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“Wildflower is a brave and hugely necessary book. Written with such tenderness, grace and sensitivity, this book is a light in the darkness and a strong voice for the rights of all women to be safe and cherished. Monique Mulligan has written a powerful story reflecting the hope and resilience of the human spirit. A triumph of a novel.” ~ Tabitha Bird, The Emporium of Imagination
1979
After being bullied at school, Jane Kelly dreads spending the summer holidays alone, friendless. So, when Acacia Miller moves in next door, Jane imagines carefree days of trading secrets and pinky promises with a new best friend. But as their friendship grows, Acacia remains stubbornly guarded about her home life, and Jane becomes caught up in a sinister situation she doesn’t understand. When Acacia’s secret becomes one too many for Jane to carry, she must choose whether to challenge the status quo and risk losing her only friend. Or stay silent, knowing the danger it hides.
1999
An abused woman flees to a refuge and bumps into someone from her childhood. Haunted by her past but grappling with a desire to reconnect and rebuild her life, she realises there are wounds that time alone cannot heal. Can she find the courage to confront the darkest secrets of all: her own?
“Wildflower is a skilfully constructed and captivating novel that weaves together a tender and poignant coming-of-age story with a powerful narrative tracing the aftermath of one woman’s escape from an abusive relationship. Brimming with scenes that masterfully juxtapose the blissful with the confronting, the simple with the complex, it has strong unforgettable characters that leap off the page and into your heart. Wildflower is not only a totally engaging and convincing read, it’s also an important read.” ~ Lyn Yeowart, The Silent Listener
1979
After being bullied at school, Jane Kelly dreads spending the summer holidays alone, friendless. So, when Acacia Miller moves in next door, Jane imagines carefree days of trading secrets and pinky promises with a new best friend. But as their friendship grows, Acacia remains stubbornly guarded about her home life, and Jane becomes caught up in a sinister situation she doesn’t understand. When Acacia’s secret becomes one too many for Jane to carry, she must choose whether to challenge the status quo and risk losing her only friend. Or stay silent, knowing the danger it hides.
1999
An abused woman flees to a refuge and bumps into someone from her childhood. Haunted by her past but grappling with a desire to reconnect and rebuild her life, she realises there are wounds that time alone cannot heal. Can she find the courage to confront the darkest secrets of all: her own?
“Wildflower is a skilfully constructed and captivating novel that weaves together a tender and poignant coming-of-age story with a powerful narrative tracing the aftermath of one woman’s escape from an abusive relationship. Brimming with scenes that masterfully juxtapose the blissful with the confronting, the simple with the complex, it has strong unforgettable characters that leap off the page and into your heart. Wildflower is not only a totally engaging and convincing read, it’s also an important read.” ~ Lyn Yeowart, The Silent Listener
308 pages, Paperback
Published March 8, 2022
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Monique Mulligan
15 books112 followersBorn in Sydney and now living in Perth, Monique Mulligan has loved words from the moment she could use them. She's told she used her words a lot as a child, earning the title of family chatterbox (and arguably still holding that crown). Once she could read, she devoured books with gusto - today, that enthusiasm is mirrored in her love of good food.
A former newspaper editor, journalist, children's curriculum writer and magazine editor, Monique has had a varied career in writing. In 2011, she started blogging book reviews. Since 2012 she has interviewed authors onstage for the successful Stories on Stage program.
Monique's first two novels Wherever You Go and Wildflower were first published by Pilyara Press and were acquired by Bloodhound Books in 2023.
Visit her website moniquemulligan.com for news, book reviews, and author interviews.
A former newspaper editor, journalist, children's curriculum writer and magazine editor, Monique has had a varied career in writing. In 2011, she started blogging book reviews. Since 2012 she has interviewed authors onstage for the successful Stories on Stage program.
Monique's first two novels Wherever You Go and Wildflower were first published by Pilyara Press and were acquired by Bloodhound Books in 2023.
Visit her website moniquemulligan.com for news, book reviews, and author interviews.
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May 14, 2022
It was 1979 and ten-year-old Jane Kelly, bullied at school and lonely, was glad when the summer holidays arrived, as well as the fact there were new people moving in next door. She really hoped there would be a girl her own age so they could be friends. Jane lived with her mum, dad, brother Jim and sister Sal, and Jane was the youngest. Their dad had dark moods occasionally – their mum said it was from the war. Sal had a boyfriend, Robbie, and although she was only sixteen, she snuck out at night to meet him. Jim was getting tangled in a ‘bad group’ and at thirteen, was a grumpy teen most of the time.
The arrival next door of Acacia Miller (named for the wattle) and her mum Rose, thrilled Jane, as Acacia was the same age, and it wasn’t long before they were best friends. But while Jane talked to Acacia about her family life, Acacia was reticent about hers. Rose had a boyfriend – Daryl – and they would fight, loudly. Acacia often didn’t want to go home and would stay at Jane’s until late. But even though Jane didn’t know much about what was happening next door, she knew something was wrong.
It was 1999 when the abused woman arrived at the refuge. She was scared, nervous, fearful of loud noises, all the while wondering if she should go back. Pat cared for her and the other abused women in the refuge, until it was time to move to her own place. But could she do it? Her past life haunted her; the secrets long kept gave her nightmares. Could she make a new life for herself after all this time?
Wildflower by Aussie author Monique Mulligan is a heartbreaking, poignant and stirring story of domestic violence and the ramifications on the person/s lives. The past is hard to shake when it has such a strong hold on you. Told in the voice of 10-year-old Jane in 1979/80, she was an exceptional character with her confusion evident. The second voice was the abused woman – I had in my own mind who it was and the twist at the end was well done! Highly recommended.
With thanks to the author for my digital ARC to read in exchange for an honest review.
The arrival next door of Acacia Miller (named for the wattle) and her mum Rose, thrilled Jane, as Acacia was the same age, and it wasn’t long before they were best friends. But while Jane talked to Acacia about her family life, Acacia was reticent about hers. Rose had a boyfriend – Daryl – and they would fight, loudly. Acacia often didn’t want to go home and would stay at Jane’s until late. But even though Jane didn’t know much about what was happening next door, she knew something was wrong.
