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At First Sight #4

Why We Fight

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Do you believe in love at first sight?

Corey Ellis sure doesn’t. Oh, everyone around him seems to have found their happy ending, but he’s far too busy to worry about such things. He’ll have plenty of time for romance after he survives his last summer before graduation. So what if he can’t get his former professor, Jeremy Olsen, out of his head? It’s just hero worship. And that’s the way it should stay.

Except that this summer, bigender Corey—aka Kori—is interning at Phoenix House, a LGBTQI youth center that recently hired an interim director. And because life is extraordinarily unfair, the director just so happens to be a certain former professor, now current boss.

Desperate to keep things professional as he and Jeremy grow closer, Corey makes a major mistake: he turns to his friends, Paul Auster and Sanford Stewart, for help.

But Paul and Sandy have some ideas of their own.

Set in the summer of 2016, Why We Fight is a celebration of queer life and being true to oneself… no matter the cost.

350 pages, Kindle Edition

First published May 14, 2019

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T.J. Klune

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TJ KLUNE is a Lambda Literary Award-winning author (Into This River I Drown) and an ex-claims examiner for an insurance company. His novels include The House in the Cerulean Sea and The Extraordinaries. Being queer himself, TJ believes it's important—now more than ever—to have accurate, positive, queer representation in stories.

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4,075 reviews6,602 followers
April 30, 2019


I feel like crying, guys. Sure, I liked Why We Fight, sure, it was good, but this isn't a regular series for me, and my expectations were sky high.

I'm obsessed with the first two books in the series (read my reviews here and here), and I was 100% sure I was going to 5-star this one too. *sobs uncontrollably*

Look, I know T.J. Klune had to work with a lot with this story. We have a biracial, bigender MC in Corey/Kori, and he did them proud by being respectful and playful with their character. However, Corey/Kori had a hard past and most of the time is spent at an LGBTQ+ youth center, so the book had a very serious tone that I wasn't expecting.

Also, the story takes place in 2016, the year that he-who-should-not-be-named was starting his presidential journey, so there is the weight of that also on the story. The whole book felt much less carefree and much deeper, which doesn't necessarily have to be a bad thing, but it just didn't work out quite like I was hoping it would.



There wasn't anything wrong with the story. We see a TON of the Auster clan (yaaaaaas), and there is a awesomely high heat level in the story (for a T.J. Klune book), but, oddly, it still took me over a week to read. OVER A WEEK. I read the first two books in under a day each.



I think my problem was that I just didn't find the book very.... funny. I was expecting crying-with-laughter, but that's not what happened. I had a few moments that made me smile, and I had a few that made me want to keep reading, but I just didn't find the story to be nearly as funny or as addictive as the previous ones. I really count on this series to make me smile and laugh, and I think I was just surprised that I didn't quite get that. I also wanted more... romance? I didn't quite feel the feelings that I wanted to feel.

There were still many awesome, memorable scenes. My favorite parts were the early morning jogs, the egg (ha!), and mostly anything with Nana. I still think devoted fans of the series are going to enjoy this one (and most are going to love it), but I'm sad the series is over, and I'm sad I can't give a big 5-star send off.



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P.S.- I'm 100% going off the theory that I didn't love this book because I didn't read it on a plane (like the first two in the series). Let's just go with that.
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1,437 reviews1,575 followers
April 30, 2019

Wow, what a journey this entire series has been!
This life… it wasn’t one I expected to have. It wasn’t one that I’d gone looking for. It’d found me in a thrift store when I’d least expected it. And while there had been ups and downs, those peaks and valleys that felt almost manic, I wouldn’t change it for anything.
While this story was slightly less campy and over-the-top than the previous books in the series, I felt like it did a good job of wrapping things up in a nice, neat bow in this series finale.

The book definitely had its OTT moments, like the egg-citing vibrating egg debacle, but overall Corey/Kori was a more serious character than say Paul, Vince, or Sandy, and since this was his/her book, that slightly-more-subdued tone bled through.



From the very beginning of the series, Corey/Kori always felt much more like a secondary character for me, so I do have to admit that my "OMG, OMG, OMG, O.M.M.F.G!!!" excitement level was a bit lower when starting this book.

I would've liked quite a few more details or stories about what Corey/Kori went thru prior to meeting Sandy at age 17, just to have a more in-depth history of where he/she was coming from. Instead, we mostly got a repeated line of "people didn't know what to do with me," which left me wanting more.



The UST and longing between Jeremy and Corey/Kori felt pretty standard, especially after all of the hyperactive hijinks between Paul and Vince, and then Sandy and Darren. It was nice to read, but not quite as wowing as those previous exceptional pairings.

My two favorite aspects of this story were, first, when the entire gang got together and hilarity ensued. Nothing quite compared to Paul and Vince needing to be hosed down to avoid a horrifying rutting episode while Nana or Charlie were in the same room.
You’re so funny,” Vince told him with stars in his eyes. “I’m happy I married you.”

“Yeah?”
Paul said, a nasty curl to his lips. “How happy?”

“Why don’t I show you?”
Vince said.

They were both startled when Charlie squirted them with a spray bottle. “No. Stop it.” He squirted them again. “Stop it right now.”


And second, how the entire group pulled both Jeremy and his dad, Robert, into their midst, making them family, too. Chicken soup for the soul, folks, that was. Our guys recognized their loneliness for what it was, then banished the shit out of it, and it was awesome. Honorary Austers for the win!

I know this was the end of the series, but I'm still hoping against hope that we'll get a story for Diego (and Kai, maybe?)

Sorry, not sorry, but the imagery of a 21 y.o. Diego dancing on top of the bar in only a jock strap, well, it kinda did it for me. Hated it! ;- )



I'd rate this story at 4 stars and recommend it, while setting the expectation that the previous craziness had been dialed down to about a 7, from the previous books' 12.

