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Avoiding Temptation

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A sexy angsty second chance romance from USA Today bestselling author K.A. Linde…

Two years after walking out on Jack’s wedding, Lexi is finally in a good place. Her career has taken off. Her relationship is solid. Her life in Atlanta is everything she thought she wanted.

Then Ramsey proposes.

And Jack confides that he and Bekah are getting a divorce.

Lexi begins to question everything she thought she knew about what she wanted.

She has to choose her own path.

That just might mean deciding, once and for all, where her heart truly lies.

400 pages, Unknown Binding

First published November 30, 2013

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K.A. Linde

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K.A. Linde is the New York Times, USA Today, #1 Sunday Times bestselling author of The Wren in the Holly Library. She is prolific in both romance and fantasy and loves the blend of the two.

She has a Masters degree in political science and bachelors in philosophy from the University of Georgia. In her previous life, she was a head campaign worker for a presidential campaign and the coach of the Duke University dance team. She loves reading fantasy novels, traveling to far-off destinations, and dancing in her spare time.

She currently lives in Lubbock, Texas, with her husband, and son.

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524 reviews65 followers
December 13, 2013
UPDATE 12/12/13: I finished this last night and, well... after *THAT*, I can't write a spoiler free review. If you don't want to know, don't read anything in the spoiler tag. It's going to be a vent session and will definitely ruin the story for anyone who hasn't finished the book.
This is your final warning!




I've left this pre-release review up as it's what netted 101 votes.
Wtf??? How is anyone Team D Bag Jack?!?!?!




When it comes to love triangles, I have ALWAYS chosen the first guy. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Except this series. Jack is a complete dick. He's a POS, scumbag who WILL NEVER CHANGE, especially with Lexi. The guy is too good looking and manipulative. Not to mention HE CANNOT BE FAITHFUL! TO ANYONE!! He will not give Lexi the HEA we all want to see for her and what she deserves. He and Bekah deserve each other. They are both selfish and manipulative. Ramsey makes sense. He's kind, sweet, and willing to do whatever it takes.

Can someone PLEASE try to list things that make Jack worthy and redeemable? Because I'm not seeing it. He had a gf when he met Lexi. He strings her along for years. They cheat on their significant others but he never made things official with her! WHY NOT?? It makes me crazy. Is he out for money? Even if he loves her, it's not enough. You don't treat someone you love the way Jack has treated Lexi. Ugh... and people! His wedding day?!?!?! No. Just no. Unforgivable.

All I know is that Lexi better stick to her guns this time around. Otherwise, someone's gonna owe me a new iPad, Nook... whatever device I'm reading on!!

Go away Jack and Bekah, or I might get stabby!




Update! Avoiding Temptation??? Oh crap!! I'm sure to have major anxiety over this one. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE end well!



Oh boy. After the blurb was released, I got even MORE nervous. Things were bad enough when it was two guys --- and now a THIRD?!?!?! I can't take it. I've read the Jack POV from when he and Lexi first met. It made me remember the days when I liked him, but I'm still Team Ramsey!! Sorry, Jack and fans, but a few sweet moments don't excuse the rest of his f*** ups.
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December 10, 2013
Andddd... we have a date

Dec 10th!!!!!


Thank you Emily! :)
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If Jack the jerk comes in between Ramsey and Alexa, Imma murder someone!
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Moreeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
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I am so happy, curious, excited, scared & I am just going to sit and hope that all ends well for Alexa n nothing goes well for Jack. Bastard. I don't want anything bad to happen for Ramsey, he was always nice! :((
And Bekah can just die, I don't care for her.
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757 reviews3,657 followers
July 21, 2016
FULL REVIEW POSTED 12/12/13
NOTE: My original review did not save on Goodreads, I became frustrated and here is the finished product.


4.5 STARS
Genre: Contemporary Romance

SPOILERS AHEAD-SPOILERS HERE-SPOILERS THERE-SPOILERS EVERYWHERE

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Avoiding Temptation went a little something like this

Jack calls Lexi


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Ramsey reacts with a nonchalant..


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Ramsey and Lexi are all..


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Jack to Lexi


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What Bekah recently said to Jack was...


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Lexi to Jack about the divorce papers being filed..


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Me


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Ramsey to Lexi


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Lexi


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John to Lexi


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Lexi is like


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Parker to Ramsey, although she never says this to his face...


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Bekah to EVERYONE, and she says it to their faces...


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I'm like


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Lexi upon the divorce news is now like...


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Chyna, frustrated with Lex holding back says..


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Lexi, is still in a denial faze with regards to Jack..


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Chyna is now like...


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Lexi finally caves to Jack and is all..


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Me = #Team Ramsey So I’m like…


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Jack to Lexi


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Me


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Her choice… Jack


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I’m not even going to lie folks Alexa being with Jack


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My Thoughts
Am I happy Jack finally stepped up? HELL YES!
Did her choice effect my rating? HELL NO!

I give this entire series 5 STARS!!! It kept me on my toes that's for sure and even though I saw the signs that Ramsey would not be her choice early on... I was still holding out for John, LOL!!!!

No, all jokes aside, this series was exciting, frustrating, sexy, fun, happy, sad and filled with ups and downs. It is a ride I enjoyed to the very end!

FAVE LINES

“He’s the dick you fucked when you went back to New York?” Jack asked, shaking his head in disbelief.

“Okay, so the story is… Bekah got me tickets to the Sienna Sexton and D-Bags show in Atlanta next weekend.”


'Until she knew, she would treat Bekah like an active volcano waiting to erupt.'

“I understand why you two are together now,” he said, his eyes shifting between Lexi and Ramsey. “You’re equally oblivious.”


“So, is that it? You just like me for the chase then?” she snarled. John chuckled. “Baby, I’ve already fucked you. I won that chase.”




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Me prior to the books release

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I've been waiting for thissssss

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219 reviews
December 12, 2013
UPDATE 12/11/13: Review now posted!

Oh boy. Where do I even begin?

Let me start by saying SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS ahead. STOP reading right now if you don't want to know what happens in this book. I do not feel like spoilering out my whole review and I also can't seem to find the f*cks to give to do so....Or...wait a minute....There's one:



That would be the one word review to this book.

But...because I need to purge myself of the rage this series has invoked, I will explore my thoughts more in depth.

Seriously, SPOILER WARNING again. Last chance to turn away.

I made it known I was going to find out the ending of the book first before I decided to read it and if I didn't like the choice I wasn't going to read it at all. Well, in the end, I grudgingly shelled out the $4.99 for this book. I skipped to the end and was gutted.



That quickly turned to infuriated and pissed as hell. I could not understand how it could have realistically gotten to that point. So I'm a masochist and decided to read it to try to understand. I had to force myself to get through several parts as I attempted to work through my annoyance and anger.



Really I just came to this conclusion at the end:



I guess that’s not entirely true. There are actually multiple conclusions I’ve drawn from this book/series:

1. Good guys really do finish last. Ramsey didn’t deserve what was done to him in this book. But I’ll get to that.

2. Cheaters always win. Let’s be honest. Both Jack and Lexi are cheating assholes. In Lexi’s case, she seems to always cheat with Jack. Jack seems to cheat on everyone.