It was 1999 when the abused woman arrived at the refuge. She was scared, nervous, fearful of loud noises, all the while wondering if she should go back. Pat cared for her and the other abused women in the refuge, until it was time to move to her own place. But could she do it? Her past life haunted her; the secrets long kept gave her nightmares. Could she make a new life for herself after all this time?
Wildflower by Aussie author Monique Mulligan is a heartbreaking, poignant and stirring story of domestic violence and the ramifications on the person/s lives. The past is hard to shake when it has such a strong hold on you. Told in the voice of 10-year-old Jane in 1979/80, she was an exceptional character with her confusion evident. The second voice was the abused woman – I had in my own mind who it was and the twist at the end was well done! Highly recommended.
With thanks to the author for my digital ARC to read in exchange for an honest review.
April 21, 2022
This is a beautifully told story about an 11 year old girl trying her very best to grow up in a world full of cruel lessons and confusing, constantly changing influences. The everyday challenges can seem insurmountable leaving her with feelings of powerlessness and a growing sense of futility. She has a seemingly idyllic home life with caring parents and two siblings…but she grapples with what she sees as mixed messages and double standards all around her.
Monique Mulligan tells this story in the most natural and credible way, with no sugar coating or excuses.
It is still a story of everyday life for too many people, young, old and anything in between…people who deserve better.
This reader grew up in the south west of Sydney during the time that this story is set in, and I can so easily identify with that narrative of, mind your own business about other people’s lives, and boys will be boys etc. [insert frustrated eye rolling] where “bullying” of one sort or another was the norm and not considered something adults should get involved in. It was commonplace and often considered character building…stand up for yourself!…or suffer the consequences of a hierarchy that has no room for “sensitive” people.
I don’t know how much it has changed, though I do know that bullying and abuse are an ongoing issue in our society and need to be seriously addressed…nipped in the bud at an early age…before they become a habit.
There are so many forms of bullying these days that people are often unaware of their own complicity.
Rather than decreasing over time, and increasingly with the use of technology, bullying has evolved into newer and even more sinister behavioral tactics.
The young protagonist in this book, Jane Kelly, is wise beyond her 11 years, she raises many questions which perplex her about growing up witnessing, on a daily basis, the obvious divide between right and wrong, depending on gender, age, and social standing. She is constantly perplexed and frustrated by what she sees as glaring differences between what is right and what is wrong, and what is fair…the rules of which are nebulous, depending on who is involved, and their generally “perceived” level of importance. Young Jane’s self esteem suffers repeated damaging blows because she apparently read the signals wrong, or because the goal posts were shifted.
This is an important book, one that should be read and discussed in schools.
It raises some very tough questions about destructive ingrained beliefs.
The more light that can be shed on this topic, will hopefully afford more chance of shifting the paradigm.
It’s not enough to understand why people do the things they do, if we don’t get involved enough to try to influence an acceptable alternative.
There needs to be a shift, and it starts with each of us, planting seeds of positivity and mindfulness.
Perhaps a regular class in every school, held by a teacher “qualified” in Mindfulness techniques as a way to promote respect and respectful interactions, amongst teachers and pupils alike. A non denominational, “all inclusive” activity.
I used to believe that religion had a role to play here…ethics/morals and etc? I don’t believe that anymore as I don’t believe they believe it. I think they are more divisive than inclusive, by their very own desire for denominational exclusivity…power in numbers.
Politics and political correctness now dictates how our higher authorities, or traditional role models, themselves behave.
Whatever our conditioning, this subject needs to be brought to the light.
Thank you Monique Mulligan for shining a light.
5⭐️s
Monique Mulligan tells this story in the most natural and credible way, with no sugar coating or excuses.
It is still a story of everyday life for too many people, young, old and anything in between…people who deserve better.
This reader grew up in the south west of Sydney during the time that this story is set in, and I can so easily identify with that narrative of, mind your own business about other people’s lives, and boys will be boys etc. [insert frustrated eye rolling] where “bullying” of one sort or another was the norm and not considered something adults should get involved in. It was commonplace and often considered character building…stand up for yourself!…or suffer the consequences of a hierarchy that has no room for “sensitive” people.
I don’t know how much it has changed, though I do know that bullying and abuse are an ongoing issue in our society and need to be seriously addressed…nipped in the bud at an early age…before they become a habit.
There are so many forms of bullying these days that people are often unaware of their own complicity.
Rather than decreasing over time, and increasingly with the use of technology, bullying has evolved into newer and even more sinister behavioral tactics.
The young protagonist in this book, Jane Kelly, is wise beyond her 11 years, she raises many questions which perplex her about growing up witnessing, on a daily basis, the obvious divide between right and wrong, depending on gender, age, and social standing. She is constantly perplexed and frustrated by what she sees as glaring differences between what is right and what is wrong, and what is fair…the rules of which are nebulous, depending on who is involved, and their generally “perceived” level of importance. Young Jane’s self esteem suffers repeated damaging blows because she apparently read the signals wrong, or because the goal posts were shifted.
This is an important book, one that should be read and discussed in schools.
It raises some very tough questions about destructive ingrained beliefs.
The more light that can be shed on this topic, will hopefully afford more chance of shifting the paradigm.
It’s not enough to understand why people do the things they do, if we don’t get involved enough to try to influence an acceptable alternative.
There needs to be a shift, and it starts with each of us, planting seeds of positivity and mindfulness.
Perhaps a regular class in every school, held by a teacher “qualified” in Mindfulness techniques as a way to promote respect and respectful interactions, amongst teachers and pupils alike. A non denominational, “all inclusive” activity.
I used to believe that religion had a role to play here…ethics/morals and etc? I don’t believe that anymore as I don’t believe they believe it. I think they are more divisive than inclusive, by their very own desire for denominational exclusivity…power in numbers.
