In the story "Every Day Use," the author, Alice Walker, states about the relationships that occurs inside a family when one of their offspring is shipped abroad to further continue her studies. In the story, the author further reveals what happens to the family by limitlessly supporting Dee and not trying to overcome themselves as well. The mother, the backbone in the family, is the narrator of the story, switching from third person to first person. The story further exposes the struggle and the dreams of having higher education at all costs. The author illustrates a situation that is common in many families by highlighting a story that involves a family surpassing difficulties with their living situation, as well as the struggle that it takes to become educated.
“Every Day Use,” is about three African Americans who do their very best to support at least one of them to overcome their poverty disputes. Mama is the narrator in this story; she is the mother of Dee and Maggie. Dee is the daughter that makes it out of poverty and becomes educated because her Mama did the impossible to make sure she became someone important in life. When Dee returns home, she seems to be transformed in so many ways and changing her name was the top notch. Even though Mama is extremely pleased of Dee’s accomplishments, we see that Dee doesn’t show any type of appreciativeness towards her mother and sister who were the people that ensured her way out of the poverty life they lived in. Even though the characters are portrayed as tragic, Alice walker was trying to make a point here. Many people have it difficult to become educated and gamble everything for at least one of their family members to get an education. This was the case for these women’s. Mama does the impossible for her daughter, Dee, to go off to college and pursue a career. Maggie is a girl with a low self-esteem and doesn’t want to better herself because she believes it easier for her sister to do so. And, Dee is the daughter who is supported endlessly and at the end shows no sympathy for where she came from. Mama dreams of Dee being thankful and showing her off to the world, “On TV mother and child embrace and smile into each other's faces. Sometimes the mother and father weep, the child wraps them in her arms and leans across the table to tell how she would not have made it without their help. I have seen these programs. Sometimes I dream a dream in which Dee and I are suddenly brought together on a TV program of this sort.” This quote shows how Mama is fantasizing about Dee showing her off to the world and recognizing her for the efforts she has made overall.
The idea of only one person benefiting out of this whole situation is catastrophic and ironically egoistic. Mama seemed so delighted on the return of her daughter Dee. But to her disadvantage, her daughter ended up changing ultimately everything about herself, even her name. This goes to show that an education can change the aspects of a person and their way of seeing others. This story is immensely sad because you see it does happen in families and how they forget where they came from and who helped them. This character’s persona makes you think of how selfish one can become when finishing a career and not being thankful to your parents and their sacrifices.