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1,590 reviews3,950 followers
April 27, 2019
5

This is the fourth book in the " At First Sight " series and I have loved each and every single one. They make me so freaking happy !!!! Now I first fell deeply in love with Corey/Kori when I first met them in "The Art of Breathing", and I am so glad I finally got to read their story....and what a great story it was fcc37b1805a49c13a3f7d3d50b64ed47

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Corey/Kori is bigender and biracial, which unfortunately means that life hasn't always been the easiest for them. That said...I think they turned out pretty awesome. I love seeing that they weren't too bitter about what happened in the past. 

Apparently, Corey/Kori have been crushing on their former college professor Jeremy Olsen, who turned out to be Robert's son (Charlie's man). And guess who is gonna be his temporary boss for his summer job at the LGBTQ center ?? That's right...Jeremy 9f01372377900d9203bc4efe48eb1659

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How will Corey/Kori ever be able to work under him (pun intended). They are sure that Jeremy doesn't feel the same, but when they are proven wrong, how will they keep their hands off each other and stay professional.

With Paul and Sandy's noses all up in their business things are bound to get weird...and crazy funny. I especially loved the parts with "Johnny Depp" in them !!

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I absolutely laughed my ass off reading this one, though there were also times when I got a bit choked up. No Wookie Cry Face though... 

I could have done with a bit more Ty, since he is still one of my faves, but hey, we can't always get everything we want. 

As all good things go, this series has come to an end and I have a bit of a double feeling about that. I love how they all got their stories and their HEA, but I don't know if I am ready to say goodbye.

Thank god for re-reads !!!



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2,652 reviews566 followers
January 23, 2020
4 Stars

Let me preface with this first. I love TJ Klune. He created my top book hubby ever (Otter who is my fucking dream come true), so the man really can’t do any wrong. I don’t think I’ve given anything less than 4 stars for any of the 13 books I’ve read, and this was no different.

However, the tone and subject matter of this last book is quite different from the entire series, and readers who are looking for an absolutely wildly hilarious ride might be a bit disappointed. I’m not saying that this doesn't have its funny moments because it does, but it’s evident that Klune has an agenda and a message he wants to say that doesn’t lend itself to crazy shenanigans…. much.

Corey/Kori is not like the others, and I don’t mean that just because he/she’s bigender or biracial. He/she’s got a good head on his/her shoulders and isn’t prone to dramatics. He/she’s trying to solidify his/her life purpose by doing an internship at a much needed LGBT center to be a support system for its youth. However, life never goes smoothly, and Corey/Kori’s mortified to discover the college professor he/she crushed on is now his/her boss - a very hot, smart, off limits boss.

Ever present is the theme of family - the one you choose for yourself and not necessarily the one you’re born into - as well as knowing and owning one’s self worth. Die hard fans of Klune will still enjoy this and have no trouble or find much fault. Just be aware that this one is not exactly like the others but still just as entertaining, poignant, and relevant.
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1,927 reviews280 followers
May 1, 2019
I feel somewhat bittersweet about Why We Fight, as I tend to with any series I enjoy coming to an end. This whole series is TJ Klune's trademark over the top comedic deliciousness, and Why We Fight is definitely funny. From the first chapter, I was having giggle fits and that continued throughout the book (and wait until you get to chapter 15).

Why We Fight takes place in 2016, before the election that brought to light just how much work we still have to do. Yes, there are some politics in this story. There has to be. We live in a time of bathroom bills and "religious freedom" laws. A time when the life expectancy of transgender women of color is 31 years. We've come a long way since my childhood, but we've a long way to go, still. While this book has so much humor in it, and ridiculous 80's movie plot situations, there is a thread of heaviness throughout.

I've been looking forward to Corey's/Kori's story since I first met them in The Art of Breathing. Being both bigender and biracial, they have had more than their fair share of life challenges. Growing up in the system offered even more. They are insightful, and amazing and I sure hope they decide to run for president, someday, because they also possess some amazing leadership skills and if anyone can change the world, it's them. As they would be the first to tell you, though, it's a team effort and we all need to work for a better future.

Jeremy Olsen is the son of Charlie's boyfriend, Robert, and a professor at the university where Corey/Kori is attending for their master's degree. There might be a little bit of a crush, there. It was easy to keep at bay during the school year because he was one of their professors and also because they were so busy. An entire summer working closely with him, though? They didn't stand a chance.

Jeremy was really the perfect person for Corey/Kori. Jeremy is 13 years older and settled in life. He doesn't make rash decisions and isn't impulsive. He's also not boring. Jeremy is full of life. He's a people person and he loves teaching and working at Phoenix House. Jeremy was a man looking for somewhere he fit. He was looking for people who really saw him and not just pieces. He had friends, sure, but no one who really knew him. He was lonely.

I enjoyed this book quite a lot, as I expected to. The ridiculousness of some of the situations Corey/Kori found themselves in made me so happy. There was even a bit of steam, which was hot and brought much needed relief (as temporary as it was) from all the delicious tension.

I feel bittersweet. I know I said that already, but it bears repeating. I feel sad that we're saying goodbye to characters that feel like family. But I also feel hope for their future.

Why do we fight? We fight for a better future. We fight to honor those who came before us; those that sacrificed so much. We fight because we must.

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ARC of Why We Fight was generously provided by the publisher, in exchange for an honest review.
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1,838 reviews6,667 followers
May 18, 2021
This book had a much more serious tone than the first ones. I think the author was upset by the political climate at the time because there is a lot of talk about it. I understand and agree with what he was trying to get across, but I also kind of felt like he was "preaching to the choir" a bit because I don't think a homophobe or transphobe would read this book in the first place.

Trans rights are human rights!!