Politics and political correctness now dictates how our higher authorities, or traditional role models, themselves behave.
Whatever our conditioning, this subject needs to be brought to the light.
Thank you Monique Mulligan for shining a light.
5⭐️s
February 28, 2024
Audiobook review
When I read this two years ago it impacted me greatly. Listening to Katherine Littrell bring this fabulous, emotional and heartfelt story to life, conveying all the emotions I felt when I first read it, made this an audiobook I didn't want to put down.
A glimpse at domestic violence through the eyes of a 10-year-old who has so many questions about everything: her new friend Acacia brings with her life experiences Jane can't begin to understand and in the end that friendship will change the way Jane and her family view things that 'are none of our business '.
I highly recommend this novel in any form, hopefully, it brings about conversation and change.
Original Review
That this book is released on International Women's Day seems important as it is a novel that focuses on women, the way they are treated and the way domestic violence and abuse is still a huge issue, the only differences now are that it is talked about more and there are more resources for those who are able to escape their abusers, but violence against women is still a major factor in our society.
Wildflower was a book I found hard to put down even as I sometimes dreaded what might be coming. I have found it hard to really articulate the impact of this novel on me without giving too much of the story away and without going too far off on a tangent, something I often do when I read about issues I am passionate about or that cut close to my own personal experiences.
Told as a dual timeline narrative, we get nearly 11-year-old Jane's story from the start of summer holidays at the end of 1979 through to the end of the holidays about 6 weeks later in 1980. Jane is friendless, she is bullied at school by Mary Evans who encourages others to exclude her from any and all social interactions. Her brother and his friends aren't overly nice to her, especially one friend who is trouble with a capital T. When a new girl and her mum move in next door, Jane thinks all her Christmases have come at once and is determined to make this new girl her best friend.
My heart really went out to Jane, while I did have friends at school I was bullied badly and this resulted in big impacts on my self-esteem and self-worth that have followed me through much of my life. Jane's new neighbour, Acacia, has had a very different family life from what Jane is used to, but despite this, they become fast friends. My heart went out to Acacia too, for different reasons. There is so much to unpack in the relationship between these two girls and their relationships with their respective parents, but I won't do that unless others who read this want to have a group discussion, because personally, I need to unpack this entire novel.
One term that came up time and time again and set my teeth to grinding was 'boys will be boys' or words to that effect, and I wonder how much society's mindset has changed from this. Boys will be boys, this thought process allows them to get away with anything, and not just boys, men too.
I really loved how Jane's mum started to stand up for what she wanted as a woman, a job, a purpose outside the home, something not widely occurring back in the late 70s. I loved how as she looked for her own purpose she also started to stand up for other issues she believed in and I think realised she was setting an example to her daughters and her son in how they should be treated and how they should treat others. I liked how this had a ripple effect on the whole family.
The other timeline interspersed between the 1979/80 timeline, is 20 years on, and our narrator isn't named until right at the end, I kept changing my mind about who it was, something I definitely won't be giving away. The only thing we know about her is she has left her abusive husband, a massive step to take and one too many women (and men) aren't able to do. We also learn she recognises a volunteer at the centre from her childhood, and we are left to wonder who each of these women is. As our mystery woman unpacks her life with her abuser and her life now she has escaped, we learn how easy it is to get caught in the cycle of abuse and how hard it is to leave and start again and the toll these events have on a person. I was so proud of this woman for being finally able to take the step towards breaking the cycle. And I was so glad that there are other women and resources out there to support them, though not enough and that needs to change. More importantly, society needs to change.
This book touched close to home at times and there were so many sentences I wanted to pull off the page because they resonated so much. My life could easily have been like Rose's and our unknown narrator's, anyone can find themselves in a situation they don't know how to get out of, or they tell themselves they deserve the treatment they are getting, that they love their abuser, and it is easy to hide this from those around you, too easy sometimes because the people around us are busy with their own lives, have their own things going on and often don't want to see what might be going on for someone else. We need to change this, to be more aware, to speak up and listen, really listen to what someone might or might not be saying. And when we do, we need to be willing to make changes and to help.
I highly recommend this novel, it is an emotional and heartfelt glimpse at domestic abuse and I think it is a book people will remember and hopefully talk about for a long time to come.
May 29, 2022
I like what Monique Mulligan has done here with this story, the way in which she has crafted a novel about domestic violence without plunging us directly into it, instead, offering the perspective of looking in from the outside. Predominantly set in 1979 to 1980, a time of vastly different attitudes, Wildflower is a story about challenging the status quo, about speaking out when something isn’t right, about standing up for women and children when they are in harms way within their own homes. I found the portrayal of life and the ideas of the day quite vividly realised; this was the sort of world I grew in up in and its familiarity was shockingly confronting. Was everybody really like that back then? Yes. They were.
Other themes, bullying and feminism, are woven into the narrative with ease, but it’s the way in which Monique challenges gendered stereotypes throughout the story that ultimately made this novel for me. In terms of the story playing out in the 1999 timeline, it is not disclosed who this woman is until the end of the novel. I had two guesses, both were wrong, and I thought the character reveal here was a clever plot turn. Generally, I am not a fan of child narrators, however, in this instance, it was done well. Wildflower put me in mind of Little Gods by Jenny Ackland. I think it was the ebb and flow of life in the Australia of forty years ago as seen through a child’s perspective that did it. There is something particularly poignant about revisiting one’s childhood through the eyes of a child narrator – provided it is done well, which it was within both books.
Whilst yes, this is a novel about domestic violence, I felt the themes were handled well throughout and I didn’t at all feel as though it was gratuitous or triggering – for which I am grateful. It’s a topic I generally avoid reading about for many reasons. I am happy to recommend this one far and wide, particularly to book clubs, it would generate a lot of interesting book chat.
Thanks to the author for the review copy.
