for lack of choice) navigated with so much grace and patience. These experiences were plucked right out of my own mind and life. Yes, you can be a fully realized, fully out and proud trans character, and still get swept in a rip current of dysphoria and "gender angst" (for lack of a better way of putting it) when you least expect it - especially when encountered with your past. TJ Alexander walks this fine line splendidly and even seeks to repair the trauma Eli has experienced; for this reason alone, Second Chances is a must-read for trans people.
As someone who is also in my late 30s (the same as Eli and Nick), so much of this book personally resonated with me. Beyond just the queer and trans journey, I could completely relate to where they are in life - neither old nor young, emotionally mature but still growing and learning, planted firmly in adulthood but still stuck in seemingly quarter-life crisis situations. TJ Alexander writes it with so much nuance and authenticity that I was quite literally transported into a world - into a family - I didn't want to let go of.
The truth is, Eli and Nick could be my friends. So could several of the supporting characters, who are individual and rooted in the very real world TJ Alexander is framing, and in turn, feel like every day, normal people. Even one less savory character feels (unfortunately) settled in reality; or their own lack of reality, as it were. Nick's daughter Zoe, as well as Nick and Zoe's overall dynamic, is truly beautiful.
As for the two leads: Eli and Nick feel settled in, familiar, with a shared, unspoken history and natural chemistry. In the end, their reunion and ultimate coming together are well-earned and fought for and so rewarding as a reader.
This book also explores different types of queer identity, particularly genderqueerness and demisexuality/asexuality; mostly from the lens of older coming out experiences. As someone who experienced something very similar, it was gratifying and therapeutic as hell to see people like myself fully realized on a page, layered and likable and even someone to root for.
I read Second Chances in September, but would recommend this book at any time of year for anyone wanting a touch of Christmas or the holidays. This book almost feels incidentally set at Christmas, but could be enjoyed at any time of the year. This is a book I plan to return to time and time again, and purchase when it hits shelves.
The acknowledgment at the end of the book was equally wonderful, emotional, and well needed. I can only hope this time in history is a blip, but stories like these make it a bit easier.
Thank you to NetGalley and Atria Books for providing me with an eARC in exchange for an honest review.
Rating: 5/5
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August 2, 2023I was thrilled to receive a review copy of Second Chances in New Port Stephen via Netgalley, as I adored TJ Alexander's previous novels, Chef's Kiss and Chef's Choice. Their writing was every bit as engaging and entertaining in this novel, and I appreciate that moments of levity and joy were offset by the incredibly challenging political and social climate 2SLGBTQIA+ folks experience at present. I thoroughly enjoyed reading Eli and Nick's story, the nostalgia of first love enriched and enhanced by the experience of time apart to fully understand themselves was beautiful to witness. As someone in their 40's I really appreciated that the story centered on protagonists quickly approaching 40 as I find that this is an under-represented age group, especially in the romance genre. I loved reading about Nick's journey with his queer identity, as this is something I have personally experienced over the past couple of years. Our experiences with this are different, but the feeling is the same and reading about Nick's journey in such an open, honest way brought me so much comfort and affirmation. This is why representation is so important, everyone should be able to see their experience laid out in literature, especially when this experience is depicted as a source of joy and celebration. Yes there are difficult experiences - but the LGBTQIA+ joy TJ Alexander's books provide help to offset this and give queer folks with queer kids such as myself hope for the future.
August 2, 2023
I was thrilled to receive a review copy of Second Chances in New Port Stephen via Netgalley, as I adored TJ Alexander's previous novels, Chef's Kiss and Chef's Choice. Their writing was every bit as engaging and entertaining in this novel, and I appreciate that moments of levity and joy were offset by the incredibly challenging political and social climate 2SLGBTQIA+ folks experience at present. I thoroughly enjoyed reading Eli and Nick's story, the nostalgia of first love enriched and enhanced by the experience of time apart to fully understand themselves was beautiful to witness. As someone in their 40's I really appreciated that the story centered on protagonists quickly approaching 40 as I find that this is an under-represented age group, especially in the romance genre. I loved reading about Nick's journey with his queer identity, as this is something I have personally experienced over the past couple of years. Our experiences with this are different, but the feeling is the same and reading about Nick's journey in such an open, honest way brought me so much comfort and affirmation. This is why representation is so important, everyone should be able to see their experience laid out in literature, especially when this experience is depicted as a source of joy and celebration. Yes there are difficult experiences - but the LGBTQIA+ l joy TJ Alexander's books provide help to offset this and give queer folks with queer kids such as myself hope for the future.