Still, I love Corey/Kori and there were hilarious moments in the book. Plus, we got all of our favorite characters from the series getting page-time.

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All in all, it was a win.
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1,663 reviews92 followers
May 18, 2019
I really don’t know how to say this.
But this was not at all what I had hoped for.

Corey /Kori has been a wonderful character who popped up in previous books of this series and as Tyler’s friend in BOATK. And I always rooted for him/her.
I saw him/her as a tender-hearted, vulnerable, but fierce person, and I couldn’t wait for him/her to get their own story.

That happens here only partly:
Corey does re-meet the man he/she has had a crush on for quite a while, and I was looking for the depth of emotion, the tangle of feelings I have come to associate with TJ’s books. Some heart-rending relationship development, some deep connection between the main characters. If you have read some of TJ’s books, you know what I mean.

However, what we got is this: (at least the way I see it)

The emphasis of this book is declared by its title: Why We Fight, and it is a huge declaration why people under the LGBTQ umbrella have the right to fight for who they are and why they should do exactly that.

I would say about half of the book deals with these topics, and sometimes it all sounds like a lecture or a political manifesto. Let me assure you that I’m totally on board with the contents and ideas of all this and can see the importance of these issues, but this … was supposed to be a romance novel? I thought?

And I wasn't particularly happy that Corey/Kori seems to become the mouthpiece for the author’s political views and his opinions on LGBTQ and POC rights. And I felt judged and dismissed as one of those people who simply can’t understand any of those issues.
I might be too sensitive (menopause apparently does that to you) and misunderstand parts of it, but I felt steam-rollered here.

Apart from that, Corey/Kori turns into a smaller version of Paul, getting in all kinds of ‘typical Auster’ shenanigans over his crush on Jeremy. I never saw him/her in that fashion before. It felt like this story was about a different person all together.

As for Jeremy, who is 13 years older than Corey/Kori, - I liked him a lot, but wanted to see him more on page than he was. He seems to blend too much in the background. And the connection between him and Corey/Kori is kind of there, but it never really hit me where it matters. I simply didn’t feel it. Jeremy and Corey/Kori pine for each other, and there is some good UST and want and desire, but for most of the time this resolves into some form of hilariousness instead of deep feelings.

Dare I say that there‘s also too much of all the other characters in this?
Don’t get me wrong: I love all of these people: Nana, Charlie and Robert (who were one highlight for me), Sandy and Darren, Paul and Vince etc etc. But they crowd the scenes too often and leave too little space for a proper relationship development between the main characters.

It pains me enormously that this didn’t work for me. And maybe I did get some of the meaning totally wrong. All I can say is: I am a bit gutted and hope that other readers will love this more than me.
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2,456 reviews685 followers
August 1, 2019
4 Stars

For me, Corey/Kori has been a personal favourite character throughout this series (and the BOatK series). Bi-gender and bi-racial, Corey/Kori has always been the person I’ve pictured as the most fierce, intelligent and grounded member of this oftentimes crazy bunch of loveable characters. He/she has a smart-mouth, quick-wit, and the kind of personal drive to make a positive impact on the world that I could only ever dream to aspire to. I couldn’t wait to finally read this book and I’m so very happy with how his/her story played out, giving Corey/Kori the HEA he/she so greatly deserved.

This final story is set in 2016, during the summer before Corey/Kori’s final year of college. He/she takes an internship at Phoenix House, which is a financially struggling LGBTQI youth centre. Nervous already, because teenagers, the last person Corey/Kori expects to come face-to-face with on his/her first day is Jeremy Olsen, Corey/Kori’s ex-professor and all-around dream man. The prospect of working together closely over the entire summer is daunting, but kind of wonderful too, if only Corey/Kori can keep all his/her feelings in check – which is easier said than done when at every turn it seems like Jeremy is subtly (and not so subtly) reciprocating Corey/Kori’s feelings.

The story chronicles that summer, as Corey/Kori and Jeremy grow closer, which becomes expectedly complicated with the added meddling from their enthusiastic and sometimes inappropriate family members. And as is only right for the characters in this series, some awkward and hilarious moments are had on the long road to Corey/Kori and Jeremy’s blissfully coupled-up HEA.

The entire At First Sight gang are back, in their finest forms, surrounding Corey/Kori with constant love and support, and providing plenty of gobsmackingly ridiculous antics to keep everyone on their toes. Although not quite as uproariously funny as the other books, Why We Fight definitely still had many chuckle inducing scenes and generally made my heart happy and full.

However, some of the themes explored here were a bit too politically charged for my personal liking, but I acknowledge that it made sense that the fight for social justice and equality would be a central theme of the story given Corey/Kori’s personal passions and beliefs, as well as his/her educational focus and internship at Phoenix House.

To be honest, the story in general was a little heavier in tone than I was expecting, especially compared to the rest of the books in the series, which are more on the light, joyous and laugh-out-loud hilarious side of things. Due to this, my overall enjoyment wasn’t as strong here as with the previous books, but only by a little bit, because I still absolutely adore Corey/Kori as a character and the mastery of Klune’s storytelling talent will always be worthy of praise in my eyes.
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534 reviews149 followers
May 14, 2019
4,5 stars

I absolutely adored this one!!!
T.J. Klune is one of my favourite authors. And this series is extremely well written. I have never laughed so hard. Until I had tears in my eyes.

This book is the last one in the series and it's so hard to let these amazing but hilarious characters go. I strongly recommend to read all the books in this series in order to better understand the dynamics between the characters.

I was very excited about Corey's/ Kori's story. They are bigender and biracial. This book didn't disappoint. We get the same impossible and hilarious situations, the banter between the characters is out of this world! It was amazing to revisit Paul, Sandy, Charlie, Nana. I have a feeling I will reread this series many times in the future.