3. It’s okay...encouraged even...to be with a man who treats you like shit. Lexi sends women a great message about self-worth to want a Jackhole like that in her life.

4. I regret ever having read this series.

5. This is the last money I will ever spend on this author’s books. I will never read another book from this author.

I need to rewind a little bit back to the first book in this series. I’ve hated characters in books before, but not often the main characters. I’ve hated Jack since that first book. I will never understand the people who love him. This is the guy who screwed Lexi against a bathroom wall at his birthday party and immediately went back outside to his fiancée. His parting words being "This doesn’t change anything, Lex." And let’s not forget his "This was fucking, Lexi. You should know that. You’re really good at it." What a winner.

Fast forward to the second book. Who could forget when Lexi actually grew a pair and realized how messed up her and Jack’s relationship was. When she kneed him in the groin when he kissed her at his wedding to someone else. When she made it clear that she wanted Jack out of her life. Excerpt from Avoiding Responsibility:

Jack and Bekah no longer concerned her. Whether they ever got married, whether they lived happily ever after, or whether they skinned each other alive did not matter to her and that made her smile.

"You know what? I’m through," Lexi said her smile growing with how true that statement was. "This entire week made me realize that I got over Jack a long, long time ago. I was so lost in the past that I couldn’t see the person I had become. And the person I am now doesn’t need to go to this wedding to get over a guy she never even dated," she said sending a seething glare in Jack’s direction.


Ramsey and Lexi walked out of there together and seemed to be at a good place. At the time I was confident that the third book would be a good opportunity for them to grow even more together.

K.A. Linde either has selective memory and/or the second book of this series was nothing but meaningless filler because what in the hell happened?

In this third book, whatever emotional growth Lexi experienced in the second book went down the drain. She felt like a totally different character in this book and unfortunately I grew to hate her as well.

After seemingly becoming so strong, the moment Jack told her Bekah was divorcing him, her resolve started to weaken. She started to backtrack to being that weak person she was before. I’m sorry, but if the author truly wanted a believable endgame for Jack and Lexi, she would have found a way to do everything in her power to make Jack redeemable. He would have worked his ass off for her. But TWO YEARS had passed since his wedding. And still he never put Lexi first. He wanted her back when his other options failed. He didn’t miraculously discover that Lexi was the love of his life and become proactive about going after what he supposedly wanted with his whole heart. No, just like always, she was second best. He put others before her for years. He chose others over her for years. When he had the opportunity to have Lexi before proposing to Bekah, he chose Bekah. When he had the opportunity to have Lexi before marrying Bekah, he chose Bekah. I’m sorry, but if Bekah hadn’t initiated divorce proceedings, there’s no way Jack would have chosen Lexi. HIS words: "But I tried every day for the past two years with Bekah, and I was still trying up until that day she handed me the papers. Marriage isn’t easy, but I wanted my marriage to work, so I put in the effort."

The truth is, I never actually believed what Lexi and Jack had was true love. It was infatuation, lust, and obsession. Above all, it was dysfunction.

And after becoming newly engaged to Ramsey, she takes off the ring to hide it from Jack when she meets him. Even if I hadn’t already known how the story ended, my stomach would have gotten that sinking feeling because Lexi seemed almost clinical in how she approached her engagement to Ramsey and then started having doubts almost immediately. She had to talk herself into believing she loved Ramsey and that marrying him was the right decision. She showed more emotion when Jack finally found out she was engaged to Ramsey than she did after Ramsey proposed.

I find one of the saddest things of all to be that Ramsey got demoted to a plot device, and the author tried so hard to throw things out there that would make it somehow okay for Lexi to justify her feelings of being tempted by Jack and doubting she wanted to go through with a wedding to Ramsey. In a flashback scene from a year prior to present time, Ramsey tells Lexi that a former employee is bringing up a sexual harassment suit against him. That this woman claimed they had sex and that her one year old son was actually Ramsey’s. This would mean that Ramsey would have cheated on her. Of course, Ramsey assured her it wasn’t true but she doesn’t know what to believe. Instead, she internalizes "Ramsey’s word had never really meant that much." My Lexi hate started to fester more at that point. In the end, it only took a month and a half for paternity results to reveal the woman lied and the case dropped entirely.

In present time, Lexi discovers that a few years back when Jack cheated on her that he never wanted to sleep with the woman at all and originally said no. He was so drunk in the end it happened anyway and he felt soooo awful afterwards that he couldn’t fight for Lexi because he knew he didn’t deserve her. Cue the violins...so that I may shove them up both of their asses.

The scary thing is that for Lexi, finding that out made it better for her. She admits she would have taken him back. Cheating is cheating honey. At the end of the day, he didn’t keep it in his pants. She had what was an almost kiss moment with Jack and he tells her "You shouldn’t be around me anymore. You shouldn’t want to, Lex. Because all I see when I look at you is the woman I love, the woman I want to take home with me, the woman who I’ve spent damn near ten years messing things up with. And you should stay away because I know I’d do it all over again." Oh, you romantic guy you.

The trainwreck continued. More doubts from Lexi about Parker. Then she holds the fact that Ramsey has money and "sold his soul" to work for his father against him. Oh and then Ramsey became the bad guy because he punched John (not even going there) when he tried to kiss Lexi who was trying to push him away. She got mad at HIM.

In a four months ago flashback in a heated argument between Ramsey and Lexi he calls her Parker. Hi random author attempt to make Ramsey look like a jerk to advance Lexi and Jack endgame.

Back in present time, Ramsey is still having to convince and prove his love to Lexi. "I love you. If that means that I marry you in October or I marry you next October or the one after that…it doesn’t matter to me. You matter to me. Marriage is a piece of paper. You’re my lifetime." The only response to that from Lexi? "I know." I want to hug Ramsey at this point. All I want to do to Lexi is strangle her and/or punch her in the face.

So what was the breaking point in this novel? Lexi walks in on Ramsey and Parker after she provides proof that she did in fact have a miscarriage and not an abortion. Obviously the man is going to be shaken. But Lexi just uses it as an opportunity to turn his feelings against him and then walk out on him, internalizing: Relationships were work. They were really hard work, and she had put her fair share into this one. Oh did you now? Did you support Ramsey through all the things he’d been through? Did you trust him and love him even when he bent over backwards to try to prove himself to you? No...you were a selfish bitch who took what you wanted and made HIM do all the work. You used him in one of the worst ways you can use a person. Everything sunk in for me at this point. This was the moment all the lightbulbs flashed over my head. Lexi was a terrible girlfriend. Ramsey was the only one who ever tried to make it work while she sat back for the three years they were together waiting for him to fail. Even manufacturing failures where none existed. Never fully trusting him or giving him a chance. Ramsey wasn't perfect, but Lexi expected him to be. No one can live up to that. She led him on a string for three years like she was holding a pair of scissors actively fraying at the edges just for fun, waiting for her opportunity to cut it entirely. There was NOTHING Ramsey could have done. It saddens me that he wasted three years of his life on someone who used him so completely.

And then what does she do? Runs straight to Jack of course and ignores most of Ramsey’s desperate texts and calls for days. Jack shares his sob story about being scared of love and that’s why he chose everyone except Lexi. Uh huh.

