September 20, 2017
Fender really has a real heartstring puller of a plot line. It shines a certain light on the grieving process that in my opinion really should be pointed out more often. Loosing loved ones unexpectedly is an extremely rough road and this book puts the realities of such hardship front and center for the world to see. Nothing is sugar coated about this book which I love. The emotions felt are raw and the way the main character copes with the loss of his wife and child are likely. One thing that gives this book it's own unique twist, setting it apart from the run of the mill grieving husband tale is his dog, Fender.
Brennan has an alcohol problem. It started in his early twenties when his best friend committed suicide and Brennan blamed himself for the tragedy. It was during one of his drunken nights, slurring and blacking out that he came across Fender. He found the Beagle hiding under a car in a rainstorm. Brennan wound up keeping the dog and over time, Fender helped him to cope with the death of his friend. Through thick and thin Fender is there for him. As Brennan's wife neared the birth of their child, she tried talking Brennan into getting rid of Fender. Luckily he stuck to his guns and kept the pup because little did he know his life will take another turn for the worst in the years to come and it's Fender then will help him through.
Days after the funeral of Brennan's wife and six year old daughter (they were in a car accident), Brennan's two best friends Rocco and Franky talk him into going with them on a road trip to help him heal and cope. Brennan had quit drinking while his wife was pregnant with his daughter, and when they passed away he fell off the wagon. The road trip is full of ups and downs while tries to wrap his head and heart around the loss of his loved ones, all the while battling his pull to drink. He insisted on bringing Fender along for the drive, refusing to leave him behind.
I love the way the story bounces back and forth between past and present. Brent Jones is able to reveal the character's marriage and family life along the way, as if reflecting it all as Brennan's memories while enduring the grieving process. Brennan didn't exactly have an easy upbringing or the perfect experience with his in-laws. It was actually quite the opposite. It's his unique relationship with his loyal companion Fender that helps bring him clarity.
This book is a bit of a slow burn, and sad... Very, very sad. From cover to cover, every single time I sat down to read I wound up crying!! I definitely recommend it to anyone grieving the loss of a loved one!
Brennan has an alcohol problem. It started in his early twenties when his best friend committed suicide and Brennan blamed himself for the tragedy. It was during one of his drunken nights, slurring and blacking out that he came across Fender. He found the Beagle hiding under a car in a rainstorm. Brennan wound up keeping the dog and over time, Fender helped him to cope with the death of his friend. Through thick and thin Fender is there for him. As Brennan's wife neared the birth of their child, she tried talking Brennan into getting rid of Fender. Luckily he stuck to his guns and kept the pup because little did he know his life will take another turn for the worst in the years to come and it's Fender then will help him through.
Days after the funeral of Brennan's wife and six year old daughter (they were in a car accident), Brennan's two best friends Rocco and Franky talk him into going with them on a road trip to help him heal and cope. Brennan had quit drinking while his wife was pregnant with his daughter, and when they passed away he fell off the wagon. The road trip is full of ups and downs while tries to wrap his head and heart around the loss of his loved ones, all the while battling his pull to drink. He insisted on bringing Fender along for the drive, refusing to leave him behind.
I love the way the story bounces back and forth between past and present. Brent Jones is able to reveal the character's marriage and family life along the way, as if reflecting it all as Brennan's memories while enduring the grieving process. Brennan didn't exactly have an easy upbringing or the perfect experience with his in-laws. It was actually quite the opposite. It's his unique relationship with his loyal companion Fender that helps bring him clarity.
This book is a bit of a slow burn, and sad... Very, very sad. From cover to cover, every single time I sat down to read I wound up crying!! I definitely recommend it to anyone grieving the loss of a loved one!