This book was a little heavier than the previous ones. But I wouldn't change a thing.
I loved everything about Corey/Kori. Extremely funny and smart doesn't even cover it. I don't want to give too much away, you really should discover this story on your own. But if you already love this author's writing, don't miss this one because it was just fabulous, like all his characters. If you haven't read any books by T.J. Klune then you should really really start right now because you have no idea what you're missing!

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2,246 reviews245 followers
April 21, 2019
My sides and my cheeks hurt from laughing. Seriously though, for a day after reading this I had workout pain in my face and upper body from the deep belly laughs I kept having while reading.

Why We Fight starts in the summer of 2016 and we're taken back to Tucson, back to our wonderful group of friends and found family: Corey/Kori, Sandy, Charlie, Paul, Vince, Matty, Larry, Nana, and Darren. We even get a little screen time with Tyson Thompson (from the Bear, Otter, and the Kid Chronicles).

We met Charlie's beau, Robert, at the end of Until You and briefly got to meet Robert's son, Jeremy. Turns out Jeremy was Corey/Kori's former professor, and is also now their current interim boss for the summer at a non-profit LGBTQ+ center. So no matter how much both may want to start something - they have to remain professional. But when you know it's real, that can prove to be impossible.

While Why We Fight is first and foremost a comedy, and it. is. funny, it's also thought-provoking and surprisingly emotional. I love how TJ Klune expertly weaves those little emotional bombs in between some of the most hilarious scenes I've ever read in a book. Corey/Kori's story absolutely lived up to my expectations.
"You are exactly the way you’re supposed to be. And no one can take that away from you. There may be rough days ahead. I won’t lie to you about that. But even if things don’t go the way we expect, you can’t ever give up. Because we are stronger together than we will ever be alone. This is why we fight. To have our voices heard and to let everyone know we won’t be taken lightly. They don’t know who they’re messing with. They want a war? Bring it. Because we are going to be fierce and fabulous, and they’ll never see us coming.”

Told from Corey/Kori's single, first person, POV I loved being able to catch up with the Tucson crew, and (to a lesser extent) the Seafare crew. There's even more hilarity when the guys go undercover once more, and a scene with an egg I'm not soon to forget. Like the final story in the BOATK series, Why We Fight includes an epilogue set in the future where we get to see how everyone is doing. I'm really going to miss new stories, but I'm grateful I can always re-read these.

Single, first person, POV with humor, medium steam, and a very happy HEA ending.
“What I’m trying to say is that while some things change, it doesn’t mean we’ll forget all the other important stuff. We’re always going to be together in one way or another. It might not always be like this, like we are now, but I promise you that you will never be alone.”
I felt scraped and raw. I said the only thing I could. “I love you.”



Advanced Review Galley copy of Why We Fight (At First Sight #4) provided by Dreamspinner Press in exchange of an honest review.

This review has been cross-posted at Gay Book Reviews.


NOTE: I'm very interested to see who Dreamspinner Press taps to narrate this since it appears (at this time) series narrator Michael Lesley has opted out of voicing the audiobook. I honestly don't know who could possibly fill Michael's shoes...but I guess we'll see.
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1,275 reviews275 followers
May 14, 2019


To say I've been dying for Why We Fight by TJ Klune book is putting lightly. I've adored this series since the first book for it's OTT characters and humor, and while this book carries a different in tone from its predecessors, it made sense why. The story took place in 2016- we all know what happened in 2016. I don't think a history lesson is warranted... I think because of the importance of everything happening I could look past the fact Why We Fight was more serious than its predecessors in the At First Sight books.

Some highlights:

-Age gap.

-Bigender and biracial rep.

-I mentioned before that this book carried a heavier tone than the others, but not everything is doom and gloom; we still get to catch up with the whole gang and of course crazy funny shit happened. There was still plenty of laughs out loud moments.

-I've loved Corey/Kori since they were first introduced and my love for them only grew.

-Jeremy. He's Corey/Kori's old professor and his perfect match.

-Relationship development. Klune gave us some UST. Corey/Kori was crushing on his college professor Jeremy Olsen and lo and behold destiny out them to work closely together for the summer. ;)

-The story is told strictly from Corey/Kori's voice.

-And the end is HEA, but it felt bittersweet. It's the end of a beloved series. I know where Klune is coming in terms of not wanting to drag out a serious, but I'm hoping that Diego keeps talking and talking to him until he's forced to write another book. I'm not ready for this to be the end.

Great addition to the At First Sight Series and lovely story it to end with.

4 Stars


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1,860 reviews91 followers
May 21, 2019
So many stars for all the laughter and joy...another awesome read with my cyberchild Josy...full review to follow sooish...

It's time to say good-bye...
'Why We Fight' is the end of what has been a hilarious, sexy and simply fun filled journey with a collection of what has turned out to be the most interesting and unique group of people one could ever know. They are without a doubt strong, brave, loyal, loving, compassionate and fierce but above all else they are family.

While there was a more serious undertone to this story that was due in part to the MCs, it also felt reflective of the times...2016 was the beginning of a time of political turmoil for the United States and while this is reflected in the story it doesn't overwhelm things and added a strong sense of realism to things.

As well as being Corey/Kori and Jeremy's story 'Why We Fight' is the final book in TJ Klune's 'At First Sight' series. It's a good-bye of sorts and I have to admit I was prepared for the tears because it's always sad saying good-bye to friends, what I wasn't prepared for was the laughter...no it wasn't the same kind of humor as what we found in Sandy and Darrren's story or Paul and Vince's but still with all of these characters so preseent in the story I really shouldn't have been surprised by some of the hijinx that ensued even though it's not their story but Corey/Kori and Jeremy's there was still a very definite difference to the tone of the story that just seemed right.