Lexi’s quick to break up with Ramsey after that. It was brutal seeing Ramsey’s pain. Lexi basically telling him that he shouldn’t have tried to change for her. That she wasn’t happy and that even though he’s a great man, he wasn’t the man for her. And as he’s standing there with a tear rolling down his cheek – after repeatedly pleading his case, what’s Lexi’s parting shot? Her fatal blow?

"I’m sorry, Ramsey. I can’t keep this," she said, pulling the diamond ring off her finger. She tucked a strand of her hair behind her ear and tried to blink back the tears forming in her eyes. "I already have one that belongs to me. It was saved for me before I even knew who you were."



Cold. Hearted. Bitch. My journey to hating this character was now complete. Like a horny teenager, she jumps straight into bed with Jack. Ramsey is barely an afterthought to her, even after she discovered Bekah pretty much manufactured everything that caused her to keep doubting Ramsey – the girl from the sexual harassment suit, the miscarriage paperwork. In the end, Ramsey truly was a good guy.

Ramsey has my heart. In this book, he’s the only character who didn’t piss me off. I’ve always loved him but I felt even more for him in this book. When the author was spending so much time over the past couple of months trying to convince readers to go with her on this journey and to give her a chance so we could see that the ending of this book was exactly what needed to happen, my first reaction was:



But she was right actually. It had to happen. And I’ve come to three important realizations about this "journey" -

1. Lexi and Jack deserve to be together. Two selfish people who will never learn from their mistakes. I’ve read people saying how much these characters have grown and I have to laugh at that. It’s like two kids playing grown-up. They pretend for a little bit until it becomes too difficult and then they go back to being who they were all along. May they live in misery ever after.

2. The Lexi in this book didn’t deserve someone like Ramsey. He deserves so much better. And in my head I’m going to give him the happily ever after he deserves with a woman who truly appreciates who he is. I’ve seen other comments from people wanting Ramsey to have his own book. Pains me to say but, I wouldn’t read it. Unfortunately, I don’t trust the author. I think she created an amazing character (I will give props for that) but sadly not the ability to truly do him justice. Truth be told, I have to wonder if she even likes this character all that much for the way he was treated in this book.

3. So many people say it’s not about what pairing you’re rooting for – Team Jack or Team Ramsey. That it’s about Team Lexi. And you know what? That’s true. This was Lexi’s story. The sad part of it for me is that I’ve discovered I could never be Team Lexi. I was brought to a place of hating her character. I have no respect for her. At the end of the day I did NOT enjoy this series or the places it took me. I thought going into this book I was Team Lexi/Ramsey. I was so so wrong. I'm glad they didn't end up together. Turns out I’m only Team Ramsey. And that’s just fine with me.

Onwards and upwards.

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PREVIOUS UPDATE 11/2/13: So I'm officially moving this to a 'maybe' shelf. I know it's the author's biggest pet peeve but after all the teasers I think this is one of those I just can't read until I find out what happens first.

I respect everyone's opinions (though I'm hardcore judging) but for the life of me don't understand how there can even be a Team Jack after everything he did. There were a couple of things that he did that in my eyes are completely irredeemable. I felt Lexi got to a good place at the end of the last book and that the door was firmly closed on any possibility of Jack...but with some of the teasers and comments I've seen, I just don't know.

While the thought of a continuation of the Lexi/Ramsey/Jack triangle turns my stomach in an unpleasant way, the idea of a quadrangle with John in the equation too just gives me a headache. There's such a thing as too much drama.

My fear is that if there's a Lexi/Jack endgame outcome to all of this, I just won't be able to accept it. I don't want to be talked into or urged to accept that because I already know there is absolutely nothing that will make me see Jack in a favorable light or hope Lexi ends up with him. In fact, if that happens, it will be such an emotional step backwards from all the progress and growth Lexi has made over the past couple books (not that she still doesn't have a bit to go) that I fear for the well-being of my Kindle.

So...I will sit back and check reviews after the book is released in December. If I decide not to read it after that, I'll make up my own ending in my head ;)
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1,179 reviews4,976 followers
February 6, 2017
The final book in the 'Avoiding' series, 'Avoiding Temptation' provides the answers to all of the questions that I had. At last, I can put my frustrations to rest. Finally, I know how things work out for Lexi.

I don't want to spoil this series for anyone, so I won't say exactly who Lexi ends up with...or if she ends up with anyone at all. However, I will say that if you're a fan of angst that this is one of the most angst-filled series that I've ever encountered. I could not believe the massive amounts of drama that played out over the course of this series.

This book certainly lived up to the reputation of earlier books in the series in that regard. There was never a dull moment. I couldn't get enough of this salacious soap opera. This series is such a guilty pleasure. I know I should be appalled by the characters' actions...but I just can't stop reading!

As glad as I was to finally know how things worked out for Lexi and her string of male admirers, I was sad to see this series come to a close. I loved every minute of this series. It is probably one that I will re-read in the future, because I just can't get enough of these characters.

I don't want to ruin it for anyone, so I'll just say that this is one series that you want to read. If you like forbidden love stories with a TON of angst, look no further. This is the series you've been looking for!

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4,498 reviews35.8k followers
September 17, 2017
4 ‘I have no clue who’s team I’m on’ stars!

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Going into Avoiding Temptation, I was scared. The last book scarred me. I went into this with no team. Much like Lexi, I was undecided. Who is she going to pick? What the hell is going to happen?

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This review isn’t going to be like a ‘normal’ review. I can’t review the way I normally do without spoiling too much, so here it goes...

Lexi
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Lexi honestly doesn’t want anyone to get hurt. She had what she had with John, she is trying to be a good friend to Jack, and trying to make her relationship with Ramsey work. I truly believe that Lexi always has the best intentions at heart. She isn’t perfect, but she wants to move on and find true happiness. Thats what the story comes down to. Not what we, the readers want, but what Lexi wants. She is going to do what her heart wants and desires. Not what others want or expect her to do.

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The second book made me love Ramsey. He is sweet and kind. He truly loves Lexi, tries to treat her right, and is willing to change and do better for her. He’s is the ideal boyfriend. He seems almost perfect at times. But is he perfect for Lexi???

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Jack the jerk. There will always be a part of me that wants Lexi and Jack together. Maybe it’s the first love thing? I don’t know. He had me in the first book. Completely had me. Then in the second book, he demolished my heart. After reading this, have I forgiven Jack. No. Not completely. But I am glad he made some positive changes, and I do like him much more than I did.

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Then there is my boy, John. If I had to root for anyone, it would be this guy. There is just something about him I like. I think Lexi could use someone new, without the baggage and drama... Plus he’s kind of a jerk too, but in a good way.

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So what does LEXI want? Who does her heart desire? Who will she end up with when it’s all said and done? You must definitely read it to find out! 



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Now lets talk about that ending... The million dollar question: Was I happy with who she ended up with? Hmmm.... Well, I wasn’t surprised at all. I expected them be together. I felt like they belonged with one another. So, I suppose I was happy with the ending. What I wasn’t necessarily happy with, how they got to the ending - Please don’t read the spoiler unless you want to know who she ends up with. That spoiler is the reason I can’t give this book 5 stars. It’s not about WHO she ended up with, it’s about HOW they got there.