September 10, 2023
There are many things to love about this book! First, the protagonists are almost 40. I love that they are aging people who are finding love and making changes in theirs lives. Second, there is a trans man main character who is almost 40. The sense that he came to the place where he could be his gender in his 30s and be very settled in his skin. His characterization as such felt very real. Third, Nick is a great dad. The parenting and co-parenting with his ex was very beautifully handled. Lastly, this book is set in modern day Florida, a place infamous for its anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation right now. I feel like that was a brave choice and a good one. This book shows (which I'm sure is true in reality) that there are many people in Florida who do not support the current governor's war on - may I say? - everyone who is not white and cishet. I really enjoyed this story and will highly recommend it to readers who love LGBTQIA+ romance.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of this book!
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of this book!
July 26, 2023
This friends to lovers second chance romance was incredibly sweet and a joy to read. Yes, there were hard parts, but nothing that real versions of these characters wouldn’t be dealing with.
I really liked that this starred characters in their almost 40’s. Eli and Nick felt very much their age. They both had struggles that were extremely relatable to Xennials.
I also appreciated how careful the author was with word choices. (Some characters said some terrible things, yes, but those were an intentional part of the story.)
The use of reminiscing to show character growth was lovely. Reading how their relationship grew from first love to their second chance, while letting memories shine through, was extremely well done.
This is my favorite work of the author so far. I definitely recommend.
Thanks to NetGalley and Atria Books for an arc of this book which I voluntarily read and reviewed. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
I really liked that this starred characters in their almost 40’s. Eli and Nick felt very much their age. They both had struggles that were extremely relatable to Xennials.
I also appreciated how careful the author was with word choices. (Some characters said some terrible things, yes, but those were an intentional part of the story.)
The use of reminiscing to show character growth was lovely. Reading how their relationship grew from first love to their second chance, while letting memories shine through, was extremely well done.
This is my favorite work of the author so far. I definitely recommend.
Thanks to NetGalley and Atria Books for an arc of this book which I voluntarily read and reviewed. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
August 13, 2023
Overall, I really enjoyed this! TJ Alexander is a great writer and knows how to create an immersive storyworld and vivid characters right off the bat. The holiday vibes were perfect and it’s always a treat to get representation with older queer characters who get happy endings! Nick was the highlight of the book for me and I thought his arc was complex, interesting, and had me cheering for him the whole way. What brings this down a star for me is, unfortunately, the main character. While I really wanted to like Eli, I just couldn’t get past how poorly he treats everyone around him. That said, I still found the main romance to be really great and full of awesome chemistry. I’m also not a big fan of misunderstanding as a trope, but, genuinely, TJ Alexander’s writing makes it forgivable. I blew through this in two sittings. It’s immensely readable.
Thank you to Atria and NetGalley for the ARC!! This was such a fun read.
Thank you to Atria and NetGalley for the ARC!! This was such a fun read.
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July 25, 2023every trans masc has at least one button up that matches this cover precisely
Want to read
September 20, 2023Omg! I won a copy of this and didn’t get the notification so I had no idea why it showed up 🫣 thank you so much to Goodreads and Simon & Schuster!!!!
September 4, 2023
That's 3/3 of TJ Alexander books that have blown my expectations out of the water. No one writes such consistently real and personable and engrossing trans and queer stories. In each of their books, they bring such compassion and nuance to the intersectional queer identities that are so underserved. The queer questioning in their thirties millennials, one of them Asian-American, is just so well done. That experience personally resonates for me, as does the Florida setting, in the current climate, with families that are trying their best despite the hostility against queer and trans people. I never understood the appeal of second chance romances until this one, but it may be an exception because it subverts the trope to serve the trans and questioning narrative journeys. Also, the writing is just so funny and engaging, I actually read it all in one sitting. Glad for the Netgalley ARC, but can't wait to reread as an audiobook upon release.
May 28, 2023
A fun and flirty book about reconnecting with past loves after decades of life changes. I loved the unpacking of Eli’s past and care the author took to address some difficult topics. This book doesn’t shy away from the nuances of trying to exist in America’s political climate and I deeply appreciated the honesty of this book. As a bonus, the supporting characters are fantastic (Zoe!) and it weaves its way to an ending that feels authentic yet satisfying. This is my second book by this author and eager to read more of their work!
July 24, 2023
First: Eli is the best-written transmasc character I’ve read in romance, and the best one in any genre I’ve read in years. I say “in years” instead of “ever, period” mostly because as an aging millennial like Eli, my memory is probably not what it was and it’s theoretically possible I’ve read more relatable trans guys in fiction.
But not likely?
That’s a ridiculously roundabout way of saying that Second Chances in New Port Stephen is absolutely phenomenal, and after tearing through the ARC I received from Netgalley (it’s still available as of this writing!), I already know I’ll be reading it again and am very excited about the announced audiobook version. Just kidding, that hasn’t been announced yet, but I’m going to just speak it into reality now.