Other themes, bullying and feminism, are woven into the narrative with ease, but it’s the way in which Monique challenges gendered stereotypes throughout the story that ultimately made this novel for me. In terms of the story playing out in the 1999 timeline, it is not disclosed who this woman is until the end of the novel. I had two guesses, both were wrong, and I thought the character reveal here was a clever plot turn. Generally, I am not a fan of child narrators, however, in this instance, it was done well. Wildflower put me in mind of Little Gods by Jenny Ackland. I think it was the ebb and flow of life in the Australia of forty years ago as seen through a child’s perspective that did it. There is something particularly poignant about revisiting one’s childhood through the eyes of a child narrator – provided it is done well, which it was within both books.
Whilst yes, this is a novel about domestic violence, I felt the themes were handled well throughout and I didn’t at all feel as though it was gratuitous or triggering – for which I am grateful. It’s a topic I generally avoid reading about for many reasons. I am happy to recommend this one far and wide, particularly to book clubs, it would generate a lot of interesting book chat.
Thanks to the author for the review copy.
March 28, 2022
'Wildflower' is a beautifully written story about friendship and navigating the complexities of the adult world when you're only 11 years old. It squarely addresses domestic violence and the response to such events in a by-gone era.
The main protagonist is 11 year-old Jane Kelly. Through her, we see the injustice of a world where people predominantly thought domestic violence was a private matter. We see Jane rage against her powerlessness to help her best friend, Acacia, escape the clutches of a violent home and witness an eventual awakening that it was wrong to stand by and do nothing.
Through the eyes of an unnamed second POV character, we see the impact of the cycle of violence on its victims and the struggle to escape its insidious clutches.
This book was heartbreaking in its depiction of the powerlessness of women and children who suffered domestic abuse. It shines a light on a dark and ugly problem with finesse and sensitivity, whilst also offering us a glimpse into a better future.
Monique has a special talent for writing about difficult topics with a deft touch.
"Wildflower" is a stunning read. Highly recommended.
The main protagonist is 11 year-old Jane Kelly. Through her, we see the injustice of a world where people predominantly thought domestic violence was a private matter. We see Jane rage against her powerlessness to help her best friend, Acacia, escape the clutches of a violent home and witness an eventual awakening that it was wrong to stand by and do nothing.
Through the eyes of an unnamed second POV character, we see the impact of the cycle of violence on its victims and the struggle to escape its insidious clutches.
This book was heartbreaking in its depiction of the powerlessness of women and children who suffered domestic abuse. It shines a light on a dark and ugly problem with finesse and sensitivity, whilst also offering us a glimpse into a better future.
Monique has a special talent for writing about difficult topics with a deft touch.
"Wildflower" is a stunning read. Highly recommended.
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⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 'Wildflower is a beautifully crafted coming-of-age story with a powerful message sure to resonate across generations.' - Sara Foster, The Hush
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⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 'Wildflower is a beautifully crafted coming-of-age story with a powerful message sure to resonate across generations.' - Sara Foster, The Hush
Pre-orders are now available. How to order?
1. Signed copies from moniquemulligan.com
2. Online from Booktopia, Book Depository and other retailers
3. eBook via https://books2read.com/Wildflower
4. Ask your local bookshop or library to order it in.
March 18, 2022
Thank you Monique for sending us a copy to read and review.
An emotional and at times, hard to read story that is heart wrenching on a subject that should not be an issue then and definitely not now but is still high in statistics and growing every day.
As the reader enters the book we meet Jane, a outspoken ten year old with lots of energy.
It’s 1979 and as the school holidays approach, Jane thinks she will be friendless for break once again.
Then Acacia moves in next door.
Jane believes she will finally have a friend to share things with and secrets to tell.
Their friendship blossoms but still Acacia is hiding something and being withdrawn.
When the truth comes out, no one is prepared for what happens next.
Told through alternating chapters we also are graced with a timeline set in 1999 with an unknown person who has just ran from her life and ended up at a refuge dealing with hurt, abuse and guilt.
This person must friend the strength to move on and heal from the pain.
We do not know who these people are until all is revealed and everything fits in to place.
This is a powerful story, one that will brings tears and their will be hope.
It’s beautifully written, there are occasions of bleak but there’s a good balance between good and bad and then there’s moments of fun, laughter and seeds of a wonderful friendship between the young.
Not only was this a strong story it was a trip down memory lane as I was the same age as Jane in 1979 and Monique nailed it with all the isms, actions, trivia and stuff of that year and era.
There’s bravery, courage, determination, sensitive amongst the hard hitting, topical and danger.
I don’t have anything else to add besides, if you only read one book this month that can I highly recommend this one.
A book that will move you from head to toe.
An emotional and at times, hard to read story that is heart wrenching on a subject that should not be an issue then and definitely not now but is still high in statistics and growing every day.
As the reader enters the book we meet Jane, a outspoken ten year old with lots of energy.
It’s 1979 and as the school holidays approach, Jane thinks she will be friendless for break once again.
Then Acacia moves in next door.
Jane believes she will finally have a friend to share things with and secrets to tell.
Their friendship blossoms but still Acacia is hiding something and being withdrawn.
When the truth comes out, no one is prepared for what happens next.
Told through alternating chapters we also are graced with a timeline set in 1999 with an unknown person who has just ran from her life and ended up at a refuge dealing with hurt, abuse and guilt.
This person must friend the strength to move on and heal from the pain.
We do not know who these people are until all is revealed and everything fits in to place.
This is a powerful story, one that will brings tears and their will be hope.
It’s beautifully written, there are occasions of bleak but there’s a good balance between good and bad and then there’s moments of fun, laughter and seeds of a wonderful friendship between the young.
Not only was this a strong story it was a trip down memory lane as I was the same age as Jane in 1979 and Monique nailed it with all the isms, actions, trivia and stuff of that year and era.
There’s bravery, courage, determination, sensitive amongst the hard hitting, topical and danger.
I don’t have anything else to add besides, if you only read one book this month that can I highly recommend this one.
A book that will move you from head to toe.
March 19, 2022
WOW!! Hard hitting and emotional, topical and necessary Wildflower is a book that will not leave you untouched.
