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Joy Chose You: Words for Hope, Comfort and Light: The instant Sunday Times bestseller & perfect gift
THE INSTANT SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER and perfect for the special person in your life this Mother's Day.
A beautiful gift to bring joy and comfort to your days, from the number 1 Sunday Times bestselling author of To the Women and Wild Hope
'Beautiful . . . Donna's words melt me' - Davina McCall
Joy Chose You is a beautiful, colour-illustrated collection of Donna's most-loved poems to bring more joy into our imperfect lives. When we allow joy to wrap her quiet warmth around us we find ourselves opening up to more life, love and light.
With poems such as 'Joy Comes Back', 'Happy' and 'Unstoppable', as well as 20 new poems, including 'This Little Moment', 'Love Wins' and 'A Little Weird', Donna's wise words help us find hope in the dark, calm amid worry and greater joy in the beauty of living.
[JOY CHOSE YOU by Donna Ashworth was the No. 5 Sunday Times bestseller w/e 12 October 2025]
A beautiful gift to bring joy and comfort to your days, from the number 1 Sunday Times bestselling author of To the Women and Wild Hope
'Beautiful . . . Donna's words melt me' - Davina McCall
Joy Chose You is a beautiful, colour-illustrated collection of Donna's most-loved poems to bring more joy into our imperfect lives. When we allow joy to wrap her quiet warmth around us we find ourselves opening up to more life, love and light.
With poems such as 'Joy Comes Back', 'Happy' and 'Unstoppable', as well as 20 new poems, including 'This Little Moment', 'Love Wins' and 'A Little Weird', Donna's wise words help us find hope in the dark, calm amid worry and greater joy in the beauty of living.
[JOY CHOSE YOU by Donna Ashworth was the No. 5 Sunday Times bestseller w/e 12 October 2025]
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256 pages, Kindle Edition
Published October 2, 2025
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October 2, 2025
A collection of Donna Ashworth’s most popular poems.
What a beautiful book. I have to comment on the physical qualities of the hardback book as it is simply gorgeous. The deep green cover, sumptuous gold lettering and gold silk place marker give a traditional feel that is very high quality so that Joy Chose You would make a wonderful gift book. With occasional black for emphasis, the end papers and interior illustrations are the most soothing green with the alignment of text to illustration and white space so well balanced that the anthology creates a feeling of calm and soothes the reader before a single poem has been accessed. This really is a keepsake collection.
As well as poems, there are questions for reflection that encourage the reader to assess their life and there are beneficial suggestions so that perhaps readers might make changes in their lives as a result. There are also statements that sum up to perfection the aphorisms of life and short passages of prose that feel as if the author is speaking directly to the reader. I rarely quote from books as I think it can spoil the read for others, but I urge you to get a copy of the book, turn to page 227 and make Be The Peace your mantra for life. Joy Chose You is a collection that encourages, guides and supports as if Donna Ashworth is your oldest, most cherished friend speaking directly with you.
But of course, it is the poetry itself that is the shining star. If you’re looking for challenging literary allegory or scathing socio-political commentary in your poems, look elsewhere. Turn to Milton, the Metaphysicals, Dante or some other ‘great’ poet. If, however, you want to read words that speak to the heart and soul of who we are, that bring comfort and understanding and that make you feel seen and loved even in your darkest or most unattractive moment, then read Joy Chose You. I defy anybody, regardless of their education, their social status or their personal circumstances not to be able to find something in this anthology that resonates, supports and heals.
On that personal note, since Mum died a few weeks ago, I have found it impossible to settle to reading – which is normally a great passion. I’ve gone from reading 3 to 5 books a week to reading perhaps one book every 10 or 12 days. Picking up Joy Chose You, reading a whole poem or passage in a quiet moment and finding something with which I can identify has indeed returned that feeling of joy. Never mind joy choosing you; I suggest you choose this anthology and make your own life a happier and more positive place. I won’t be parting with my copy of Joy Chose You, but rather will return to it in those moments when I need its gentle support.
What a beautiful book. I have to comment on the physical qualities of the hardback book as it is simply gorgeous. The deep green cover, sumptuous gold lettering and gold silk place marker give a traditional feel that is very high quality so that Joy Chose You would make a wonderful gift book. With occasional black for emphasis, the end papers and interior illustrations are the most soothing green with the alignment of text to illustration and white space so well balanced that the anthology creates a feeling of calm and soothes the reader before a single poem has been accessed. This really is a keepsake collection.