The book is set in Florida around Christmas, and focuses on a trans masc MC, Eli, and his cis former boyfriend from high school, Nick, who are meeting up again after Eli returns to spend the holidays with his family for… reasons. It’s been more than twenty years since Eli left Florida and the breakup was hard for both of them, so a good portion of their dialogue and encounters weave together nostalgia and reminiscing with both of them trying to relearn how to relate to each other. Because these are both older millennials, they’re also dealing with children (Nick has a four year old with his ex-wife) and aging parents and extended families, holiday gatherings, and realizing your knees aren’t what they once were. Alexander offers a perfect snapshot of this weird generational moment for many, and makes it at once hilarious and poignant and, occasionally, a bit heartbreaking.
The characters have depth and what feels like fully realized lives outside of just their relationship, and neither of them are in this story to “save” the other person. The families that surround them feel three-dimensional, with careers and friends and romances of their own. And unpopular though it may be to say, there was just enough of Nick’s child in the book to give bring her character to light and help flesh out the shape of his family without detracting (maybe it’s just me, but more often than not it feels like children in these books hinder rather than help the story). There also don’t appear to be any perfect parents in this book, DILF included, which is kind of a nice change of pace after so many gay romances where the single widower dad is also the perfect father.
And in the midst of all this awkwardness and heartbreak and angst and will-they-won’t-they-Florida-Man-jokes, you have lines like this:
They were treading water farther from shore now, the light of the stars and planets lining the crests of the black waves in white.
I can’t. Just take my money already. For the audiobook too - the one that’s definitely, probably, absolutely happening.
But not likely?
That’s a ridiculously roundabout way of saying that Second Chances in New Port Stephen is absolutely phenomenal, and after tearing through the ARC I received from Netgalley (it’s still available as of this writing!), I already know I’ll be reading it again and am very excited about the announced audiobook version. Just kidding, that hasn’t been announced yet, but I’m going to just speak it into reality now.
The book is set in Florida around Christmas, and focuses on a trans masc MC, Eli, and his cis former boyfriend from high school, Nick, who are meeting up again after Eli returns to spend the holidays with his family for… reasons. It’s been more than twenty years since Eli left Florida and the breakup was hard for both of them, so a good portion of their dialogue and encounters weave together nostalgia and reminiscing with both of them trying to relearn how to relate to each other. Because these are both older millennials, they’re also dealing with children (Nick has a four year old with his ex-wife) and aging parents and extended families, holiday gatherings, and realizing your knees aren’t what they once were. Alexander offers a perfect snapshot of this weird generational moment for many, and makes it at once hilarious and poignant and, occasionally, a bit heartbreaking.
The characters have depth and what feels like fully realized lives outside of just their relationship, and neither of them are in this story to “save” the other person. The families that surround them feel three-dimensional, with careers and friends and romances of their own. And unpopular though it may be to say, there was just enough of Nick’s child in the book to give bring her character to light and help flesh out the shape of his family without detracting (maybe it’s just me, but more often than not it feels like children in these books hinder rather than help the story). There also don’t appear to be any perfect parents in this book, DILF included, which is kind of a nice change of pace after so many gay romances where the single widower dad is also the perfect father.
And in the midst of all this awkwardness and heartbreak and angst and will-they-won’t-they-Florida-Man-jokes, you have lines like this:
They were treading water farther from shore now, the light of the stars and planets lining the crests of the black waves in white.
I can’t. Just take my money already. For the audiobook too - the one that’s definitely, probably, absolutely happening.
September 6, 2023
Thank you Netgalley and Atria Books for the Arc!
3.5💫
Words cannot begin to describe how much this book meant to me. As an avid romance reader, I find it frustrating after a while not seeing characters like myself in the stories. So imagine my excitement when I find out there's a Christmas romcom (one of my favorite guilty pleasures) with a trans-masc main character. While the execution was quite lacking in my opinion, I'm absolutely willing to let it slide, as I don't know if I've ever connected to a character in a romcom novel as much as I did in this one. While it's great that there's some awesome trans-masc rep in young adult as of late (and they're absolutely lovely!), it's so wonderful to get some trans spicy content that was done well.
Something that I so appreciated about this book that there was some politics and hurdles of existing as a trans person included, but in a way that was balanced beautifully with humor. I am often hesitant to read books with trans characters or about the trans experience as it often feels like they're intended to educate those who don't live this life, rather than as being written for trans people. But the politics were never excessive, and the experience of encountering these issues was written in a very accurate and relatable way. I also really appreciate the scenes where Eli and his parents struggle to see eye to eye on issues, especially that baby picture scene. Those scenes captured perfectly the struggle of having a different experience and perspective as the person who transitioned in contrast to those of your loved ones, and at the same time while these issues come up, there are ways to correct in a respectful manner. In short, the trans experience was executed wonderfully.