Regardless, I loved the book. This series has been an emotional roller coaster. It’s been a journey for me. As much as it frustrated me, aggravated me, even infuriated me at times, I still loved it. It made me feel. The characters were flawed, but they were real. Some were likable, some weren’t. It was a crazy ride. A part of me is glad it’s over, and a part of me didn’t want it to end. A very memorable series.

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P.S.- Copious amounts of tequila was consumed during the reading of this book ;)
PRE-REVIEW:
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2,604 reviews5,394 followers
December 11, 2013
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Has Lexi learned nothing from the first two books?

Don’t answer that phone!!

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Kyla Linde delivered one hell of a crazy ride!

“Lose Jack and be with Ramsey.
Be with Jack and lose Ramsey.
Be by herself without either of them.
Move back to New York, start a new life, rebound-fuck John all over again.
Run from her past for a future that couldn’t even begin to handle her emotional baggage.”


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Right from the first chapter my jaw hit the floor and I wondered where Kyla was taking me and do I really want to go there?

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It's no secret that I'm Team Jack win lose or draw...

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Overall, this book was shocking, exciting and heart attack inducing and I highly recommend it for fans of the series. I felt that the story was well executed and the writing was fantastic.

“I gave it a shot, Lex. I gave you your space. I let you be happy. That’s what you said you wanted.” He gripped her hand a little harder. “How did that work? Are you happy? Are you happy without me?”
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“He was perfect, absolutely perfect – except when he wasn’t, except when she saw his flaws, the flaws he never let the rest of the world see.”
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“Walk away from it all.”
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"People come in and out of your life all the time. They shape and mold you like clay, and then the water washes away the edges."

Fans of John, Ramsey and Jack will be on edge the entire journey because nothing feels settled till the very last page and that's when you can finally exhale.

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Avoiding Commitment (Avoiding, #1) by K.A. Linde Avoiding Responsibility (Avoiding, #2) by K.A. Linde Avoiding Intimacy (Avoiding, #2.5) by K.A. Linde Avoiding Decisions (Avoiding, #1.5) by K.A. Linde


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689 reviews13.8k followers
December 20, 2013
Whew....Ok...some thoughts. NOT many but just a few.

1. I LOVE this author, I LOVE her writing, and I LOVE the way she builds angst and kills you with it. I LOVE HER WRITING...I DO. SHE KNOWS HOW TO WRITE...SO PLEASE, DO NOT CONFUSE MY FEELINGS OVER THIS BOOK WITH HER TALENT...SHE IS BRILLIANT! EVERY CRITIQUE BELOW IS ON THE PLOT AND CHARACTERS! THAT IS IT. THE AUTHOR ROCKS, HER BOOKS GUT YOU, SHE WRITES LIKE A BAD ASS!!! AND, IF YOU LOVE A LOVE TRIANGLE THAT DESTROYS YOU..YOU WILL LOVE THIS SERIES!

THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND AS YOU READ DOWN ^^^^^^^^^^^^

Okay here are some of my KEY thoughts....

1. This book disappointed me so much that I can't even talk about it without becoming a raging bitch. I'm sorry if I come across MEAN. It's NOT my intention, but I have to say something. ANYTHING. I have to vent this out. I'm emotional. THIS BOOK is emotional and the PLOT fucked me up!

2. Lexi was ...... NO WORDS. She was someone I LOVED, NEVER irritated me, and I UNDERSTOOD in the first two books. I GET HER LOVE FOR JACK...I GET IT, AND I UNDERSTAND HER LOVE FOR RAMSEY....I GET IT! I GET IT....THAT SAID, after this, after reading this....I HATED her. I LOATHED her. I DESPISED her. She turned into an UGLY person...someone that I can't think about.



3. Ramsey...well what can I say????...NO FUCKING WORDS....NONE. NOTHING...I'm just....I DON'T KNOW.

4. Jack.... ***Tries to think of something, anything that would come across nice*** Jack...Jack...Jack...**laughs** I WISH YOU COULD HEAR my thoughts...I can't go there with Jack...I'm sorry...I can't..


Basically from ALL that up top ^^^^ I can't even review this book nicely...I feel like a piece of shit even writing this because I was a HUGE fan of the series...Jeezzz, I think I still am....BUT I'm disappointed...SO, COMPLETELY, ABSOLUTELY, disappointed.

I feel messed up in the head, heart, and just HURT....I DON'T KNOW WHY. BUT I HURT from this book. This series. I think... damn...IT should have gone differently...I think Lexi landed up with the right person, (I DO, I REALLY DO), but the way it was plotted...well...NO WORDS. Anyway, after this I'm CLOSING my heart off. I refuse to discuss it...I can't even go there. I need to shut my head and heart down from this...it's too much and it breaks me. This sounds CRAZY, but it causes me PAIN. Hahahahaha...INSANE, I know, but it does.

Closing thought's's are this -->> 3 STARS because this author is the ANGST queen and she REIGNS above the rest. Her writing is STELLAR and her characters evoke more emotion than ANYTHING I've ever read. AND, even though, I feel broken, YOU MIGHT LOVE it. She evokes SO much heart out of the reader. She definitely writes against the grain and goes with her heart and characters. I might not love the end, but the ride was EPIC, and I respect that. I REALLY DO. :)


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252 reviews294 followers
May 28, 2014
"People come in and out of your life all the time. They shape and mold you like clay, and then the water washes away the edges."





All of these characters....Lexi, Jack, Ramsey and John all hold a little piece of my heart. I like them ALL for different reasons and through out this series they have also pissed me off for different reasons. However I have always loved them through everything. Triangles are a tough read sometimes because she can only pick ONE...unless you get lucky with a ménage someone is going to lose! Honestly it may not be the ONE you choose but on the flip side your man MIGHT win!

Now my question is why would you rate it a 1 star just because your MAN didn't win?


We all knew that was a possibility when we started this series so why are we shocked now?


Did Lexi end up with the one I wanted?

I'm not telling because I don't want to spoiler this for anyone. If you like angsty emotional reads this series is for YOU!!!. But go into it knowing that your team may lose:(


I personally like triangles for the BIG emotions they invoke in the reader and I think this series and this book DEFINITELY delivered on that aspect.

With that said, all I can tell you is I truly love this series and this author! My heart went out to both Ramsey and Jack in this book! This series was a great emotional rollercoaster and I LOVED it and I'm soooooo happy I read it!!


Give it a chance people you might like it but remember only ONE will win here and it might not be who you choose.


Is that fair? NO but that is the kind of book this is....bottom line!





I want to add a little...tiny addendum to this....just a tiny addendum.....5/27/2014......

Something made me scroll the reviews for this book tonight and I have no I idea why I did bc it just pissed me off again!!!! Why why why would people read a triangle and then rate it a 1 star bc it didn't turn out their WAY?!?!?!? I mean come ON rate the writing...I mean why in the hell are you still reading it 3 books later....ok so it didn't turn out like you wanted but it kept you interested enough to read 3 damn books!!!! Who gives a shit who came out the victor be glad the series was interesting enough to keep you involved and wanting more!!!!

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308 reviews2,180 followers
December 10, 2013
I just wanted to soak in a relaxing vodka bath and brush my teeth with Xanax...

