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Biting and gentle, hard-edged and hopeful . . . a beautiful fable of love and power, hiding and seeking, woundedness and redemption.


When a "lizard woman," a self-mutilating preacher, a tattoed monk, and a sleazy lobbyist find themselves in the same North Carolina town one winter, their lives are edging precariously close to disaster . . . and improbably close to grace.

314 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2007

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Lisa Samson

63 books193 followers
The Christy-award winning author of nineteen books including the Women of Faith Novel of the Year Quaker Summer, Lisa Samson has been hailed by Publishers Weekly as "a talented novelist who isn't afraid to take risks." She lives in Kentucky with her husband and three kids.

Also, published under the name L.L. Samson

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Profile Image for Melissa (Semi Hiatus Until After the Holidays).
5,152 reviews3,120 followers
January 4, 2022
Some very brilliant parts and insights mixed in with some cliched predictable parts. About circus/sideshow freaks and how they mirror the Body of Christ.
Biblical truth resonates in Samson's latest outstanding novel. The two main characters are misfits who represent the unique qualities of the body of Christ. Readers will see themselves mirrored on each page, and though the feelings evoked aren't always pleasant, they are life changing. Forgiveness abounds in this stunning tale.

Valentine, a physically scarred member of a freak show, shuts herself off from most of the world with a scarf covering her face. Valentine cares for her best friend and fellow freak show oddity, a woman with no arms and legs.

Augustus carries his own scars from the past, but his are emotional and spiritual rather than physical. Grace reigns when this unlikely pair become friends and begin to confide in each other.
768 reviews24 followers
February 18, 2010
I have told you that I'm a card-carrying member of the Lisa Samson fan club, haven't I? Instead of standing out on the street today freezing my patoot off, I stayed inside and finished Embrace Me, a wonderful story of two very wounded people who needed to both accept and give forgiveness. Valentine's face was badly burned by Drano years ago. Since that time she has made her living as "The Lizard Lady" in a carnival side-show. She dresses in a lovely green sequined gown and people can stare at her scarred face, and the effect is lizard-like. She is friends with "The Cocoon Girl", Lella, who has no arms or legs. During the summer they travel with a small circus; during the winter they live in a boarding house in Mount Oak, the setting of two other Samson books: The Church Ladies (my review ) and Songbird (my review). Charmaine from Songbird is a strong secondary character in Embrace Me; Poppy from The Church Ladies makes a cameo appearance, but "knowing" them from the other books doesn't add much to your understanding of Embrace Me. Valentine longs for a real home, a real sense of belonging, and like most people, she needs to be needed.

The other main character is Drew. He is the son of a powerful politician. He was a preacher in Mount Oak and built his church into a mega-church. He became involved in the TV ministry of Charmaine Hopewell and her husband, and one day woke up and realized that what he was building wasn't for God. He quits his job, and walks into the local Catholic church, where he wants to go to confession. He is unable get his confession out, and the priest tells him to write it down, and then come back and they'll talk. Fr. Brian becomes his spiritual director/confessor and we read about Drew's background as he tells Fr. Brian the story.

In some ways the story was unrealistic; Samson herself in an Afterward notes that putting the disabled on display as side-show oddities is, thankfully, a thing of the past, but that she took literary license to use them as a metaphor.

Another character is Gus, who is a street minister and a member of an informal monastic community. It is praying the Liturgy of the Hours with this community that opens Valentine to the grace that God wants to give her. Rick is a member of the side-show troupe who is in love with Valentine.

Lisa Samson is a re-vert to Catholicism. She was raised Catholic, at least to some extent, left the Church for many years, and recently returned. In some ways, this book is a bridge between the Catholic and Protestant worlds. Drew isn't Catholic, but seeks reconciliation through confession, a Catholic sacrament. Fr. Brian is a good guy in the book, and, when reflecting on his church-building experiences, Drew notes that there are advantages to the parish system. Gus, and the members of his coed monastic community pray the Liturgy of the Hours, a Catholic prayer, and take the traditional monastic vows of poverty, chastity and obedience, but they are not Catholic.

The chapters alternate between Drew and Valentine and are told in the first person. Drew's chapters are dated about six years before Valentine's until at some point the stories merge. I found it effective; I know some people don't like that writing style though. I love Samson's writing, not just her stories, and there are not many authors about whom I say that. Grade: A
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Author 123 books349 followers
August 9, 2008
Embrace Me is the first book I’ve read by Christy Award winning author Lisa Samson. I can promise you one thing: it won’t be the last. This book touched me deeply with a beautiful story so skillfully told I found myself more than once stopping to read a passage again and again, savoring the words as they rolled across my soul like honey rolls across my tongue.