As well as poems, there are questions for reflection that encourage the reader to assess their life and there are beneficial suggestions so that perhaps readers might make changes in their lives as a result. There are also statements that sum up to perfection the aphorisms of life and short passages of prose that feel as if the author is speaking directly to the reader. I rarely quote from books as I think it can spoil the read for others, but I urge you to get a copy of the book, turn to page 227 and make Be The Peace your mantra for life. Joy Chose You is a collection that encourages, guides and supports as if Donna Ashworth is your oldest, most cherished friend speaking directly with you.
But of course, it is the poetry itself that is the shining star. If you’re looking for challenging literary allegory or scathing socio-political commentary in your poems, look elsewhere. Turn to Milton, the Metaphysicals, Dante or some other ‘great’ poet. If, however, you want to read words that speak to the heart and soul of who we are, that bring comfort and understanding and that make you feel seen and loved even in your darkest or most unattractive moment, then read Joy Chose You. I defy anybody, regardless of their education, their social status or their personal circumstances not to be able to find something in this anthology that resonates, supports and heals.
On that personal note, since Mum died a few weeks ago, I have found it impossible to settle to reading – which is normally a great passion. I’ve gone from reading 3 to 5 books a week to reading perhaps one book every 10 or 12 days. Picking up Joy Chose You, reading a whole poem or passage in a quiet moment and finding something with which I can identify has indeed returned that feeling of joy. Never mind joy choosing you; I suggest you choose this anthology and make your own life a happier and more positive place. I won’t be parting with my copy of Joy Chose You, but rather will return to it in those moments when I need its gentle support.
March 18, 2026
Just absolutely beautiful. This book is a treasure that I will keep with me always and return to again and again.
April 11, 2026
A quick, easy, sumptuous, warm blanket of a read. I’m so glad to have found Donna Ashworth (by IG recommendation for grief books) and I’ve devoured her wonderful poetry this year. Also, this package is STUNNING and I’m thrilled to have a keepsake collection.
Poems that resonated with me:
✨Rest✨ (page 29)
If only we could see the power in rest. If only
we could attach to it the worth it so deserves.
If only we could open our minds to the idea that
everything in nature has its time to rise and its
time to descend. That each of these acts is as
important as the other. And that is exactly as it
must be. If only the ability to allow our bodies
space to heal was awarded the same badge of
honour given to busyness and stress in this life.
If only we could realise, resting is very much doing.
✨Good ✨ (Page 81)
Most people are good. Most people kiss their pets
goodbye and read just one more bedtime story to
their children. Most people visit their grandparents
even when they have no time and stop by to check
on quiet friends after a long day. Most people return
their shopping trolleys, despite being already late,
and let someone with only one item jump to the front
of a queue. Most people give money when money
is scarce and most people worry about people they
don't even know, day in and day out. When the world
seems bad, remember, most people are good.
✨Eclipse of Grief✨ (Page 99)
Maybe grief is the moon and love is the sun. And as they
pass one another into the unknown, there is a kind of
mystical eclipse. The grief blocks out all the light, you
see. All the love, all the everything. I know. But that can't
last. They will shift into their new places eventually. And
whilst they dance this heart-breaking waltz. it is vital that
you don't forget how to breathe. That's it. That's all you
need to be alive…a heartbeat and a breath. And if you sit
there, with those life-givers, hope will find you, every day.
Just a little. And joy may even sneak in too. Through the
cracks. Fleetingly. Let them. Because one day the moon
will anchor firmly in place amongst the stars and let the
sun beat down again in all her glory. And you deserve
that light. And every night, there the moon will be, shining
through the dark and reminding you you're not alone.
Until it’s time for you to finally come home.
✨Small Joys✨ (Page 127)
If life feels draining and heavy right now, celebrate the
small joys. I mean the really small joys. When the morning
radio plays your kind of music and the toast is crisped
perfectly. When the parcel arrives on time and the
washing dries outside. When your sheets feel cool and
crisp and your friend texts to say they are thinking of you.
Quietly celebrate the heck out of all those tiny things and
you will find your joy in the mundane. And when you can
find joy in the mundane, life opens up, perspective shifts
and beauty reveals itself to you...from all around.
✨Love Came First✨ (Page 199)
You don't move on after loss, but you must
move with. You must shake hands with grief,
welcome her in, for she lives with you now. Pull
her a chair at the table and offer her comfort.