I did not go into this book lightly. In fact, I think there was a lot of cursing involved. At some point, even my emotions said, "shit". I just wanted to soak in a relaxing vodka bath and brush my teeth with some Xanax. I wanted somebody to hold me and I hadn't even started the book yet.

Here's where my review gets tricky. My emotions are a tell all.

I can't share too much about the state of my feelings because my emotions will share too much.

What I'm about to write is true no matter which team you're on. I don't care if you're Team Ramsey, Team Jack, Team Lexi coming out and getting it on with Chyna. The ending was perfect.

I'm not necessarily saying it was perfect because she ended up with who I wanted (maybe she did, maybe she didn't). It was perfect because in then end, K.A. Linde let Lexi decide. It wasn't about what the reader wanted, it wasn't even about what the author wanted. It was a decision that was driven by the character. It was Lexi's reality, and it was perfect.

I'm not saying it's not going to shred your emotions. You may feel anger, disappointment. Some of you might even want to judo chop your kindle or punch K.A. Linde in the face, but remember...it's not about us. It's about the characters, and the strong emotions they have caused us to feel. The real emotions. This is their story, not ours.

It takes talent for an author to submerge a reader so far into a story that she can cause emotional pain and hurt through fiction. Fiction that has ultimately become an emotional reality. A reality that collided with my heart from start to finish. So if you are angry, remember, the author made you feel that. You cared enough to be angry, and that speaks volumes!

I'm not rating this book based on what I wanted to happen. I'm rating it based on the amazing way in which it was written. It ended just as strong as it started, and it was perfect.

READ ON!
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Author 8 books27 followers
December 10, 2013
I'm actually afraid to read any future books by K.A Linde. Not sure I can put myself through all this again!
Loved all five books though, even if they did make me temporarily insane.
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619 reviews
December 10, 2013
To say that I am not a happy camper is putting it mildly. I will now hide everything behind spoiler tags to be fair...




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1,035 reviews256 followers
August 10, 2016
Okay that's it. I'm over this book and these characters. I think this whole series should have been done in two MAYBE three books and no extra side books. This whole relationship with Jack and Lexi was ridiculous. Jack's reasoning's were stupid. He wasn't redeemable, EVER!

This is one unhappy reader. I have a lot to say but will hold back, seeing as there are plenty of other readers who will want to read this book with out it being ruined completely for them if they see my review in the way I would like to state it.



12/2013 Reading the ending first! I don't care what anyone thinks, I need to know before I can start who she walks away with. Lol
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Author 90 books14.4k followers
November 23, 2013
My favorite of all the Avoiding Series. I might have done a little fist-pump at the end. This girl was happy. Great job in wrapping up an amazing series K.A. Linda!
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57 reviews2 followers
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March 14, 2013
Team Jack!

Sometimes, a happy ending to a story isn't meant to be happily EVER after. Maybe it's just happy 'for now' - not 'for EVER'. This is my happy ending for Lexi and Jack and this series. And maybe after running off into the sunset and trying out a REAL relationship, things will go horribly wrong and Jack will dog Lexi out YET AGAIN. That's ok. I think Lexi and Jack are meant for eachother. Let's face it: Jack is a player and a dog, but Lexi is no innocent angel herself. As much as I wanted Lexi to dust herself off and grow some self respect, by the end of Avoiding Responsibility I could see she is still not ready for that. So my hope is that these 2 find their way to giving a go at a relationship - for better or worse. Sometimes, a hearts and flowers/choosing the "good guy" ending just isn't what a story needs.

My Jack Howard
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1,503 reviews341 followers
December 16, 2013
These 3 stars are not because of who she stayed with. It's because of HOW she stayed with him.

SPOILERS

I will admit that I went straight to the end and read who Lexi stayed with. I could give a flying fuck what anybody thinks about that. Did it take away the element of surprise? NO. I'm Spoiler Whore. Doesn't bother me the least if I know spoilers or not. I'm not gonna delve into the story. I'm just going to get to my fucking problem on how Lexi ended up with Jack.

Jack and Lexi would never have gotten back together if it wasn't for Bekah wanting a divorce. I don't know how Lexi can become more idiotic to see that's the only way he went back to her. I just DON'T see how he loves Lexi. If you truely absolutely love someone, you would fight for them, you would do what you had to do to be with them and Jack didn't do this except whisper the words Lexi has always wanted to hear. It took someone else with bigger balls to get them together. He is one character that I truely dislike. If the author was to have used another situation(maybe Jack asking Bekah for a divorce) then I wouldn't have much of an issue as I have with this story.

I've always been #TeamRamsey but not for the reason of him being the "winner" for Lexi. Ramsey is and always will be the better man than Jack. PERIOD. I'm not saying he didn't have his faults but he treated Lexi waaaaay better than Jack ever did. As for the way Lexi ended her relationship with Ramsey...Ugh. "I already have one that belongs to me. It was saved for me before I even knew who you were."(This is about the engagement ring)<-----It goes to show that Lexi is a bitch.

I know this is Lexi's journey but I never got the mentality of Lexi with Jack. I guess like goes with like...they're both idiots. They truely deserve each other.

*I hope Ramsey gets his HEA story told but please don't mention Lexi and Jack. They've both done enough damage.*
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684 reviews1,472 followers
March 6, 2015
"People come in and out of your life all the time. They shape and mold you like clay, and then the water washes away the edges."

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An intense, angst-filled journey comes to an end. Throughout this read, my heart was racing and my head was spinning. As a reader, especially when it comes to a love triangle, you have to have faith in the story the author has to tell. In my opinion, regardless of which team you go into this book pulling for, Kyla creates a compelling story that should leave everyone satisfied. There are some crazy intense feelings associated with this series and who should win the girl. Honestly some of you ladies them scare the hell out of me,lol. I just hope we can all appreciate the anxiety-ridden journey. John, Jack, and Ramsey were all important players in Lexie finding her hea - and their are some major swoon worthy moments with each one, I did not envy her predicament.

"You're what I want. You're all I want."

That is all I am going to say, I don't want to spoil anything. Just read it - have faith in the story!

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"I don't want it to be easy. I just want it to be right, and the only way it's ever going to be right is with you."

"Whatever you do, it will be the right choice because it's for you, chica. No one can tell you that you made the wrong choice. No one."

"Now, I have decide what I want to do, because I don't think that they're down for a threesome."

"We fit together perfectly," he murmured. "Don't let anyone tell you any different."




Feelings going into this one...at 0%

*Fingers crossed* for Jack and Lexi♥♥
Profile Image for Mare SLiTsReaD Reviews.
1,211 reviews66 followers
December 11, 2013
KA Linde- you have superb writing skills, your skills get you a 5 star... your writing skills

The story gets a big FAT ZERO FROM ME

"Cheaters never prosper"
"A leopard doesn't change it's spots"

LEXI- You are the sluttiest idiot I have ever read! I.D.I.O.T

JACK- YOU ARE A L.O.S.E.R... MOMMY DADDY ISSUES~ PLEASE YOU ARE JUST A MALE WHORE

RAMSEY- GOOD GOD, I WAS FOR YOU ALL ALONG... ANOTHER I.D.I.O.T



IM OVER THIS

MARE~SLITSREAD
62 reviews1 follower
December 21, 2013
October 3rd


Ok, so I have been DYING for this book since I finished Avoiding Responsibility last year. The first two books left me ABSOLUTELY wrecked...but I'm kind of peeved about the blurb. Why is Lexi juggling the burgeoning affections of three different men? I don't know about anyone else, but when I finished Avoiding Responsibility, I was absolutely elated that Lexi had actually stuck up for herself and put Jack in his place and then left with Ramsey.