While I really enjoyed this book, there were still some flaws that I couldn't ignore no matter how much I wanted to. Firstly, I think writing a character who's a comedian can be a tricky business, as they have to be funny. Unfortunately, for me Eli did not come across as funny, nor did what he found funny. On a general note, this book lacked the com, and I found myself rolling my eyes somewhat frequently. Similarly, the way the characters talked felt very stilted and forced. Of course, I don't read romcoms for their realistic portrayal, but it was to the extent that I was taken out of the story by how off the dialogue felt to me. These two elements combined made it so that the characters felt somewhat flat, and that I couldn't relate to them, even with all our shared similarities.
3.5💫
Words cannot begin to describe how much this book meant to me. As an avid romance reader, I find it frustrating after a while not seeing characters like myself in the stories. So imagine my excitement when I find out there's a Christmas romcom (one of my favorite guilty pleasures) with a trans-masc main character. While the execution was quite lacking in my opinion, I'm absolutely willing to let it slide, as I don't know if I've ever connected to a character in a romcom novel as much as I did in this one. While it's great that there's some awesome trans-masc rep in young adult as of late (and they're absolutely lovely!), it's so wonderful to get some trans spicy content that was done well.
Something that I so appreciated about this book that there was some politics and hurdles of existing as a trans person included, but in a way that was balanced beautifully with humor. I am often hesitant to read books with trans characters or about the trans experience as it often feels like they're intended to educate those who don't live this life, rather than as being written for trans people. But the politics were never excessive, and the experience of encountering these issues was written in a very accurate and relatable way. I also really appreciate the scenes where Eli and his parents struggle to see eye to eye on issues, especially that baby picture scene. Those scenes captured perfectly the struggle of having a different experience and perspective as the person who transitioned in contrast to those of your loved ones, and at the same time while these issues come up, there are ways to correct in a respectful manner. In short, the trans experience was executed wonderfully.
While I really enjoyed this book, there were still some flaws that I couldn't ignore no matter how much I wanted to. Firstly, I think writing a character who's a comedian can be a tricky business, as they have to be funny. Unfortunately, for me Eli did not come across as funny, nor did what he found funny. On a general note, this book lacked the com, and I found myself rolling my eyes somewhat frequently. Similarly, the way the characters talked felt very stilted and forced. Of course, I don't read romcoms for their realistic portrayal, but it was to the extent that I was taken out of the story by how off the dialogue felt to me. These two elements combined made it so that the characters felt somewhat flat, and that I couldn't relate to them, even with all our shared similarities.
July 26, 2023
Eli Ward hasn't returned home to New Port Stephen, Florida, since his transition 8 years ago, but now that his comedy career has tanked thanks to scandal, he just wants to get through the holidays with his well-meaning but misguided family. Of course, returning home means running into his past, and it's not long before Eli bumps into his high school boyfriend, Nick Wu, a divorced dad to Zoe (age 4). Eli thinks Nick is hotter than ever but must be completely straight, while Nick realizes that he still loves Eli, which sets him off on a thoughtful exploration of his own sexuality. But can they find a meeting of the minds -- and hearts -- in a state where Eli's very existence as a trans man is threatened by the government?
Alexander's latest book explores some of the nuances of establishing one's trans identity, especially with people from a pre-transition life. For example, while Eli's parents offer their verbal support and love, Eli has to point out that some of their actions (like holding on to several photos of pre-transition Eli) have the impact of making him feel unseen. But some of those nuances can be internalized, like how Eli can't seem to see Nick as anything but a straight guy since Nick's only relationships have been with people assigned female at birth. Eli and Nick's relationship suffers at times from lack of clear communication, based on assumptions like those, and it takes time for them to express themselves openly.
These two main characters get support from great side characters: Eli's friend Margo is brash and blunt and funny but always loving, and Nick's ex-wife Laurie provides acceptance and suggestions for Nick to help him reconsider his own sexuality. Little Zoe is, of course, a treat -- funny and feisty and totally accepting of Eli as Daddy's friend.
Beautifully imperfect characters with a moderately steamy level of attraction (and sex) and a bumpy journey to the HEA are hallmarks of Alexander's writing, and this book has all that along with heartfelt notes on the transphobic trend of legislation in the US today. 4 stars.
CW: rise of transphobic legislation, loss of parent in an accident, alcoholism, discussions of racism
Thank you, Atria and NetGalley, for providing an eARC of this book. Opinions expressed here are solely my own.