I need to review immediately while fresh, but I need to sit with it a while ... definitely requires a little bit of processing.
Review posted at: https://miclovesbooks.home.blog/2022/...
Wildflower is a sensitive and insightful look at a side of life that too many of us are acquainted with, and shouldn’t be. It is beautifully written and hits hard, I dare you to read this book, immerse yourself in the time and the characters and not be moved or changed by the experience.
I loved the…. actually you know what, I’m not sure that loved the story is the right way to say it. There is a lot to love about some of the characters and the lessons they learned about life but overall I’m not sure it’s a story to love. I was moved by the story, and I became very attached to it very quickly. There is a lot of beauty in Wildflower, in it’s characters and their friendships.
Wildflower is told on two distinct timelines almost 20 years apart with characters whose ages aren’t that different to mine.
Much of the story is told in the summer holidays of 1979-80, a blistering hot suburban Sydney summer. I am a little younger than the 11 year-olds at the centre of this timeline, but not so much younger that their childhood experiences were unfamiliar to me.
The 79-80 timeline is told from the point of view of Jane Kelly, who funnily enough seems to have a birthday very close to mine. She’s been the victim of bullying at school and all that she wants is a friend, so when new neighbours move in next door she wishes desperately for a friend her age, and is fortunate that part of the family is a girl exactly her age.
The two become friends, best friends, and spend as much of the holidays together as they can; but the friendship isn’t equal in the way that Jane believes a best friendship should be. There isn’t the sharing of secrets, and the spending all their time swapping between each others houses but Jane will come to realise that the importance of the friendship to each of them was equal. Acacia may have kept a lot to herself but she needed Jane just as much as Jane needed her, maybe even more.
Acacia may have kept much of herself and her life private from Jane, and she didn’t invite her over but she showed Jane how to be brave and stand up for herself even when she was scared, and even when she was smaller. She was an old soul that had seen more than any 11 year-old should and she saw a lot more in people than Jane, she could read people and recognise the things that sometimes they may not even recognise themselves.
The second timeline begins in August of 1999 when an unnamed woman finally breaks free and embarks on a new life, one small and scary step at a time. It isn’t until right near the end that we discover who this woman is and how she fits into the earlier timeline, but I can tell you she wasn’t who I thought she was.
Our unnamed woman has spent years dreaming of escaping the relationship that was slowly killing her, and she feared one day actually would. I spent much of the book trying to work out who she was, and changed my mind more than once. I think that was intentionally, and cleverly, done by Mulligan to show us that it really can happen to anyone.
The two timelines have similarities but also demonstrate how much progress was made in the decades between, but still there is much to do and we need to keep making the changes and having the hard conversations.
The earlier timeline is, in my eyes, the more important and the main story but 1999 is also extremely important to add another layer and perspective to the earlier events.
Wildflower has a lot of difficult conversations, and most definitely says a lot of things that many of us think; and have been thinking for many years.
I don’t really want to say too much and add spoilers but I don’t know what I can say that doesn’t. Mulligan explores so many cultural norms of the time that, thankfully, are beginning to change though maybe not rapidly enough.
Wildflower explores domestic abuse, family relationships, friendship, bullying, community and the extremely outdated notions of ‘boys will by boys’ and minding your own business. It is set in a time where things were beginning to change and strong female characters like Mrs Kelly were beginning to stand up for the change they needed, and want to set a better example for the generations to follow.
Mrs Kelly sat her children down one day to explain that they needed to know how they deserved to be treated and to settle for nothing less, to teach both her daughters and her son about respect and being valued. To set them up to do better, and to be better than some of the experiences that shaped their younger lives.
This is a story that hit me close to home, that explores so many of the different issues raised; the attitudes that must change and the bravery in the face of danger that even the youngest feel when it comes to protecting those they love.
It’s a book that I will be recommending to many of my friends because I think it will resonate.
Wildflower is a book that says I see you, you can survive this. A book that says you aren’t alone. A book that says your struggles and your sacrifices will be remembered. A book that says it’s never too early, or too late, to make the change.
I need to review immediately while fresh, but I need to sit with it a while ... definitely requires a little bit of processing.
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Wildflower is a sensitive and insightful look at a side of life that too many of us are acquainted with, and shouldn’t be. It is beautifully written and hits hard, I dare you to read this book, immerse yourself in the time and the characters and not be moved or changed by the experience.
I loved the…. actually you know what, I’m not sure that loved the story is the right way to say it. There is a lot to love about some of the characters and the lessons they learned about life but overall I’m not sure it’s a story to love. I was moved by the story, and I became very attached to it very quickly. There is a lot of beauty in Wildflower, in it’s characters and their friendships.
Wildflower is told on two distinct timelines almost 20 years apart with characters whose ages aren’t that different to mine.
Much of the story is told in the summer holidays of 1979-80, a blistering hot suburban Sydney summer. I am a little younger than the 11 year-olds at the centre of this timeline, but not so much younger that their childhood experiences were unfamiliar to me.
The 79-80 timeline is told from the point of view of Jane Kelly, who funnily enough seems to have a birthday very close to mine. She’s been the victim of bullying at school and all that she wants is a friend, so when new neighbours move in next door she wishes desperately for a friend her age, and is fortunate that part of the family is a girl exactly her age.
The two become friends, best friends, and spend as much of the holidays together as they can; but the friendship isn’t equal in the way that Jane believes a best friendship should be. There isn’t the sharing of secrets, and the spending all their time swapping between each others houses but Jane will come to realise that the importance of the friendship to each of them was equal. Acacia may have kept a lot to herself but she needed Jane just as much as Jane needed her, maybe even more.
Acacia may have kept much of herself and her life private from Jane, and she didn’t invite her over but she showed Jane how to be brave and stand up for herself even when she was scared, and even when she was smaller. She was an old soul that had seen more than any 11 year-old should and she saw a lot more in people than Jane, she could read people and recognise the things that sometimes they may not even recognise themselves.