Honestly, Team Ramsey all the way. If she ends up with anyone else, I will be SHATTERED. Especially if it's Jack-Ass. Because he needs help and he is incapable of having a healthy relationship. If he cheats WITH YOU, he will cheat ON YOU. I don't care what he tells Lexi, actions speak louder than words...he is not a good person or a good boyfriend. /THE END/

December 10

Ok, just finished...I will write a proper review after I've had time to stew over this, but I will just say this: I was Team Jack for all of book 1 and even most of book 2, when I finally saw the light and switched to Team Ramsey. After re-reading the entire series, that just solidified to me why Ramsey is the best...with that said, I went into AT with the mentality of "Team anyone but Jack" because I just had this feeling that Ramsey wasn't going to be the HEA and I wanted to prepare myself. After all, there was NO WAY Jack could even be a contender at this point and...



Here we go with the real review. I just cannot get over the end of this book. I feel robbed, cheated and lied to. I was perfectly content with the way AR ended. Lexi finally put Jack(ass) in his place. She was a changed woman. Avoiding Temptation had her going back on all of that. This book taught me that the nice guy really does finish last. Jack was an asshole to Lexi for about 10 years. HE MARRIED ANOTHER GIRL. Not to mention the 5 million other terrible things he did to Lexi over the years.

If that doesn't scream "DOUCHEBAG" I don't know what does.

The problem with Jack this entire book is that he didn't even try to make up for anything or redeem himself. He was going through a low point in his life and he expected Lexi to be there. He told her that he loved her (yea, we haven't heard that before...) and Lexi falls at his feet.

Ramsey changed his life for her, and I get that his lifestyle was one that she didn't want, but what did Jack ever do? What kind of effort did he ever put into his relationship with Lexi? Besides having sex with her and then leaving her for another girl?

Jack is a JACK. ASS. And it pisses me off that he gets the girl without doing anything redeemable.

I don't buy it. I would have been happy with any ending other than this one. I would have been happy if Lexi said "Screw you!" to all guys and left on her own. I would have been happy with another guy in the picture. Anything as long as it wasn't Jack.

But enough about Jack.

On to Ramsey. I don't think I need to name the million reasons why I feel he's a better man (he proved it in every book just by putting Lexi first,) but I am soooooooooooooo upset that we find out that Ramsey was in fact an upstanding gentleman who fiercely loved Lexi, but he was robbed of his happiness. WHY DOES JACK GET TO BE HAPPY? HE DOES NOT DESERVE IT.

The entire time Lexi is second guessing her engagement with Ramsey and all that it really made me want to do was grab her by the shoulders and shake her. She told Ramsey that he was a good guy, just not a good guy for her and the only explanation I got was because of his money/lifestyle????? ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

I do not feel that this was an organic ending. I feel that it was forced in this direction from the beginning. Like I said, I was Team Ramsey, but I really would have been okay with any HEA other than Jack because it just didn't feel right. I feel that everything we have been working toward for 2 books was shattered in this one.

There was just too much working against Ramsey in this book and my heart truly breaks for him. I just...can't even get past this. And then Lexi runs off and has sex with Jack as soon as she leaves Ramsey's?

It makes me sick.
Profile Image for Carol (StarAngel's Reviews) Allen.
1,691 reviews635 followers
did-not-finish
December 12, 2013
DNF @ 30%

I can't do this.....I'm so ashamed of myself

I can't endure the heartbreak that Ramsey is going to have to go through.

I can't endure the hatred I'm going to feel towards Lexi.

I gave #1 and #2 both 5 stars but I can't wrap my head around this -----

Why stay friends with a guy who has been a major asshole to you?

Why agree to marry another guy when you just aren't "feeling" it?

I wanted Jack but I switched sides to Ramsey.....no no no

I know this book will frustrate me and get my blood pressure boiling....

I had such high hopes - why fucking go back to a guy who married and now he wants you back? When his wife wants a divorce?? Is there no shame?

So I'm gonna proudly announce DEFEAT and step away.

Sorry - it's just me :-(
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2,082 reviews893 followers
July 19, 2014
5 I-can’t-believe-my-Kindle-survived-this-series-stars



This has to be one of the most difficult reviews to write. I am going to try my hardest to avoid giving anything away for those who are either in the midst of reading the final book or those who’ve been waiting to start this series. There has been no question that I am a proud member of Team Jack, but that in no way made me feel like there was only one path for Lexi to find her happily ever after.

Each man offered Lexi a different ending. Each one could have easily been the right choice in the right situation.

K.A. Linde did an absolutely brilliant job creating this story. Imagine creating a heroine that is so unsure as to what she wants, cheats to get stolen moments with the man she craves and then continues to change her mind at every turn. Normally this is the type of heroine we would have hated. But for some reason we absolutely loved her, we felt for her. We looked past her flaws. We even tried to pin the titles of the series on the men in her life. All along it was Lexi who avoided commitment, responsibility and temptation.

The story stayed true to the style of the prior books. Starting off in the present and then flashing back and making its way back to the present. We start a few years into the future after walking away from Jack with Ramsey. And we see what decision Jack made that day, how everyone remained connected. We even get a great moment with Adam and Chyna that was such a highlight to this series.

This series evokes so many emotions in the reader. At times, it has brought out the worst in us but it just showcases the absolute power that K.A. Linde has in her writing ability. You don't walk away from this battle unscathed. You are bloodied and bruised. I knew that no matter how this story ended that I would be able to accept it and understand it, even if I did not get my way. I put my faith in the author completely to get me to see how this needed to end. To let the story play out and to let the characters in her head write their endings.

Emotions were high, no doubt. But for some reason the anxiety that I felt with the first two books was missing. Replaced with a bit of anticipation and excitement to see this through. That is not saying this did not have the big moments and the nerves, it did. It's just that it felt like a calm had washed over me, I wasn't fearful of the ending of the story as I imagined I would be. I think that has a lot to do with being able to just know that it would make sense, that we would not be led to some makeshift ending, that K.A. Linde would make it so this felt right, like there was no other option as to how this ended.

And then we have the boys.

John
A complete out of nowhere, dark horse. His actions with Chyna were appalling, his interactions with Lexi were limited. But yet he was a fixture in her life, her thoughts. He made her heart skip a beat.

Ramsey
The man that entered her life with nothing but lies trailing behind him. A man that changed everything about who he was to be the man for the woman he fell in love with. Ramsey was not perfect, but God knows he tried. Once he realized that he loved Lexi, he never wavered.

Jack
If wrong could be done in a relationship, Jack found a way to do it, effortlessly. He loved Lexi but he also was so afraid of what that love would do to him. He pushed and he ruined her over and over again, but he couldn’t ever fully let her go. Jack tried to be a better man, by force. But it wasn’t until he stopped trying that he really was a better man.