She is not the monster you first thought her
to be. She is love. And she will walk with you
now, stay with you now, peacefully. If you let
her. And on the days when your anger is high,
remember why she came, remember who she
represents. Remember. Grief came to you, my
friend, because love came first. Love came first.
Poems that resonated with me:
✨Rest✨ (page 29)
If only we could see the power in rest. If only
we could attach to it the worth it so deserves.
If only we could open our minds to the idea that
everything in nature has its time to rise and its
time to descend. That each of these acts is as
important as the other. And that is exactly as it
must be. If only the ability to allow our bodies
space to heal was awarded the same badge of
honour given to busyness and stress in this life.
If only we could realise, resting is very much doing.
✨Good ✨ (Page 81)
Most people are good. Most people kiss their pets
goodbye and read just one more bedtime story to
their children. Most people visit their grandparents
even when they have no time and stop by to check
on quiet friends after a long day. Most people return
their shopping trolleys, despite being already late,
and let someone with only one item jump to the front
of a queue. Most people give money when money
is scarce and most people worry about people they
don't even know, day in and day out. When the world
seems bad, remember, most people are good.
✨Eclipse of Grief✨ (Page 99)
Maybe grief is the moon and love is the sun. And as they
pass one another into the unknown, there is a kind of
mystical eclipse. The grief blocks out all the light, you
see. All the love, all the everything. I know. But that can't
last. They will shift into their new places eventually. And
whilst they dance this heart-breaking waltz. it is vital that
you don't forget how to breathe. That's it. That's all you
need to be alive…a heartbeat and a breath. And if you sit
there, with those life-givers, hope will find you, every day.
Just a little. And joy may even sneak in too. Through the
cracks. Fleetingly. Let them. Because one day the moon
will anchor firmly in place amongst the stars and let the
sun beat down again in all her glory. And you deserve
that light. And every night, there the moon will be, shining
through the dark and reminding you you're not alone.
Until it’s time for you to finally come home.
✨Small Joys✨ (Page 127)
If life feels draining and heavy right now, celebrate the
small joys. I mean the really small joys. When the morning
radio plays your kind of music and the toast is crisped
perfectly. When the parcel arrives on time and the
washing dries outside. When your sheets feel cool and
crisp and your friend texts to say they are thinking of you.
Quietly celebrate the heck out of all those tiny things and
you will find your joy in the mundane. And when you can
find joy in the mundane, life opens up, perspective shifts
and beauty reveals itself to you...from all around.
✨Love Came First✨ (Page 199)
You don't move on after loss, but you must
move with. You must shake hands with grief,
welcome her in, for she lives with you now. Pull
her a chair at the table and offer her comfort.
She is not the monster you first thought her
to be. She is love. And she will walk with you
now, stay with you now, peacefully. If you let
her. And on the days when your anger is high,
remember why she came, remember who she
represents. Remember. Grief came to you, my
friend, because love came first. Love came first.
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October 28, 2025
Donna Ashworth's poetry collections have always been beautiful - but Joy Chose You has to be the best yet. It is a beautifully crafted poetry collection that offers solace, encouragement, and a gentle reminder to embrace life's imperfections.
Aesthetic Appeal: The hardcover edition is a visual delight, with a deep green cover adorned with gold lettering and a silk ribbon marker. The interior features stunning illustrations - making this a poetry collection to display with pride and revisit time and time again.
Emotional Resonance: Donna's writing speaks directly to the heart. Her words offer comfort during difficult times, making readers feel seen and understood, there will be a page in this books that speaks to everyone and anyone.
Joy Chose You is more than just a poetry collection; it's a companion for those seeking light and hope. Whether you're navigating personal challenges or simply in need of a comforting read, Donna's words offer a gentle embrace. This book would make a thoughtful gift for anyone in need of encouragement or a reminder of life's simple joys.
Aesthetic Appeal: The hardcover edition is a visual delight, with a deep green cover adorned with gold lettering and a silk ribbon marker. The interior features stunning illustrations - making this a poetry collection to display with pride and revisit time and time again.
Emotional Resonance: Donna's writing speaks directly to the heart. Her words offer comfort during difficult times, making readers feel seen and understood, there will be a page in this books that speaks to everyone and anyone.
Joy Chose You is more than just a poetry collection; it's a companion for those seeking light and hope. Whether you're navigating personal challenges or simply in need of a comforting read, Donna's words offer a gentle embrace. This book would make a thoughtful gift for anyone in need of encouragement or a reminder of life's simple joys.