Alexander's latest book explores some of the nuances of establishing one's trans identity, especially with people from a pre-transition life. For example, while Eli's parents offer their verbal support and love, Eli has to point out that some of their actions (like holding on to several photos of pre-transition Eli) have the impact of making him feel unseen. But some of those nuances can be internalized, like how Eli can't seem to see Nick as anything but a straight guy since Nick's only relationships have been with people assigned female at birth. Eli and Nick's relationship suffers at times from lack of clear communication, based on assumptions like those, and it takes time for them to express themselves openly.
These two main characters get support from great side characters: Eli's friend Margo is brash and blunt and funny but always loving, and Nick's ex-wife Laurie provides acceptance and suggestions for Nick to help him reconsider his own sexuality. Little Zoe is, of course, a treat -- funny and feisty and totally accepting of Eli as Daddy's friend.
Beautifully imperfect characters with a moderately steamy level of attraction (and sex) and a bumpy journey to the HEA are hallmarks of Alexander's writing, and this book has all that along with heartfelt notes on the transphobic trend of legislation in the US today. 4 stars.
CW: rise of transphobic legislation, loss of parent in an accident, alcoholism, discussions of racism
Thank you, Atria and NetGalley, for providing an eARC of this book. Opinions expressed here are solely my own.
July 31, 2023
✏️ Author: TJ Alexander
📅 Pub Date: December 5, 2023
A queer love story! Trans AND almost 40 year old representation! A sexy Asian single dad and a white trans man comedian! Literally those three sentences should be enough for you to pick this one up, but for those who need a little more persuasion....
Eli and Nick (NOT Nicholas!) were friends from elementary school and dated in high school. They broke up at their high school graduation and went their separate ways. Eli to come out as a trans man and become a comedian in New York. Nick to stay in Florida and get married (and divorced) and have a daughter. Eli comes home to Florida under the guise of Christmas, when really his professional life is in shambles. He's sublet his apartment and is unsure when he'll go back to New York. Nick is a restaurant manager. After meeting up again by chance, these two fall in love. Only, it's not quite that simple. Nick thought he was straight. But now having feelings for a trans man has him questioning his whole identity.
These boys are truly some of my favorites! Eli never lets a good joke pass him by, and Nick is one of the sweetest most open hearted MCs I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. While at its core this is truly a love story, it most definitely doesn't shy away from hard truths. Florida for instance. What a mine field that one is. 😪 Right this minute politician's in Florida are working hard to take away rights from the queer community and women. As a lifelong Florida resident trust me I know. I also just moved away so... But this book doesn't shy away from addressing those topics head on. Also gender identity. Sexuality. We even get the lovely gift of an open door sexual encounter! And trust me it's 🔥. TJ Alexander is a force to be reckoned with and this book just proves it. It's beautiful and sappy and perfect and hard. Just like life. And thank Goddess for actual older characters! We're not all 20 anymore and it's nice to know other wake up with stiff joints too. Even if we're still in our 30s. 😂
🌟 Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5
I received an advanced copy for free and am leaving this review voluntarily. Thank you to TJ Alexander, NetGalley, and Atria Books!
📅 Pub Date: December 5, 2023
A queer love story! Trans AND almost 40 year old representation! A sexy Asian single dad and a white trans man comedian! Literally those three sentences should be enough for you to pick this one up, but for those who need a little more persuasion....
Eli and Nick (NOT Nicholas!) were friends from elementary school and dated in high school. They broke up at their high school graduation and went their separate ways. Eli to come out as a trans man and become a comedian in New York. Nick to stay in Florida and get married (and divorced) and have a daughter. Eli comes home to Florida under the guise of Christmas, when really his professional life is in shambles. He's sublet his apartment and is unsure when he'll go back to New York. Nick is a restaurant manager. After meeting up again by chance, these two fall in love. Only, it's not quite that simple. Nick thought he was straight. But now having feelings for a trans man has him questioning his whole identity.
These boys are truly some of my favorites! Eli never lets a good joke pass him by, and Nick is one of the sweetest most open hearted MCs I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. While at its core this is truly a love story, it most definitely doesn't shy away from hard truths. Florida for instance. What a mine field that one is. 😪 Right this minute politician's in Florida are working hard to take away rights from the queer community and women. As a lifelong Florida resident trust me I know. I also just moved away so... But this book doesn't shy away from addressing those topics head on. Also gender identity. Sexuality. We even get the lovely gift of an open door sexual encounter! And trust me it's 🔥. TJ Alexander is a force to be reckoned with and this book just proves it. It's beautiful and sappy and perfect and hard. Just like life. And thank Goddess for actual older characters! We're not all 20 anymore and it's nice to know other wake up with stiff joints too. Even if we're still in our 30s. 😂
🌟 Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5
I received an advanced copy for free and am leaving this review voluntarily. Thank you to TJ Alexander, NetGalley, and Atria Books!