The story traces the paths of two people who are both deeply wounded and trying to escape lives they can no longer bear to live. Drew, the pastor of a church that’s steamrolling toward megachurch status, is running from the disaster he inflicted on himself and others by his own ambition, and fed by his desire to live up to his demanding father’s expectations. Valentine, a.k.a. Lizard Woman, deals with the disfiguring burns inflicted on her by a crazed woman the only way she can, by hiding them behind a scarf and showing them only to people who pay for the privilege when they visit the sideshow that employs her. As their stories unfold, we are drawn forward, compelled to find out how the lives of these two vastly different people intersect. When they do, the result is a deeply moving message of grace and forgiveness that brought tears to my eyes.

I’ve read a lot of books in my lifetime, so I don’t say this lightly: Embrace Me is among my top ten favorite novels of all time.
Profile Image for Amanda.
500 reviews63 followers
August 10, 2017
A beautiful story of forgiveness and repentance with richly developed characters. This one will stay with me.
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774 reviews
September 3, 2009
For a Christian fiction book, this was quite good. It didn't feel as fluffy as other Christian fiction sometimes feels to me. The characters were deeper and less "goody-two-shoes" than other main characters in this genre. The premise of the book was very unique, which took some getting used to, but it was an enjoyable read.
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1,740 reviews26 followers
June 19, 2017
This book was ok. I did not find the story unique. I did almost quit reading this book, but decided to finish it so I could count it for my "mountain" challenge. I will not be actively seeking out this book again in the future. I have second thought about the author.
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6 reviews12 followers
August 24, 2008
I didn't realize this was "Christian" lit. when I picked it up...but it is a good story of forgivness....for others and yourself.
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December 26, 2021
The different timelines were sometimes jarring but the brutal honesty and thoughtfulness of the story made up for it. I appreciate books that make me think and examine my heart and feel a little uncomfortable.
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167 reviews9 followers
October 25, 2020
An amazing story. Unusual, for sure, but amazing.
Profile Image for Deb.
591 reviews8 followers
March 4, 2011
A cast of quirky characters who have a lot to learn about forgiveness make this a heartwarming and intriguing story. Two intertwining stories are told, one of a former paster named Drew who once headed up a mega-church. A crisis of faith has him taking a sabbatical from his former glitzy life and seeking to confess his sins to a Catholic priests. Meanwhile, a performer in a sideshow dubbed the "lizard girl' because of her disfigured skin is just trying to find some measure of happiness with her best friend--another "freak" who has no arms or legs. How their stories come together is suprising at times, as past secrets are revealed bit by bit. I questioned some of the choices that the characters made at times, but I also heartily enjoyed their foibles. A strong theme of social justice, typical of Samson's books, prevails as well, as the characters illustrate what it means to serve the poor and downtrodden among us. This aspect I found particularly inspiring. I highly recommend this to fans of Christian fiction.
Profile Image for Jennifer Daniel.
1,255 reviews
April 27, 2013
I don't even know where to start. Whole lotta weird happening here. Burned up lady who did it to herself with Draino, an armless legless woman, televangelist who burned himself with cigarettes and found his mom who wasnt realy dead. And the whole time a bunch of religious crap. I hate that.
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116 reviews12 followers
July 27, 2013
A good book, one that kept me thinking when I was away from it. The characters were the best part of this book and the real focus of the story is on them.
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46 reviews1 follower
February 3, 2020
I have had this on my bookshelf for a few years now, having picked it up at a used book sale at the library for a buck. I only got around to reading it a few days ago, and once I started it, I was hooked.

First of all, I couldn't tell (and didn't remember) if it was Christian fiction or not. I didn't truly figure out that it was until well into the book. Maybe it shouldn't make me happy that I couldn't tell, but I feel like there is a definite "type" when it comes to Christian lit. You can just tell. It doesn't ring true. It doesn't seem real. Thoughts and conversations and even prayers (especially prayers) don't feel natural. This read like maybe I myself have had some of those same conversations with God, and I liked it.

The story itself boils down to three elements: forgiveness, love and service. What does it take to be a Christian? How do you please God? Forgiveness, love and service. I loved the characters as they struggled through one (or all) of these foundational beliefs. I have never met a woman born without arms or legs, never befriended a disfigured woman who hides in the dark, never personally known a power-hungry mega-church pastor who made all the wrong choices and lost it all; and yet, I felt like every one of those characters was believable. I watched their relationships grow and change and sometimes fall apart, and I wanted it all to work out for them.

And it did, but in a great way. No cliche guy-gets-the-girl romance in the end. No happy ending for the couple who learns to accept themselves the way they are because of God's love. They do accept themselves - and then they commit themselves to loving others. I'm glad it ended this way. It feels like having the two main characters end up together would have cheapened it.

I liked the writing and the plot. I didn't mind the jumping back and forth between time zones, so to speak. I didn't think it was difficult to follow, as long as you looked at the heading of each chapter. And I was stunned when the identity of the characters were revealed. Both times. The second time, I probably should have been prepared for it, but I wasn't. I had picked up on the clues but hadn't done the math yet. So good.

