I wanted to like this book, I really did. However, I just really couldn't.
First off, how do you marry someone and NOT have any discussions regarding children before doing so.
Second, how the hell do you have a successful relationship, nevertheless a marriage if you're communication is shit and you look at everything your partner does as them having a nefarious purpose? If you think that badly of your partner, if your first thought about any of their behavior is that they did it maliciously or to be mean then why did you mary then in the first place? Ok, yes, once in awhile you might have a thought that your partner is acting maliciously, shit happens, but every, single time? If that's the case then it's not a good match.
Third, after all of the horrible communication your wife makes a massive, huge, incredible decision and you just get over it in two days? Really? One brought home a puppy and one said yes to a sperm donar - both without talking to the other and, all of a sudden it's just happiness and roses? That's not believable! Neither is the fact that one partner is completely unsure of whether they want kids or not but, suddenly, changes her mind to make the other happy? That's a recipe for disaster!
All in all, I was very disappointed in this book.