January 2, 2026
First book of the year complete today! What a beauty this one is ... I absolutely love @donnaashworthwords her poetry is just gorgeous. This book is like a "best of Donna" collecting together a selection of poems from all her other collections along with some new ones too.
It's very special to me this one because the three poems I picked for my mum's funeral are in here so a lot of feelings when reading this but overall what I get from reading Donna's work is a feeling of comfort and warmth, I don't feel sad when I read Donna's poems on grief and that in itself is pure magic.
I will say there are a lot of other themes in here other than grief (that's just what is speaking to me the most at this present time) Friendship, Love, Self Care, Confidence, Motherhood and much more, there's something for everyone. I'm very grateful for the words Donna, I truly believe this lady's poems could help so many people. A beautiful read. 🫶🏻
It's very special to me this one because the three poems I picked for my mum's funeral are in here so a lot of feelings when reading this but overall what I get from reading Donna's work is a feeling of comfort and warmth, I don't feel sad when I read Donna's poems on grief and that in itself is pure magic.
I will say there are a lot of other themes in here other than grief (that's just what is speaking to me the most at this present time) Friendship, Love, Self Care, Confidence, Motherhood and much more, there's something for everyone. I'm very grateful for the words Donna, I truly believe this lady's poems could help so many people. A beautiful read. 🫶🏻
January 22, 2026
I received this for Christmas - I enjoy all of her books and this was a mixture of many books. Some I don’t have or read yet. Some in this book I’ve read many times in the books I own and help with the happy/sad days of grief. I enjoy her poems. Women are complex and have many roles to play in our day to day lives and some days are easy and some are difficult. I will continue to purchase her works when they come out.
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February 16, 2026
Im not one for poetry that rhymes generally and this book has a mix of poems that do / don’t. My favourite by far was page 156. ‘Sadness comes’ particularly the line ‘I think perhaps they know by now I sometimes come as two’ when talking about sadness and meeting with friends. ‘Let your sad accompany you don’t think her hard to bear, no need to face her all alone just pull an extra chair.’
October 21, 2025
A moving collection of poetry from the wonderful Donna Ashworth. A rollercoaster of emotion, that helps you reflect on what really matters; love, hope, connection and, of course, joy!
I'll be dipping in and out of this collection in years to come.
Thank you to the publishers for a copy
I'll be dipping in and out of this collection in years to come.
Thank you to the publishers for a copy
April 4, 2026
As usual Donna Ashworth does not disappoint. Her poetry speaks to me sometimes on a very deep level sometimes waking parts of me I have submerged and at other times easing my mind. A pure joy with some uncomfortable feelings to be dealt with but love it. Thank you Donna!
May 4, 2026
Found Donna after my dad passed away and was always so comforted by her words. Was excited to get a book of her poems for Christmas. Read one each day and can’t wait to get another. She has a simple beauty with words
November 1, 2025
This was a book for my soul. Beautiful poetry that reminds you to slow down and embrace the joy in our lives.
December 9, 2025
loved it! such a beautiful book and the audio was so calming as it was read by the author. I'll be purchasing this book so I can randomly come back to it again and again.
December 28, 2025
this is lovely
definitely gets you into a more kind and compassionate headspace
definitely gets you into a more kind and compassionate headspace
January 4, 2026
Wonderful poetry for when you just need to be reminded to choose yourself every now and then.
January 19, 2026
Love this poetry book so much! So glad that I found this author's poetry.
February 16, 2026
beautiful collection, i have been dipping in to a few each night as the mood has taken me. so many resonate with how I feel
March 7, 2026
Absolutely gorgeous compilation of poetry from Donna's previous books, accompanied by soothing art.
March 9, 2026
Beautiful collection of poems! Some made my heart sing, some made me cry, many made me share them with a friend. Donna never misses the mark.
April 23, 2026
I pick this book up every day and read a random passage. It unbelievably gives me exactly what I need every single time.
October 8, 2025
Just A Day…
No, today probably won’t be a great day, but it absolutely won’t be a bad day either.
Another great poetry collection from the lovely Donna 🥹
Thank you for such beautiful poems ❤️
No, today probably won’t be a great day, but it absolutely won’t be a bad day either.
Another great poetry collection from the lovely Donna 🥹
Thank you for such beautiful poems ❤️
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