July 28, 2023
I love TJ Alexander's books, and this one blew me away! I was swept up with Eli and Nick's love story. There were so many layers to their romance, and all of it was handled with love and care. I thought that this was a beautiful second chance romance story about two people who dated when they were in high school. They are both now 40 years old. Nick is a divorced, single dad, and Eli is a trans man who is back home in Florida to visit his family.
Nick and Eli haven't seen each other in years, but when they meet up at a liquor store, they still feel that connection that they felt their entire lives. They might be different people who have grown and changed over the years, but they can't fight that they have a deep connection and love for each other. They were each other's firsts, and the bond that they have is evident right from the start.
I loved the way that Nick's daughter, Zoe, added to the story because she immediately was drawn to Eli. He was so adorable with her, and I loved how much of a role family played in the story.
Eli's parents mean well, but they don't fully understand how he feels. When he returns home, he sees pictures of him when he was a child, but to him, that person doesn't exist anymore. The way that his parents handled the situation with the pictures was so sweet, and it made me tear up.
Eli and Nick's relationship was so beautiful because it shows you that no matter what you age is, you can still learn things about yourself. I'm the same age as the characters in the book, and I can really relate to being an older millennial and still learning things about myself. There was some steaminess in this book, and it felt so passionate and full of love. Nick and Eli were rediscovering each other, and it was so real.
Thanks to NetGalley and Atria for an ARC of this book.
Nick and Eli haven't seen each other in years, but when they meet up at a liquor store, they still feel that connection that they felt their entire lives. They might be different people who have grown and changed over the years, but they can't fight that they have a deep connection and love for each other. They were each other's firsts, and the bond that they have is evident right from the start.
I loved the way that Nick's daughter, Zoe, added to the story because she immediately was drawn to Eli. He was so adorable with her, and I loved how much of a role family played in the story.
Eli's parents mean well, but they don't fully understand how he feels. When he returns home, he sees pictures of him when he was a child, but to him, that person doesn't exist anymore. The way that his parents handled the situation with the pictures was so sweet, and it made me tear up.
Eli and Nick's relationship was so beautiful because it shows you that no matter what you age is, you can still learn things about yourself. I'm the same age as the characters in the book, and I can really relate to being an older millennial and still learning things about myself. There was some steaminess in this book, and it felt so passionate and full of love. Nick and Eli were rediscovering each other, and it was so real.
Thanks to NetGalley and Atria for an ARC of this book.
August 15, 2023
Glad to get a copy of this from NetGalley.
I am quickly becoming a T.J. Alexander fan. I've read both Chef's Kiss and Chef's Choice in the last year and continue to enjoy the representation that T.J. Alexander puts in these books. The most significant part of that representation, for me, is seeing LGBTQ joy/normalcy. In this book we follow middle-aged (so normal!) Nick and Eli who dated in high school and find themselves back in the same small Florida town where they grew up (so normal!) Eli is a trans comedian who just lost a job in television and is foundering and Nick is a divorced Dad trying to make things work at a local restaurant. The two reconnect and help each other grow. Of course, they fall in love (again) along the way. So cute.
I will say things almost felt too easy at times for me. I could have used a little more (external OR internal) conflict around making sense of sexuality, family dynamics and moving/job stuff. The market is certainly oversaturated by the LGTBQ stories where things are SUPER difficult and sad but this almost took the easy of things a little too far for me. I think whether we're following LGBTQ characters or not we all spend a lot of time in our heads/with our friends/families trying to puzzle out complicated issues that come up and I didn't feel like there was quite enough of that in this book. There was also repeated mention of the reality of living in a place like Florida as a queer person in our current times but I could have used a little more of that as well because it is certainly a reality that far too many folks are having to navigate.
Overall, I enjoyed this read but not quite as much as Alexander's previous books. I will certainly eagerly continue to pick up what they put out in to the world.
I am quickly becoming a T.J. Alexander fan. I've read both Chef's Kiss and Chef's Choice in the last year and continue to enjoy the representation that T.J. Alexander puts in these books. The most significant part of that representation, for me, is seeing LGBTQ joy/normalcy. In this book we follow middle-aged (so normal!) Nick and Eli who dated in high school and find themselves back in the same small Florida town where they grew up (so normal!) Eli is a trans comedian who just lost a job in television and is foundering and Nick is a divorced Dad trying to make things work at a local restaurant. The two reconnect and help each other grow. Of course, they fall in love (again) along the way. So cute.
I will say things almost felt too easy at times for me. I could have used a little more (external OR internal) conflict around making sense of sexuality, family dynamics and moving/job stuff. The market is certainly oversaturated by the LGTBQ stories where things are SUPER difficult and sad but this almost took the easy of things a little too far for me. I think whether we're following LGBTQ characters or not we all spend a lot of time in our heads/with our friends/families trying to puzzle out complicated issues that come up and I didn't feel like there was quite enough of that in this book. There was also repeated mention of the reality of living in a place like Florida as a queer person in our current times but I could have used a little more of that as well because it is certainly a reality that far too many folks are having to navigate.
