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453 pages, Paperback
First published November 17, 2020
A broken heart, a lost friend, a buried child, failed hopes. Grief, survivor’s guilt, shame, regret, bittersweet nostalgia—those were the choicest cuts. Bloody and juicy.
➟ Patty tells Dianna “You’re not bi, you’re pure”—which, though I know wasn’t her intention, is still biphobic as heck. There’s nothing impure or invalid about bisexuality, and we shouldn’t be implying otherwise.
➟ Unless it’s backed with historical or other context, I think we can retire the word “transvestite” from modern use
➟ At one point the book refers to the Leni Lenape people as “nearly extinct.” This word, extinct, never sits well with me. I cannot STAND it when people apply this to minority populations, and particularly Indigenous peoples. We aren’t discussing an animal species in a zoology textbook here. These are an entire peoples who, to this day, are resisting, surviving, and finding pockets of resilience in the face of colonial legacies.
➟ Finally, Dianna tells Gayle: “….black folks kind of hate it when people say ‘N-word.’ Either say ‘[the literal n-word]’ when talking about racist terms, or skip the subject.” Nope nope nope. Besides coming off like it's justifying/advocating for white people using the n-word, this is a white author speaking through a Black character on behalf of ALL Black folks. BIG nope.