This is a keeper for me. It was on my bookshelf for a couple years, but it's there for good now.
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88 reviews
June 25, 2019
I thoroughly enjoyed this book, finished it in two days. I loved the characters, even one of the harder ones to love, because they’re written in such a human way that you can’t help but feel along with them. Lizard Woman is my favorite of the narrators because you can feel her pain through her snark and sass, and it feels so true-to-life. There’s depth to this novel and just enough surprises to stay hooked, and the whole thing was tied together nicely. Very much worth the read.
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1,144 reviews5 followers
November 1, 2019
This book isn't all what I wanted it to be.
I'm trying to read circus books in a broad array of genres, and this one showed up in my seardch. The cover looked circus-y, but it's not really a circus book at all. Even though I went into it expecting the wrong things, I ended up genuinely wanting to know what happened next. It starts off slow (I had to use some perseverance to get through it at times) but it was worth it. Chances are good I'll read Lisa Samson again.
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500 reviews3 followers
November 17, 2019
"Embrace Me" by Lisa Samson is one of those books that I re-read every other year because it just hits all the right spots for me. It has a journey with flawed characters. The crisis in faith has a good foundation. The end is surprising and realistic. This probably is my favorite Lisa Samson book which is saying something because except for "Songbird", I've enjoyed almost all her books. But this one is tops for me.
Profile Image for Kay Fabe.
15 reviews
July 3, 2022
I am not a Christian, however I did not feel alienated by the christian themes. It is a book about acceptance, retribution, and forgiveness both of others and of self. The characters are out there but they are also very real. You know people like this exist in theory, but the way Lisa Samson creates fundamentally flawed and human characters is so relatable. This is not a Christian fiction book that is good. This is a good book that so happens to be christian fiction.
100 reviews1 follower
July 5, 2023
I wasn't sure where this book was going when I started to read it. It is a story of forgiveness -for selves and for others. Several of the characters find this throughout the story line. I remember the 'carny" shows coming to town when I was young, but never thought about the people. That came with maturity. This has many sad moments , but, in the end, a satisfying ending.
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237 reviews6 followers
December 16, 2019
This story had unique characters including: "Lizard Woman" from a circus side show, a former preacher, and a tattooed monk. The story demonstrates God's grace toward people and forgiveness of your enemy. I enjoyed the twists of this story.
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84 reviews
April 15, 2020
I bought this book and I had no idea that it is Christian fiction. It had a good plot, good character development, and a little mystery. I'm not Protestant so some of that was a little different for me. Overall, good book.
Profile Image for Wendy.
45 reviews
March 6, 2019
Excellent story. Characters were well done
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23 reviews
March 11, 2023
w podstawówce przeczytałam, dużo wpłynęło nie powinnam była mieć do tego dostępu dziękuję blibliotece szkolnej
Profile Image for Joyce.
1,263 reviews10 followers
February 20, 2017
I enjoyed this book at a much deeper level than many Christian fiction books I have read because the primary characters were more realistic with flaws and the novel definitely didn't hesitate to criticize wrong motives in some who proclaim and preach Christianity. The story was definitely one of the more bizarre Christian novels but I appreciated the unique approach rather than the all too-familiar Christian woman or man falls in love with someone, they go through some challenges but end up together happily ever after. I will definitely look for more books by Lisa Samson.
Profile Image for Nora St Laurent.
1,651 reviews113 followers
July 10, 2015
This is the first book I have read by this author. I have to say this is a very bizarre story. It talks about Church and the circus life. I can see that TV church with a televangelist can be like a circus at times. Not that she makes that comparison.

One of the main characters of this story is a girl who has no arms and legs, she performs and travels with the circus. Her best friend is a woman that has a burnt face. Lisa describes the circus life and people who are in the freak show.

There are some redeeming features near the end of the story when she talks about forgiving; how to and why. Two of her main characters have to forgive each other and themselves. It turns out to be the hardest thing they have ever had to do in life. I can relate. Other than that I couldn’t get into this story.

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I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”

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Profile Image for Beth Peninger.
1,888 reviews2 followers
April 7, 2011
For months I have been picking up this book, reading the short description on the back and then putting the book back on the shelf. For months. Last week I finally decided to take it off the shelf and not put it back and I am SO glad I did! What a great book. Lisa Samson does a masterful job of telling the tales of redemption. And she doesn't shrink back from reality. I think sometimes Christian authors try to cloak the reality of life and Samson doesn't do that. She writes about it without apology and then shows the reader the way to redemption within it. This particular story of hurt and broken people is compelling because it also involves the principles of forgiveness. I have seen in my own life that redemption always involves forgiveness on some level. The main characters of this story are intertwined unknowingly and while I figured it out pretty quick I wasn't put off by that, instead it compelled me to keep reading so that I could see the resolution. I'm always the most interested in how a story resolves and Samson doesn't disappoint. This is the second Samson book I have read and so far I am a big big big fan of her and her books!
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