None of these men were perfect.


Slight spoilers – past series revelations…


Slight spoilers – WTF moments that I have to rant about…plot ruining moments… LOOK AWAY.


MAJOR FUCKING SPOILER.



“Please don’t pity me, Lex,” he said so softly she almost didn’t hear him. “Don’t remind me that I gave you up for this.”


“I’m pretty sure the only thing that kept getting in the way of my relationships was your dick,” she said, not able to hold her anger down.
“Oh, come on, Lex, give me some credit. Sometimes my tongue, too.”

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632 reviews2,972 followers
December 11, 2013
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Wait!! In all seriousness, I truly think these characters have matured and taken many steps forward (minus the Bitch).

THE END!!!!!
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370 reviews496 followers
December 16, 2013

3.5-4ish Stars!

Do you want to read a book that makes you crazy?

*******This review contains major spoilers*****



Well you've pricked the correct series!

Now we all knew Jack married Bekkah bitch at the end if Avoiding Responsibility and Lexi left the wedding and chose Ramsey!



Fast forward two years.......

Lexi is still with Ramsey but now she and Jack are friends??? Sorry what?!



And.......

Ramsey has just proposed to Lexi

And........



Bekkah bitch has asked Jack for a divorce!

Yeah you heard me, so what now?



Jack needs his 'friend' Lexi right now?



I'm sure red flags popping up in your head.

Suddenly Lexi is getting cold feet about her wedding and struggles to even tell Jack, now why is that?



Ohh come on.... We're back to this...




What a cluster fuck between Lexi, Jack, Ramsey, Parker, Bekkah and John.



Lexi is constantly jealous of Ramsey and Parker who are just friends but she's the same with Jack. Why is that?



Who do YOU think Lexi will choose?



It's not rocket science, you know the answer.





Oh and Incase you wondering, bitch Bekkah finally gets what she deserves!!!



Look I have a LOVE/HATE relationship with everyone in this series!
I started off in book one with team Jack which progressed into team Ramsey and now.... I am team NO One! Over all this drama!
Sure glad it's over!

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1,260 reviews10.2k followers
December 14, 2013
TEN++++++++++++ OVER THE FUCKING MOON STARS!!!!!!!
(BR with Melissa❤️❤️❤️)
I'm going to wait at least till the weekend to post a review so as not to spoil it for anyone.

I just want to say I love you Kyla Linde!!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HEALING MY HEART!!!

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OK...so here I go and this may be a long one because I FUCKING LOVED this finale to the series!!

I, along with many other women waited well over a year for this book to come out.
This is definitely a story that will definitely make you go through the most unbearable angst you will ever have to endure.
There are three men in this book that lucky Lexi is or has been involved with and will have to ultimately choose who to end up with.
What a lucky bitch that Lexi is!!!

Everyone has their favorite man and they aren't afraid to say what team they're on. And holy hell, will these women fight to the death over a fictional character!!
I've never seen so much drama play out on Facebook EVER!!!



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We knew Lexi would have to end up with one man at the end of this book.
Whomever she picked, there were going to be plenty of women who were ECSTATIC, and PLENTY of women HEARTBROKEN.
So heartbroken and pissed off, that they'd rate this book LOW and DARE to even return their ebooks for a refund. (SHAME ON THOSE WOMEN!!)

I was nervous a few weeks leading up to this book release.
I vowed to get shit faced if my guy ended up losing Lexi again!
I vowed to drive 40 miles to Jen's house so that we could cry together!!

I LOVE ALL MY TEAM JACK LADIES!! LOVE YOU HARD!!!


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I prayed so hard that Kyla would do right by us ladies.
We suffered through two books of heart break.
We never faltered in our love of all things Jack.
We all had faith in him. That he could turn things around and redeem himself.
So when his POV came out, my hopes were even higher!!
That POV depicted the Jack all of us Jack Packers adored!!


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Here's where I am going to give the story away, so now's the time to close out of my review if you haven't read this book yet!!




So that is why my rating is still a PERFECT TEN!!
I will forever cherish this series.
The only books that have ever made me want to break my iPAD, which is my most valued & treasured possession!! :)

Oh and of course having Kellan and the DBags around in this one helped to make it even more special!!

I will leave off with some of my favorite quotes from this book!
I highlighted so many throughout!!


"To be honest, I've given it up for less. The chase is getting me to commit. While you don't know my past, the first thing you should know is that I avoid commitment at all costs." - Lexi


That Sienna was a lucky bitch if she were fucking the lead singer because he was quite possibly one of the sexiest men on the planet. Lexi was sure she would use a pass with Ramsey to get to Kellan Kyle.

That song always sounded like someone had written it with a specific person in mind. It was so emotional, tugging at her heart and forcing her to feel every powerful, heart-wrenching word.



As his blue eyes found her in the crowd, she knew that there would forever be a pull between them--a magnetic, inexplicable pull. If she kept fighting it, then she would only be putting all of her energy into pushing something away that kept crashing into her life and not focusing on the life she was currently living.



"Lexi, whether or not Stella seduced me and I told her no five million times did not matter to me because I let you down that night. You were right. We were different. And then I slept with her. No matter what happened to get me there...that was still the outcome. I didn't deserve you."




"You shouldn't be around me anymore. You shouldn't want to, Lex. Because all I see when I look at you is the woman I love, the woman I want to take home with me, the woman who I've spent damn near ten years messing things up with. And you should stay away because I know I'd do it all over again."



"I gave it a shot, Lex. I gave you your space. I let you be happy. That's what you said you wanted." He gripped her hand a little harder. "How did that work out? Are you happy? Are you happy without me?"



" Let me try to get this out. I...I had this idea in my head that it would never work out between us. I wanted it. I really fucking wanted it. But I just couldn't see it happening, Lex."



"Well, look, I pushed so hard that I married someone without that passion, without the burning drive, and it's all fucked-up, too, Lex. It didn't matter that my parents loved each other because they let that love die. I never had it with Bekah...I've only had it with you. And I don't want to let it die, Lex. Not ever."




"When you landed on my doorstep last week, you asked me what you should do," he reminded her. "I asked you the same question on my wedding day. You should have told me to walk away. You should have told me to leave her. That's what you should have told me. I think all along it was what I wanted to hear. I made the mistake...and I don't want you to make the same one."



"Seth has always said that you're my girl. Well...I'm your guy. I always have been. I've just been too damn scared to do anything about it. But I'll be damned if I let you slip through my fingers again. I'm yours. You're mine. Just...be mine."



"Nothing is ever easy with us, but that doesn't mean it's not worth fighting for. The best things in life are worth fighting for, and you're the best thing I've ever had in my life."



"I don't want it to be easy. I just want it to be right, and the only way it's ever going to be right is with you."



"I think you're right. Your feelings for people do change with time. You might need someone for one reason, and then when that reason is obsolete, you might not need that person anymore. People come in and out of your life all the time. They shape and mold you like clay, and then water washes away the edges." - Lexi



"I already have one that belongs to me. It was saved for me before I even knew who you were." - Lexi




"My heart belongs to you," she told him. "You took it a long time ago and never gave it back."
"And I'm never going to," he said.