The second timeline begins in August of 1999 when an unnamed woman finally breaks free and embarks on a new life, one small and scary step at a time. It isn’t until right near the end that we discover who this woman is and how she fits into the earlier timeline, but I can tell you she wasn’t who I thought she was.
Our unnamed woman has spent years dreaming of escaping the relationship that was slowly killing her, and she feared one day actually would. I spent much of the book trying to work out who she was, and changed my mind more than once. I think that was intentionally, and cleverly, done by Mulligan to show us that it really can happen to anyone.
The two timelines have similarities but also demonstrate how much progress was made in the decades between, but still there is much to do and we need to keep making the changes and having the hard conversations.
The earlier timeline is, in my eyes, the more important and the main story but 1999 is also extremely important to add another layer and perspective to the earlier events.
Wildflower has a lot of difficult conversations, and most definitely says a lot of things that many of us think; and have been thinking for many years.
I don’t really want to say too much and add spoilers but I don’t know what I can say that doesn’t. Mulligan explores so many cultural norms of the time that, thankfully, are beginning to change though maybe not rapidly enough.
Wildflower explores domestic abuse, family relationships, friendship, bullying, community and the extremely outdated notions of ‘boys will by boys’ and minding your own business. It is set in a time where things were beginning to change and strong female characters like Mrs Kelly were beginning to stand up for the change they needed, and want to set a better example for the generations to follow.
Mrs Kelly sat her children down one day to explain that they needed to know how they deserved to be treated and to settle for nothing less, to teach both her daughters and her son about respect and being valued. To set them up to do better, and to be better than some of the experiences that shaped their younger lives.
This is a story that hit me close to home, that explores so many of the different issues raised; the attitudes that must change and the bravery in the face of danger that even the youngest feel when it comes to protecting those they love.
It’s a book that I will be recommending to many of my friends because I think it will resonate.
Wildflower is a book that says I see you, you can survive this. A book that says you aren’t alone. A book that says your struggles and your sacrifices will be remembered. A book that says it’s never too early, or too late, to make the change.
April 10, 2022
I read…. No, I devoured this book. I even gasped out loud at that plot twist.
What a clever storyteller, with page after page of fabulously fresh and captivating turn of phrase. I thank the author for taking me back to family life in 1980 Sydney Australia. This novel is quite the stroll down memory lane.
Barb is my hero! “We are what we hide.” She says. Loved her.
While exposing the ripple effect of domestic violence, Wildflower is not a typical ‘edge of your seat read’ but rather, an intimate and considered interrogation of life in Sydney, 1980, as seen through the eyes of a young girl trying to reconcile two different worlds .
The present day thread is powerful storytelling (those chapter headings are creative genius and so beautifully designed - well done, Pilyara Press) and the ‘show not tell’ is joyous and impactful: (‘The tunic puddles around my feet’. Oh, and… ‘Four gasps chase me out of the room but no one follows’.) If you are a creative writer struggling to grasp the ‘show not tell’ concept, read this book!
Every author has ‘a book of the heart’, the story they have to write. I believe this to be one such story.
Wildflower is both a stroll down memory lane and a lesson for us all. A story about keeping quiet and speaking up; about giving it, taking it, and making it.
Have your children read it. Have every woman read it.
What a clever storyteller, with page after page of fabulously fresh and captivating turn of phrase. I thank the author for taking me back to family life in 1980 Sydney Australia. This novel is quite the stroll down memory lane.
Barb is my hero! “We are what we hide.” She says. Loved her.
While exposing the ripple effect of domestic violence, Wildflower is not a typical ‘edge of your seat read’ but rather, an intimate and considered interrogation of life in Sydney, 1980, as seen through the eyes of a young girl trying to reconcile two different worlds .
The present day thread is powerful storytelling (those chapter headings are creative genius and so beautifully designed - well done, Pilyara Press) and the ‘show not tell’ is joyous and impactful: (‘The tunic puddles around my feet’. Oh, and… ‘Four gasps chase me out of the room but no one follows’.) If you are a creative writer struggling to grasp the ‘show not tell’ concept, read this book!
Every author has ‘a book of the heart’, the story they have to write. I believe this to be one such story.
Wildflower is both a stroll down memory lane and a lesson for us all. A story about keeping quiet and speaking up; about giving it, taking it, and making it.
Have your children read it. Have every woman read it.
December 5, 2023
I really enjoyed this book! The story was told from two different viewpoints, at two different points in time. You didn't know for the majority of the story who one of the narrators was, but the way it was kept secret wasn't cheezy. I really loved the part of the book told from the viewpoint of Jane, a 10-year old girl. She is so curious, she can't help herself and her curiosity gets her into trouble. There were funny and too true moments - when adults say "because" they just want you to think they're saying something even though they're not answering the question. The two narratives were done really well. It was nice to read a book that I enjoyed! The ending was quick, but it was realistic and not drawn out so that was nice.
March 1, 2024
You deserve to feel safe, supported, and respected! The last comment in this audible. This story touches on a story of domestic violence told through an 11-year-old girls eye. Speaking out or meddling in someone's private life and what went on behind closed doors was frowned upon. I would recommend this to anyone of any age. Definitely a tear jerker at the end.
March 18, 2022
When I turned the last page of Wildflower I had that moment where you close the book, stare at the wall and sit quietly to process what you’ve just read.
Two huge ongoing and always relevant topics, bullying and domestic violence can never be talked about enough! It was written with such sensitivity but really strongly highlighted the impact and fallout these both have on our society.
I loved how Monique approaches the story from the perspective of 10 3/4 year old Jane Kelly from your typical ‘family next door’. I was immediately drawn into the developing friendship between Jane and her new next door neighbour and ‘best friend’ of the same age, Acacia Miller, whose name reflected her character and what she endured.
There was a lot of light to balance out the dark and I found myself laughing out loud quite often at situations and dialogue and the many references relating to life in 1979.
I was really moved by this story and can highly recommend it.
Two huge ongoing and always relevant topics, bullying and domestic violence can never be talked about enough! It was written with such sensitivity but really strongly highlighted the impact and fallout these both have on our society.