Overall, I enjoyed this read but not quite as much as Alexander's previous books. I will certainly eagerly continue to pick up what they put out in to the world.
August 1, 2023
I received a copy of "Second Chances in New Port Stephen" from Netgalley for review.
I think I officially love holiday romances-- "Second Chances in New Port Stephen" by TJ Alexander is so damn good. Eli, a trans man, returns to his hometown of New Port Stephen, FL. for the holidays, much to his chagrin. His career might be over, his NY apartment is subletted, and he has no idea what waits for him in Florida except a transphobic government and his well-meaning family. After running into his ex and rekindling their friendship, Eli realizes there might be something left for him in New Port Stephen after all.
"Second Chances in New Port Stephen" is a second chance, queer holiday romance with plenty of funny and tender moments, and a HEA.
I'm not usually a fan of the single parent trope in romance novels, but Nick's relationship with his daughter, and subsequently, Eli's relationship with Nick's daughter was so well written that the story absolutely would have been missing something without it. Watching the feelings rekindle and spark between Nick and Eli was so beautiful, it was clear from the start how much they used to mean to each other, and easily they could begin to have that again. Nick's queer awakening and new sexual experiences with Eli were written perfectly. The care and consideration that was put into Nick's character and all of the intimacy between these two men made every scene complete.
Loved, loved, loved this book-- new fave holiday read for sure!
I think I officially love holiday romances-- "Second Chances in New Port Stephen" by TJ Alexander is so damn good. Eli, a trans man, returns to his hometown of New Port Stephen, FL. for the holidays, much to his chagrin. His career might be over, his NY apartment is subletted, and he has no idea what waits for him in Florida except a transphobic government and his well-meaning family. After running into his ex and rekindling their friendship, Eli realizes there might be something left for him in New Port Stephen after all.
"Second Chances in New Port Stephen" is a second chance, queer holiday romance with plenty of funny and tender moments, and a HEA.
I'm not usually a fan of the single parent trope in romance novels, but Nick's relationship with his daughter, and subsequently, Eli's relationship with Nick's daughter was so well written that the story absolutely would have been missing something without it. Watching the feelings rekindle and spark between Nick and Eli was so beautiful, it was clear from the start how much they used to mean to each other, and easily they could begin to have that again. Nick's queer awakening and new sexual experiences with Eli were written perfectly. The care and consideration that was put into Nick's character and all of the intimacy between these two men made every scene complete.
Loved, loved, loved this book-- new fave holiday read for sure!
August 1, 2023
I think I officially love holiday romances-- "Second Chances in New Port Stephen" by TJ Alexander is so damn good. Eli, a trans man, returns to his hometown of New Port Stephen, FL. for the holidays, much to his chagrin. His career might be over, his NY apartment is subletted, and he has no idea what waits for him in Florida except a transphobic government and his well-meaning family. After running into his ex and rekindling their friendship, Eli realizes there might be something left for him in New Port Stephen after all.
"Second Chances in New Port Stephen" is a second chance, queer holiday romance with plenty of funny and tender moments, and a HEA.
I'm not usually a fan of the single parent trope in romance novels, but Nick's relationship with his daughter, and subsequently, Eli's relationship with Nick's daughter was so well written that the story absolutely would have been missing something without it. Watching the feelings rekindle and spark between Nick and Eli was so beautiful, it was clear from the start how much they used to mean to each other, and easily they could begin to have that again. Nick's queer awakening and new sexual experiences with Eli were written perfectly. The care and consideration that was put into Nick's character and all of the intimacy between these two men made every scene complete.
Loved, loved, loved this book-- new fave holiday read for sure!
"Second Chances in New Port Stephen" is a second chance, queer holiday romance with plenty of funny and tender moments, and a HEA.
I'm not usually a fan of the single parent trope in romance novels, but Nick's relationship with his daughter, and subsequently, Eli's relationship with Nick's daughter was so well written that the story absolutely would have been missing something without it. Watching the feelings rekindle and spark between Nick and Eli was so beautiful, it was clear from the start how much they used to mean to each other, and easily they could begin to have that again. Nick's queer awakening and new sexual experiences with Eli were written perfectly. The care and consideration that was put into Nick's character and all of the intimacy between these two men made every scene complete.
Loved, loved, loved this book-- new fave holiday read for sure!
August 16, 2023
This book is excellent. I read it on the beach (in Delaware not Florida) and then went back to a rental house in a soulless suburb with tacky lawn decor and MAGA flags. I felt like I was really getting the full experience. If you can go to a mediocre east coast beach to read this book I would highly recommend it.