I loved the snarky banter that went back and forth between Corey/Kori and Jeremy and how they teased each other...early morning jogs come to mind and Corey/Kori being such a klutz and dropping his phone charger in the office and I'm not even going to start on the eggs...specifically eggs that vibrate...I could not stop laughing! Knowing that Paul and Vince still need to hosed down from time to time was definitely good to know...ok, it was also amusing to say the least.

Having Sandy, Darren, Paul, Vince and the rest of the family that Corey/Kori has found for themself play such a strong role in this story was the icing on the cake for me but for as much as I enjoy this wonderful and wacky collection of people Corey/Kori has always had his own special place in my heart so to finally read their story was the cherry on top of the icing on my cake.

Along with a love story that was sweet, sexy and at times laugh out loud funny there is a message a very relevant and necessary message that I think Helena Handbasket said best...
Helena grinned wickedly. “But it got me thinking. What is the point of all of this? What are we doing? Why are we here? And it hit me: we are here because we matter. We’re here because we’re necessary. We’re here being our fabulous selves because we demand that our voices be heard. Someone very dear to me, to my family, once said that we are stronger together than we will ever be alone, and this is why we fight. We fight because there are people in the world who hate us, people in the world who want nothing more than to silence us. But I am here to tell you that will never happen. Because I am proud of who I am. And I am proud of who all of you are. Except for the protestors. Because still fuck you.”
It's been a long but never dull, tedious or boring journey from where things really started with 'Bear, Otter and the Kid' to this final part of the journey here in 'Why We Fight' and like so many others I'm so glad I made the trip from start to finish and yes, maybe more than once but I'm still looking forward to enjoying this last leg of the journey on audio...again and maybe again and maybe one more time for good measure.

Also a great big thank you to my amazing cyber child Josy, once again you made an awesome story even better. You are the child of my heart and like my other children you will always be a part of the family that I've made for myself. You may live a half a world away but never doubt that you are always right here with me in my heart.
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1,385 reviews95 followers
December 22, 2020
Dec 2020 audio
Still love the audio. And the five years later epilogue...GOLD. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Feb 2020 audio review
Again, what can i say? The narration was AMAZING!!!!!!!! I loved the story and voice. If you are hesitating because of the narrator change, don't! Super well done and true to the characters. 10 stars!

2019 ebook review
What can I say? I have really enjoyed this series and can't wait to re-read it, especially when the audio for Why We Fight comes out. I don't know the who or when, I just know I will add it to my collection.

If you've read this series (and enjoyed it), of course you are going to read Why We Fight. And if you don't, you'll miss out on so many connections to other stories. Bear, Otter and The Kid - Ty plays a part in this, Corey is found out to be a certain internet blogger about "normalcy," and of course we get to catch up with all the gang Paul, Vince, Sandy, Darren, Charlie, Robert...Jeremy. :D

Why We Fight takes place in 2016, during the time of a certain election. The epilogue takes place 5 years later and we get to hear about a news bulletin and a certain someone in jail going on a hunger strike (yeah, right). Just think of all the fun you'll miss if you skip this book?

It's not as funny as the previous books in the series, which is fine. This has a more serious tone because of the story around it, and I enjoyed it. There are laughs though, so don't worry.

It's kind of overly mushy though so 4 stars. <3
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2,246 reviews245 followers
January 24, 2020
Sean Crisden picks up the narration duties for the final book in the 'At First Sight' series. Reprising some of the character voices Crisden already performed narrating Klune's Bear, Otter, and the Kid Chronicles series, the listener is transported to 2016 Tucson.

Told from Corey/Kori's single, first person, POV I loved the humor and the very happy HEA ending. Sean uses distinctive character voices, and brings 'Why We Fight' to life, weaving the emotional scenes and the humorous scenes equally well, and does a great job overall.

And now here's where I'm going to say something that might get me in trouble later: I wish they hadn't changed narrators. I get the reason why Michael Lesley bowed out of recording 'Why We Fight', but I can't make my brain stop wishing he'd recorded it.

I love this series. So freaking much. I've listened to the audios almost a 100 times, and no that's not an exaggeration. But it's also why I ultimately didn't really enjoy this. I hated the voices used for Corey/Kori, Vince, Paul, and Sandy.

I don't think anyone else will have an issue listening to Sean, but all my brain kept repeating is, "This isn't right. These are not their voices!"

I'm going to rate this on how it was technically and not how I felt listening. Because technically Sean is awesome and does a great job here, but my brain and heart want to give this 2 stars because of feelings and it's just not Michael, damnit.
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2,219 reviews260 followers
June 6, 2019
Why We Fight dialed down the escapades of the other stories - that's not to say there weren't plenty of those moments - and was a bit more series. It felt more like BOATK - serious issues interspersed with hilarity, and it works for me since Corey/Kori is a part of both worlds.

There is a simmering tension between Corey and Jeremy as they build to being more than coworkers/friends. Aside from the budding romance there, I was incredibly touched by the relationship between Corey and Sandy. Sandy saved Corey and helped him be the person he is today and that particular duo may have had me tearing up a time or two. Not to worry, it was quickly tempered by shenanigans that are on par with the other books in the series as the whole gang is back.

I also liked that along with Corey and Jeremy, we got Charlie's story as well. Someone who has lived through a lot and has quite a bit to offer everyone around him. Since the book is set in 2016, an election year that, well, you know that horror story (if only that part of the epilogue came true!), there is a bit of politics and that, from the title alone, is to be expected. It didn't overwhelm the story, but added poignancy to it.

Another series that I'm sorry to see come to an end.

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992 reviews3 followers
May 27, 2019
I loved this book for so many reasons and I'm trying to explain them all.

First, I have to mention the cover because it's simply amazing and I was in love with it as soon as I laid eyes on it.