I loved how Monique approaches the story from the perspective of 10 3/4 year old Jane Kelly from your typical ‘family next door’. I was immediately drawn into the developing friendship between Jane and her new next door neighbour and ‘best friend’ of the same age, Acacia Miller, whose name reflected her character and what she endured.
There was a lot of light to balance out the dark and I found myself laughing out loud quite often at situations and dialogue and the many references relating to life in 1979.
I was really moved by this story and can highly recommend it.
July 19, 2022
Wildflower by Australian author Monique Mulligan is a deep heart-rending, moving fictional drama novel.
1979, ten-year-old Jane Kelly the youngest, lives with her mum, dad, brother Jim and sister Sal. She lacks confidence and self-esteem from being bullied at school by Mary Evans and her friends, who exclude her from a conversations and activities. Jane was thankful school holidays were approaching and was excited new neighbours’ were moving in next door, hopeful there would be a girl her age she could become best friends with.
Acacia Miller and her mother Rose are the Kelly’s new neighbour, Jane is delighted to find out Acacia is the same age as her and they fast become best friends. Jane would share secrets and tell her about her family situation. When it came to Acacia discussing her family, she was not forthcoming, all Jane knew was Rose had a boyfriend named Daryl who did not treat her right, most nights Acacia did not want to go home which worried Jane.
1999, a woman arrives at a women’s shelter after leaving her abusive husband. Ending a significant relationship and walking away was not easy, she is feeling confused, uncertain, frightened, and torn. She recognizes a volunteer from her childhood and feels weak and embarrassed because she remained in her marriage not breaking the cycle of abuse. The woman remains at the shelter gaining tangible resources to help her create a new life and find a sense of empowerment to be on her own.
Author Monique Mulligan tells an absorbing tale told in a dual timeline. the narrative sets its hooks on you from the first page and refuses to let go until the end. The characters are well developed that make them thoroughly compelling to read, the plot will keep you hooked and guessing until the end who the mystery woman is.
Wildflower is gripping, heart-wrenching, and realistic, and shows that sometimes you can find strength in a much greater power than your own. The story is an important one, showing the true struggle that battered women fight every single day. Although victims never think they will make it, the ones that do become survivors, determined to help other victims live through their ordeal and restore peace and hope where there had been none for so long.
Being in the same circumstances I found myself walking in her shoes. I felt her fear and frustrations. I cheered her wins and her courage, and I grieved over her deep disappointments. Whilst this book may be sensitive to some readers, it is a story that screams to be read. I highly recommend.
Thank you, Beauty and Lace and Pilyara Press for the opportunity to read and review.
1979, ten-year-old Jane Kelly the youngest, lives with her mum, dad, brother Jim and sister Sal. She lacks confidence and self-esteem from being bullied at school by Mary Evans and her friends, who exclude her from a conversations and activities. Jane was thankful school holidays were approaching and was excited new neighbours’ were moving in next door, hopeful there would be a girl her age she could become best friends with.
Acacia Miller and her mother Rose are the Kelly’s new neighbour, Jane is delighted to find out Acacia is the same age as her and they fast become best friends. Jane would share secrets and tell her about her family situation. When it came to Acacia discussing her family, she was not forthcoming, all Jane knew was Rose had a boyfriend named Daryl who did not treat her right, most nights Acacia did not want to go home which worried Jane.
1999, a woman arrives at a women’s shelter after leaving her abusive husband. Ending a significant relationship and walking away was not easy, she is feeling confused, uncertain, frightened, and torn. She recognizes a volunteer from her childhood and feels weak and embarrassed because she remained in her marriage not breaking the cycle of abuse. The woman remains at the shelter gaining tangible resources to help her create a new life and find a sense of empowerment to be on her own.
Author Monique Mulligan tells an absorbing tale told in a dual timeline. the narrative sets its hooks on you from the first page and refuses to let go until the end. The characters are well developed that make them thoroughly compelling to read, the plot will keep you hooked and guessing until the end who the mystery woman is.
Wildflower is gripping, heart-wrenching, and realistic, and shows that sometimes you can find strength in a much greater power than your own. The story is an important one, showing the true struggle that battered women fight every single day. Although victims never think they will make it, the ones that do become survivors, determined to help other victims live through their ordeal and restore peace and hope where there had been none for so long.
Being in the same circumstances I found myself walking in her shoes. I felt her fear and frustrations. I cheered her wins and her courage, and I grieved over her deep disappointments. Whilst this book may be sensitive to some readers, it is a story that screams to be read. I highly recommend.
Thank you, Beauty and Lace and Pilyara Press for the opportunity to read and review.
July 17, 2022
There are some books that will stay with you always and Wildflower by Monique Mulligan is one of them. The theme of bullying and domestic violence feature in this story so it was heavy reading at times but I think that is because you know the statistics and you know that the dual timelines in this book are hauntingly realistic.
I read this book in a day, it engaged me and I was invested in the characters immediately, The story is mainly told by 11-year-old Jane Kelly who is relentlessly bullied at school and feels so very alone. The 1979-1980's summer holidays are starting and Jane is excited to hear that new neighbours are moving in, she has her fingers crossed that there will be a girl she can befriend for the holidays. Acacia Miller moves in next door and she is everything Jane could imagine in a best friend but as they spend every waking moment together Jane wonders why she is never allowed to go to Acacia's place and why she remains so guarded when asked questions about her home life.
It is through Jane eye's we are reminded of this era, domestic violence occurred but was not talked about, and what went on between a husband and wife was private. The neighbours may have heard the fights but looked the other way and wives did not leave. Jane has an older Brother, Jim who had a friend who was a bad influence, the line 'boys will be boys' was often used and Jane calls her Father on the double standard that existed many times. Throughout Jane's story, we get a glimpse into these times and the escalation in what she sees and hears from the house next door.
The other dual storyline is through the eyes of a woman fleeing domestic violence in 1999. She escapes to a refuge and is constantly torn between wanting to move forward alone and wanting to go back to him.