Despite being 15 years younger, I really resonated with the lead characters here. I'm white and genderfluid and my partner is a Chinese-American man who is only queer by association with me. Nick calls Eli a troglodyte for not making his bed; my partner called me a truffle pig for not folding my laundry last week. I'm constantly clowning, and my partner is a funny man without even trying. I felt very seen by this relationship dynamic.
The amount of will-they-won't-they is a bit annoying, and reminds me why contemporary romance isn't generally my cup of tea, but it was manageable. The setting and the fact that both of the leads are full adults with adult responsibilities that had to be navigated outside of their feelings for each other did good work making it feel like there were REAL reasons they perhaps couldn't be together. Poor communication wasn't the only thing driving the plot forward, as it soooo often is in contemporary romance, and I really appreciate that.
I received an ARC from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Despite being 15 years younger, I really resonated with the lead characters here. I'm white and genderfluid and my partner is a Chinese-American man who is only queer by association with me. Nick calls Eli a troglodyte for not making his bed; my partner called me a truffle pig for not folding my laundry last week. I'm constantly clowning, and my partner is a funny man without even trying. I felt very seen by this relationship dynamic.
The amount of will-they-won't-they is a bit annoying, and reminds me why contemporary romance isn't generally my cup of tea, but it was manageable. The setting and the fact that both of the leads are full adults with adult responsibilities that had to be navigated outside of their feelings for each other did good work making it feel like there were REAL reasons they perhaps couldn't be together. Poor communication wasn't the only thing driving the plot forward, as it soooo often is in contemporary romance, and I really appreciate that.
I received an ARC from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
July 31, 2023
This was a fantastic book that hit on a lot of the fears and struggles today's transgender population are facing. As a trans guy I appreciated reading about a character similar to me and seeing the happy romance work out. Eli is a great representation of the struggling in today's society trans person and I love how they integrate identity in this story between being transgender, gay, demisexual, queer, but also race, age, past passions, and so much more. You feel like you get to know the characters when reading.
This book while touching on heavy topics such as alcoholism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, hate legislation and more, did so in a way that did not feel heavy. A second chances romance. Two almost forty-year-old men, one of them trans. Zoe being super understanding was fantastic and she was an adorable character. I loved how accepting Nick was with everything and that he did his own research. There were times where I wanted to slap Eli for some of the choices he was making but it kept the story fresh as well.
I received an ARC from Atria Books and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
This book while touching on heavy topics such as alcoholism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, hate legislation and more, did so in a way that did not feel heavy. A second chances romance. Two almost forty-year-old men, one of them trans. Zoe being super understanding was fantastic and she was an adorable character. I loved how accepting Nick was with everything and that he did his own research. There were times where I wanted to slap Eli for some of the choices he was making but it kept the story fresh as well.
I received an ARC from Atria Books and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
August 5, 2023
Thanks to Netgalley and Atria Books for this ARC in exchange for an honest review.
This was a delightful second chance queer/trans romantic comedy set in Florida. This is the second book I’ve read by this author and I enjoyed it very much.
Eli is a 30-something trans man who returns to his hometown in Florida to stay with his well-meaning and sometimes frustrating but supportive parents. Jobless, he’s back living at home as he figures out his next move after losing his tv writing gig after his former show-runner gets caught up in a scandal.
Nick is a 30-something single dad who has a great coparent relationship with his ex-wife and an amazing daughter named Zoe. He runs the local restaurant, the Thirsty Manatee, hangs out with his dad, and even mostly tolerates his horrible ex-mother in law.
Did I mentioned that Nick and Eli are were childhood sweethearts who were in love in high school before Eli’s later transition?
I don’t want to spoil anything but I highly recommend this book if you’re looking for a good second chance romance with queer/trans/questioning/Asian representation.
This was a delightful second chance queer/trans romantic comedy set in Florida. This is the second book I’ve read by this author and I enjoyed it very much.
Eli is a 30-something trans man who returns to his hometown in Florida to stay with his well-meaning and sometimes frustrating but supportive parents. Jobless, he’s back living at home as he figures out his next move after losing his tv writing gig after his former show-runner gets caught up in a scandal.
Nick is a 30-something single dad who has a great coparent relationship with his ex-wife and an amazing daughter named Zoe. He runs the local restaurant, the Thirsty Manatee, hangs out with his dad, and even mostly tolerates his horrible ex-mother in law.
Did I mentioned that Nick and Eli are were childhood sweethearts who were in love in high school before Eli’s later transition?
I don’t want to spoil anything but I highly recommend this book if you’re looking for a good second chance romance with queer/trans/questioning/Asian representation.
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