The found-family trope was very strong in this book. We got this in the previous books as well as more and more people were included in the amazing Auster family clan but in this book, I felt that the message that you don't need to be related by blood to become a loving and supportive family carried even more weight than in the previous books.
"My momma, she had this patchwork quilt. ... I loved it because it had all these little squares that didn't seem to belong together, but when you looked at it as a whole, you could see it was just right. That's what you all are to me. Funny little squares who make something wonderful."

I loved seeing so much of each of those family members in this book - especially Charlie - and that they all played a huge role even though the story focused on Corey/Kori and Jeremy.

TJ once again managed to make me laugh out loud while in the next moment making me cry. I love this about his books and this story was no exception and even though this book was a bit more serious than the previous ones in the series, there were still lots of moments where I thought I would die from laughter.

There were lots of important messages in this book: that you are important, that you are worth loving, that what one might consider a small thing can change another person's life, that it's worth to stand up for yourself, that you are not alone, that we are stronger together, that it's worth to keep fighting for what is right.

Corey/Kori & Jeremy: I loved their relationship that was slowly built. I loved that there were no big misunderstandings even in the face of obstacles, that they talked and got to know each other, that, once they admitted their feelings for the other, there was no doubt in their minds that they would make it work and that they would be absolutely amazing together.
"I see you," Jeremy said. "For everything you are. For everything you're not."

He was smiling quietly. "I'm going to make you so happy. I hope you're ready for that."

There was also one of the hottest not-quite-sex scenes that I've read in a long while ;)

For me, it was the exact right amount of political background. I have to admit that I was a tiny bit worried before I started reading because I was afraid this story might be more political than I would be able to stomach right now. See, I don't live in the US but I still am horrified almost every day when I see something new and awful happening there and the last few weeks have been especially sickening and rage-inducing with the newest horrific bills that were passed in some states. And it might not be as bad for us in Europe but believe me when I say that there are a lot of people here as well who would love nothing more than to set us back decades and that they have an appalling amount of followers who have adopted their racist, bigoted, and misogynistic narrative. Anyway, I feared that reading this book would remind me too much of the current political climate and that I wouldn't be able to enjoy it because of that. I should have trusted TJ Klune more because while it was political, it was just enough to bring home the points he was making and most importantly, in the end, it gave me hope that we all will be able to overcome whatever horrors we are facing right now.

When I finished the last page of this book I was elated but also sad because I don't want to let go of these people whom I learned to love and who became real to me over the course of this series but I'm also so, so happy that I got to know them at all and that TJ brought them to life.

Reading this book with my dear cyber momma Karen (see her review here) was awesome because I was able to share with her all the laughs and tears and rage and hope and I'm thanking her for an amazing buddy read. Love you <3<3


Edit: There are also some funny and surprising Easter eggs hidden in this story that made me giddy when I found them! (And no, I don't mean that egg, lol!) Happy hunting :)
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1,889 reviews317 followers
May 26, 2019
What a Finish!!!

You know that feeling when you REALLY WANT to give a book FIVE STARS? That feeling when you want to, but you just CAN’T?

That’s me with this book. I soooo wanted to five star this, but for some reason I can’t. Why?

Maybe it’s because Corey/Kori never interested me as a side character. Maybe it’s because I haven’t read Klune’s BOATK series from where Corey/Kori originally hails. Maybe it’s because I haven’t listened to this yet with Michael Leslie narrating. It’s probably a bit of of that.

Don’t get me wrong, I VERY MUCH ENJOYED this book. I was so into Jeremy (the other MC). I guess I was just not that into Corey/Kori—and this has nothing to do with the fact that he/she is bigender. Although in this story, Corey was more present than Kori (unlike in the previous book).

This was also very much more political than other books in the series. I don’t mind that, it’s just that sometimes I felt like I was being schooled. At least, it was usually done in a non-pedantic way.

Now, on to the GOOD. The entire cast from previous books is in this one and they play huge roles—you get plenty of Paul, Vince, Sandy, Darren, Nana and the Austers. You also get a lot of Charlie—something I ADORED!!

There is plenty of UST here with some amazing no-touching sex scenes!! And there’s a great one that includes a cordless vibrating egg. In public. Epic!!!

That being said, it is an amazing end to a series—one I’ve read several times over—and it’s bittersweet to see it finish.

I do have one thing to look forward to: the audiobook which will likely make me pee my pants from laughing so hard!!!
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8,976 reviews514 followers
May 14, 2019
A Joyfully Jay review.

4.75 stars


Why We Fight is the final installment in T.J. Klune’s wonderful At First Sight series. This is a series that is both side-splitting funny, but also incredibly sweet and poignant, and that definitely carries over to this book as well. These people are all absurd and the most insane things happen to them. They have no boundaries with one another and nothing is done at a 10 when it can be taken up to 11. So expect hijinks to ensue and a lot of general craziness from all these books. At times, I do find things a little over the top, so you sometimes just have to close your eyes and go with it. But what I think really makes this book (and this series) work is the incredible love and tenderness that these characters feel for one another. Even as much as they are pushy and crazy and a lot to handle, they are always 100% there for one another. Things can go from silly to serious in a moment when someone needs that extra support or to know that the others care. I really love the found family element to this series so much. We see it particularly strongly here as Corey has no family of his own, but he has been essentially adopted into this loving and extended group of family and friends. We can see how much they all mean to one another and the book has some incredibly sweet moments in the midst of the silliness.

Read Jay’s review in its entirety here.


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2,072 reviews193 followers
May 19, 2019
*sigh* The end of another beloved series by TJ Klune. However great the book, that’s always a little bittersweet. It seems opinions are quite divided over this one and that’s ok. For me, I loved it and I couldn’t be happier seeing all these wonderful book-people ended up with their perfect-for-them person, and happy together.