"I don't want to erase those memories. They keep us on the straight and narrow. They remind us where we went wrong and where to go from here. They kept us together,' he said. "You and I, Lex, we'll always be unfinished business."
December 20, 2013
3.5 ★'s

My Thoughts:

✦ Well, it's been a long wait for me to get to this conclusion, over 1 1/2 years, and I have to say that while I liked how it ended, there were just too many things that bothered me.

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✦ I just really do not like the going back and forth from the present to the past. It feels choppy and I find myself going back and forth rereading what happened last.

✦ Jack...while I have to say that I liked his improvements, I didn't like what prompted him. I was happy that he finally got it but I wanted him to fight! And what he said to Bekah about "maybe nine months ago"...seriously?

✦ Ramsey...while I'm not Team Ramsey, I can definitely see the pull. The park? sooo romantic! The problem is...he's trying too hard and I think the reason is that things are not settled with Parker. The "what ifs" killed me...I just couldn't trust him.

✦ John...ugh. I can't even go there. All I can say is don't let the door hit you on your way out! Good riddance! How can he even be related to the wonderful Adam?

✦ Lexi...while I'm glad she finally figured things out, I still think she has a lot of growing up to do. The last thing she said to Ramsey was unforgivable.

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✦ Bekah...got what she deserved.

✦ Clark...that was surprising!

✦ Adam and Chyna...stole the show. love them!

✦ Can we talk about all the "ya'lls"? It seemed a bit gratuitous and definitely overkill. There's more to the Southern dialect than that.

✦ Loved the D-bag concert...and of course KELLAN! ~sigh~

✦ Like I said, I'm happy with the way it ended even with the few left turns. An epilogue would've been nice especially to know how a certain someone was doing. :(


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Favorite quotes:

❤ “You are and always will be everything I want in my life. You get me through even the cloudiest of days by making the sun shine all around you. I could never in a million years find the right words to let you know how much you mean to me. So, I thought I’d start my explanation with this.” 

❤ “I just thought…it would make you happy. I know I can’t make up for everything, but as long as you’re happy, then that’s all that matters.”

❤ “Losing you was the biggest mistake of my life. I don’t think another person deserves to feel that loss at my expense.”

❤ “Nothing is ever easy with us, but that doesn’t mean it’s not worth fighting for. The best things in life are worth fighting for, and you’re the best thing I’ve ever had in my life.”
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December 16, 2013

“No matter what we might want, we have to live with our mistake and live with our past”.

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Writing this review without spoiling the book is going to be little challenging, but I shall try.

If you’re looking for a book filled with drama, mind games, wild angst, heartache and love triangles than The Avoiding Series delivers precisely that and more.

This story was flawed. If you're expecting a hearts and flowers kind of story nicely wrapped with a bright pink bow, then maybe give this book a miss. I tossed and turned about whose team I was on throughout most of the series. One was a cheater and the other was a liar. Isn't that the same thing really?

If you put both guys aside for a moment and look at the main character Lexi, you'll see that she wasn't emotional stable. She was extremely weak and indecisive which was a reflection of the consequences of her actions.

I just have to mention that scene at 83% - it gutted me! While I agree the ending was fitting for the story, that scene left me in a puddle of emotion. It was painfully honest and emotionally raw. I can't help but feel that, that scene took away some of the glory of the ending. It felt unfair.

Despite not agreeing with how it ended I still really enjoyed reading this book. I think the book was brilliantly done and KA's work is remarkably unique. The fact that she stirred up all these emotions, proves that her book was well done. I just think you need to be a bit thick skinned to accept the ending.

I think it's good to read something out of the norm once in a while but I would still love to see an epilogue for the one that "that got away".


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Dialogue: 4/5
Writing: 4.5/5
Story Line: 4/5
Steam: Moderate
Ending: 3.5/5
Recommend? : Yes
Series/Standalone: Book three of a three book series and two Novellas.

• Avoiding Commitment (Avoiding Series #1)
• Avoiding Decisions (Avoiding Series #1.5) — a novella from Jack’s POV and from Ramsey’s POV
•Avoiding Responsibility (Avoiding Series #2)
•Avoiding Intimacy (Avoiding Series) (Avoiding Series novella #2.5 – Chyna’s book)
•Avoiding Temptation (Avoiding Series #3)


Book Rating: *4 Stars*
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February 27, 2013
So excited to this one! I hope Lexi and Jack will get back together! Lexi's soulmate is Jack. Ramsey is a great guy an he deserves an adorable girl but not Lexi.. I mean Lexi was incredible but she's not good for Ramsey.. I knew she love Jack and she'll always be in love with him.. They are meant together.. I hope Jack will come to his senses and marry Lexi.. As for Becca, she's a bitch! She deserves to be alone!! And Ramsey,, he needs to fall in love with a new girl with an incredible personality..
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December 14, 2013
(BR with Patty)

*Most of the Jack pics and quotes in my review were posted before I read the book, because I am Team Jack! Not meant as a spoiler of any kind, just showing my Jack love! lol*

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I thoroughly enjoyed this series and loved all the angst, drama, love, and variety of smoking hot men! Lexi was one lucky girl to have such quality men fall for her. I really could see her with all three of them. Jack I felt was her soul mate, but I also fell for Ramsey and John. I credit the author's writing for making me care so deeply for all of the men! My heart broke for the man Lexi doesn't choose to be with, & I hope we get a novella for him giving him a HEA. With that said, Lexi followed her heart, went after what she wanted, and got her HEA. I would also enjoy a novella for Lexi and her chosen guy into the future a little. I loved the HEA for Chyna & adored that the D-Bags made an appearance in the story! This was such an emotional, wonderful series, and I look forward to reading more from K.A. Linde! :D

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*Favorite quotes*

-"Don't ever forget that I know who you are as much as you know who I am."

-"We fit together perfectly," he murmured. "Don't let anyone tell you different."

-"Nothing is ever easy with us, but that doesn't mean it's not worth fighting for.

-"I don't want it to be easy. I just want it to be right, and the only way it's ever going to be right is with you."

"You're what I want. You're all I want."

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February 17, 2014
How is it that people are still rooting for Jack? I'm just hoping that Ramsey will be proposing to Lexi in this book...
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103 reviews
September 9, 2016
I will write a review after it has settled a while. My rating will not change though.

ETA review---SPOILERS AHEAD---:










This series had a good ending with Avoiding Responsibilty. Lexi was a strong, independent woman who had self-respect. AT took Lexi back to the weak, needy, selfish woman with no self-respect. Jack did NOTHING to redeem himself. He married Bekah and only wanted Lexi back after Bekah leaves him. He even tells Bekah (in front of Lexi) at the end that he would have worked on his marriage if she were willing. NEWS FLASH LEXI: you are still his 2nd choice. Just like always. What did this book show me? That the good guy finishes last. Ramsey did everything you want in a HEA. He chose her over everyone...changed things for her...showed her he was committed to only her and she was his heart. He put her back together after Jack left her broken. And what did he get? For lexi to end things with him and minutes later jump in bed with douchebag Jack. The one who lied, cheated, chose other people repeatedly over Lexi and broke her only to win in the end. What an absolute joke. Jack and Lexi deserve one another. What they have is based on lies and lust, and they are both selfish, weak, heartless characters. What a disappointment.
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