I loved getting to know Corey/Kori better. I never thought of him as serious *I mean, look who his family is!! Being a little bit nuts is pretty much required* but just more in the background than everybody else. It was always made clear in the other books that Corey was so busy with all his studies, working toward his goals. Yes, serious in that manner. But when he was needed in shenanigans or needing to give people crap, Corey was right there with everybody else. It was so nice to see him take a step away from school and start living his life a bit. I loved him. He was fierce and sharp and hilarious. But he was also kind, caring and deeply loyal and protective of his friends and family. The problem was that Corey didn’t think anybody could ever feel the same for him, outside of his family.

And I loved Jeremy for Corey. He was sweet and gentle and just who Corey needed, someone he could depend on to love him for him, or her, for all the different parts of Corey. He never had to be anybody but who he was. Jeremy was the steadiness that Corey needed in his life but I loved even more the little bits of wickedness that popped up in him from time to time. Jeremy was not above playing dirty. 😈

And I laughed, oh my Lord, how I laughed! I literally had tears rolling down my face at more than one point. *chapter 15 y’all* That’s one thing I love about TJ’s books. No matter that some things may be just utter shit, his characters always manage to find *or create, lol* the humor in life. Because without being able to do that, having people in our lives to help us do that, we would simply be done.

Was the tone in this book angry at times? Was it political? Yeah, frankly, it definitely was. But I couldn’t blame the characters for that. I myself am bloody furious at the political situation in our country today, for MANY various reasons. And I say that from the privileged, protected position of a cis, white female. I truly cannot imagine being LGBTQ or a POC in a country that seems to want to eradicate them. And I’m going to stop right there before I rant. Along with all the funny and the fabulous book-people, the true emotion in TJ Klune’s stories is one of the reasons I read every-damn-thing he writes. It’s what makes them real. This story was loaded with the laughs but it was also poignant, furious, chaotic, caring, messy and everything in between. Like life.

There’s a shortlist of authors that are auto-buy for me and TJ is right there at the top. I really enjoyed Corey’s story and genuinely loved this goodbye to the series!
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1,985 reviews355 followers
September 7, 2024
Reread

Reread #?
I adore this book. It's the final book in the At First Sight series and I really tried to pay attention during this re-listen on whether or not you could read this as a standalone, and I think that my consensus is that you cannot. I suppose that you could, but it will be so much better if you read all the books. The only one in this series that I have some minor problems with is the first one so if you can get through that please read the rest of the series because they are so good.
I love TJ Klune because he accepts that he makes mistakes and he fixes them and he actively strives to do better and that is so visible in the series from some of the questionable comments in the first one to the absolute wonder that is this last book.

I have yet to decide what my favorite scene is in this book but it is tied between the banana scene (iykyk), the absolute scathing dinner party where corey tells off gay Republicans, or the vibrating egg. I can't decide, don't make me choose. This book just brings me a lot of joy. It is a lot easier to read now that Cheeto is out of office. This is my second all-time favorite Klune book out of all of his. Please read it.

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Perfect, as usual. This is one of my go to comfort reads when I need a reminder about why we have to continue to fight against the people who believe we shouldn't exist. I find a lot of solace in the greatest dinner party of all time where Corey hands those gay Republicans their asses, Charlie's speech at Phoenix House, and the fact that in this universe Trump is in jail.
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3,094 reviews136 followers
May 17, 2019
Loveable, manic, OTT, sweet, warm, fierce and everything else I expected this book to be, Why We Fight wraps up the emotional resonance of the series and brings us home to stay with the family we’ve grown to love so hard. They are all here, they are all endearing, and I will never get over how much they’ve all made me laugh over the years.

Corey/Kori embodies the strength and courage of living out loud and embracing pride of Self, in living and loving and hoping outwardly, and he/she found the someone who loves and respects all facets of mind and spirit, in Jeremy Olsen. There is nothing not worth celebrating in the connections Corey/Kori has made that prove love is real, profound, bold and risky, and involves something so much more powerful and expansive than ourselves. Corey/Kori is the hero/heroine the kids at Phoenix House not only needed but deserved, which comes through loud and clear, and I love TJ Klune for bringing generations together and telegraphing the message that no one should ever forget those who came before them, those who paved the way and fought for the rights of future generations.

While I felt the narrative pace stuttered and stalled a bit at times in the effort to encompass all its messages, there are also many brilliant and beautiful moments in Why We Fight that overshadow any flaws I could nitpick over. Make no mistake, this is a statement book, which Klune delivers in no uncertain terms, and in his own inimitable style.
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1,255 reviews74 followers
June 8, 2019
Fantastic end to a great series!!

I started this book sometime back and mysteriously forgot about it(I blame the real world).It reappeared on my radar yesterday so OF COURSE I proceeded to complete it in one sitting. It was so good I didn't feel the 350 pages rushing by.

I think what I liked most about it was how, while it was still as funny as the previous books, it didn't depend on OTT ridiculousness to achieve this humour(well except the Eggcellent debacle.LOL!). I couldn't get enough. Corey/Kori has now been added to some of my fave characters by TJ Klune.

One thing I must add is how much of a learning curve this book turned out to be for me. I'll admit that going into this, bigenderism was a mystery to me and while I'm still fuzzy in some areas of the spectrum. I believe this was a good start.

As a final book in what has turned out to be a great series, this book was well worth the wait. It gave me heart, feels, family and lots and lots of laughter.I'm really going to miss the Austers and all their well-intentioned shenanigans.

*** eARC was Graciously Provided by The Publisher, DreamSpinner Press in Exchange For An Honest Review ***
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1,860 reviews91 followers
May 2, 2020
4.5 stars rounded down to 4 stars...because...I'll try and explain more in a real review that I hope to do sooner rather than later but time will tell how that's going to work out.

Update: Yes, that's right I'm back already because this is going to be fairly quick since I reviewed the book back when it came out I'm not going to get overly repetitive about it...in a nutshell...I loved it and gave it 5 stars, so now you're wondering but Karen, why only 4 stars fro the audio? We know you love Sean Crisden? and you're right I do. Sadly even though he did a solid job with the audio book the fact of the matter is that Michael Lesley was the narrator for the first 3 books in this series and as the narrator for me he created these characters his voices were their voices.

It really does come down to what I'm use to and ironically if this was the series that started it all...Bear, Otter & the Kid of which Sean Crisden narrated 3 of the 4 titles and yes, I can't lie I would tell you the same thing here about 'Who We Are' the title that was narrated by Charlie David and again there's nothing wrong with Mr. David's narration...it's just not Sean Crisden's. So as I said 'it all comes down to what I got use as a listener and in this case it was Michael Lesley and not Sean Crisden but truthfully I like them both and not matter who's narrating for me the story is still 5 stars.
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595 reviews28 followers
November 3, 2022
This is an older series. I give TJ a pass on some of his problematic language in the first book of this series because times change and he’s an awesome author who owned up to it and fixed it as time went on.

In the MM romance/fiction community, I’ve seen a lot of people bitch about politics being in books.

Like… do you not realize being gay is literally made to be political? Queer authors like TJ have every right to write about their experiences, and 2016 SUCKED FOR US. And the battle rages on and reading about the realities that me and my friends and family face is honestly comforting. Yes, I read fluffy comfort books but this? This “is why we fight.” I am so so so thankful for this family TJ wrote, I’m thankful he used a black narrator to narrate this one when Michael Lesley did the first three. Sean Crisden did a great job. I’m thankful that while there are only a few, that some authors are willing to take a risk and write about the real issues gay and trans folks have faced in the world. And I’m not talking about overly dramatic plot devices used for trauma porn. As someone who works with non-profit queer youth advocacy groups, this was written FOR US.

Maybe I should talk about the book? Jeremy (who is bisexual) and Corrie/Kori (who is bigender) have an age gap (previous student and professor) slow burn sweet as hell connection. I just… really enjoyed this journey. It’s low angst. No relationship angst. The found family in this series just brings tears to my eyes. The ode to the elder gays… gah. It was just everything to me.

I’m realizing belatedly that TJ Klune is probably one of the best queer fiction authors out there and definitely the best Own Voices. I’m thankful to be in his orbit.
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1,168 reviews45 followers
July 15, 2021
Audiobook DNF'd

LOVE LOVE LOVE this series. Unfortunately, I am not a fan of the narrator switch. After listening to Michael Lesley truly embody my favorite characters with his narration it was hard to listen to Sean. It just was not the same and I couldn't do it. So, I am DNFing the audio book. Sorry not sorry but I don't have time to listen to something I am just not enjoying🤷🏽‍♀️

Kindle Edition 3.75 stars

It is always bittersweet when a series I love ends. I was just glad that I got to spend some more time with my favorite group of people in Tuscon. This story is Kori/Corey's story. It was sweet, it was funny, it was serious and it was beautiful. My favorite parts involved the entire group. I will always love Paul/Vince (my favorites), Sandy/Darren, and the entire Auster crew. I loved how this one gave me more Charlie and Robert. Like Corey/Kori, I was fawning over them. With everyone linking up it was only a matter of time before us readers got to witness Corey/Kori get their happy ending.

That's where the lovely Jeremy comes in. He is Robert's son and Corey/Kori's former professor. In this one he takes on the role of the director of the Phoenix House. Giving him a position of power over Corey/Kori.

Them and Jeremy's relationship wasn't easy as they had to navigate through their emotions while staying professional. Kori/Corey also had to resolve their personal issues with not thinking they weren't good enough. I loved the development of their relationship, even though, it was slow burn it was done well.

TJ knows how to bring the LOLs in his books, and this one is no different, but he did get serious. He used the Phoenix House as not only part of Kori/Corey's story but a message to the readers. Yes, it was political. Yes, I get how politics are hard to stay away from these days and to be fair he warned the readers ahead of time that he would be doing such. I respect TJ for expressing his emotions. However, I am still not a fan of it in books. Sorry not sorry.

Overall, another entertaining read from this author.
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406 reviews1 follower
August 11, 2019
Corey/Kori has been my personal favorite character throughout this series and I'm soooo happy I was finally able to read his/her story. I'm always interested in reading about genderfluid characters, enby characters, (Kai! <3333), bigender character, so it was like a treat for me :)

I pictured Corey/ Kori as a very intelligent person but kind of subdued, so I wasn't expecting the same level of craziness as in Paul's or Helena's story. And so it was. It was understandable. It rang true to me.

I also had no problem with this book as a political manifesto, it was actually very interesting.

But...

But... :(((((

... there was not enough space for Corey/Kori and Jeremy in this book! We have a lot of pages with Auster clan and I'd be happy to trade some of them to get to know Jeremy better.
There was too much of "do you remember something Paul/Helena/Vince/Darren/Ty did in the first/ second/ third book of this series (or even in the BOATK series I didn't like and I dnf!) YES, I remember very well what Paul/Helena/Vince/Darren did. Or in the case of BOATK series, I don't care at all what Ty did.

I wanted a NEW story, not a memory of the past :(

Plots in Paul's and Helena's books were entirely different! The plot in Corey/Kori book has too many similarities to Paul's book :( Sometimes I forget I was reading about Corey/Kori, not about Paul :( I had to keep reminding myself that this is Corey's/ Kori's book, not Paul's. And there was too little of Kori :(

I'm sorry if I sound harsh or bitter, but I love this series, I had pretty big expectations and I'm only partially happy...
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