This book gathers momentum and leaves you breathless by the end, it is told in a powerful but sensitive way and I think is a must-read for all. So much more I want to say but I think the book does it all - pick it up and read it.
Thank you to Beauty and Lace and Monique Mulligan for sharing this very special book.
I read this book in a day, it engaged me and I was invested in the characters immediately, The story is mainly told by 11-year-old Jane Kelly who is relentlessly bullied at school and feels so very alone. The 1979-1980's summer holidays are starting and Jane is excited to hear that new neighbours are moving in, she has her fingers crossed that there will be a girl she can befriend for the holidays. Acacia Miller moves in next door and she is everything Jane could imagine in a best friend but as they spend every waking moment together Jane wonders why she is never allowed to go to Acacia's place and why she remains so guarded when asked questions about her home life.
It is through Jane eye's we are reminded of this era, domestic violence occurred but was not talked about, and what went on between a husband and wife was private. The neighbours may have heard the fights but looked the other way and wives did not leave. Jane has an older Brother, Jim who had a friend who was a bad influence, the line 'boys will be boys' was often used and Jane calls her Father on the double standard that existed many times. Throughout Jane's story, we get a glimpse into these times and the escalation in what she sees and hears from the house next door.
The other dual storyline is through the eyes of a woman fleeing domestic violence in 1999. She escapes to a refuge and is constantly torn between wanting to move forward alone and wanting to go back to him.
This book gathers momentum and leaves you breathless by the end, it is told in a powerful but sensitive way and I think is a must-read for all. So much more I want to say but I think the book does it all - pick it up and read it.
Thank you to Beauty and Lace and Monique Mulligan for sharing this very special book.
July 14, 2022
Thank you Beauty and Lace for selecting me to read and review Wildflower by Monique Mulligan.
Wow! Just wow! I finished this book within 3days which is unheard of for me! It may need a trigger warning for some (Bullying and Domestic Violence)
The book is mainly set in 1979-1980 the best and worse summer for Jane Kelly an almost 11yr old girl who’s severely bullied at school and has a new set of neighbours move in next door. Acacia Miller the same age as Jane. The girls soon become good friends and embark on some new adventures together.
As the Kelly family is battling their own family secrets and troubles it becomes clear something is not right next door at the Millers house. Jane and her mum start to wonder when is the right time to speak up? The mentality of her dad well known for this era is that what happens in another house is private and their own business.
Fast Forward 20years to 1999 and an abused women flees her home to a woman’s refuge where she needs to rebuild her life and crosses someone form her past. Will she face her darkest secrets and move forward with her life?
This book is a 5 star for me. I did find some events confronting and it definitely makes you think about When is it time to Speak up!
Wow! Just wow! I finished this book within 3days which is unheard of for me! It may need a trigger warning for some (Bullying and Domestic Violence)
The book is mainly set in 1979-1980 the best and worse summer for Jane Kelly an almost 11yr old girl who’s severely bullied at school and has a new set of neighbours move in next door. Acacia Miller the same age as Jane. The girls soon become good friends and embark on some new adventures together.
As the Kelly family is battling their own family secrets and troubles it becomes clear something is not right next door at the Millers house. Jane and her mum start to wonder when is the right time to speak up? The mentality of her dad well known for this era is that what happens in another house is private and their own business.
Fast Forward 20years to 1999 and an abused women flees her home to a woman’s refuge where she needs to rebuild her life and crosses someone form her past. Will she face her darkest secrets and move forward with her life?
This book is a 5 star for me. I did find some events confronting and it definitely makes you think about When is it time to Speak up!
April 4, 2022
I love how Monique Mulligan writes. Her words transmit such empathy, kindness and understanding of the real issues in this world.
While reading about Jane and Acacia's stories, about bullying and domestic and family violence, I couldn't get out of my head how we are defined not only by what we do, but also by what we decide not to do. How we could be tempted to turn a blind eye and mind our own business. But we need to take a stand, let our voices rise, and fight for the people who don't feel strong enough yet, people who don't believe in themselves anymore, who feel shattered and unworthy.
Through Jane's mum's words we learn about resilience and how accepting uncomfortable feelings can allow us to create a positive change.
A book that challenges your beliefs and your perspectives, teaching you a great deal along the way!
While reading about Jane and Acacia's stories, about bullying and domestic and family violence, I couldn't get out of my head how we are defined not only by what we do, but also by what we decide not to do. How we could be tempted to turn a blind eye and mind our own business. But we need to take a stand, let our voices rise, and fight for the people who don't feel strong enough yet, people who don't believe in themselves anymore, who feel shattered and unworthy.
Through Jane's mum's words we learn about resilience and how accepting uncomfortable feelings can allow us to create a positive change.
A book that challenges your beliefs and your perspectives, teaching you a great deal along the way!
July 25, 2022
I really liked how this book was written, the aussie ways and sayings that we would hear in my childhood, the twist at the end and how it really was back in those days.
I felt so sad for Acacia as a little girl should not have to have more common sense than the adults and at the same time see and put up with trauma that was beyond her control.
I felt Jane was so sensitive and it all resonated well with me as I used to have a lot of questions but I was different to Jane as in, we weren`t game enough to ask.
A reality check as domestic violence still goes on today and is something that we can speak up about more now than years ago and while we will never stamp it out completely, there is more help and awareness in place and it is not tolerated.
The scenes felt like pieces from my childhood (not exactly the same) but I could easily imagine the house, the next door neighbours, their profiles and feelings.
I loved this book and feel like I can`t say its fantastic because of the violence and abuse but it was wonderfully written because it had me right there beside Jane.
I felt so sad for Acacia as a little girl should not have to have more common sense than the adults and at the same time see and put up with trauma that was beyond her control.
I felt Jane was so sensitive and it all resonated well with me as I used to have a lot of questions but I was different to Jane as in, we weren`t game enough to ask.
A reality check as domestic violence still goes on today and is something that we can speak up about more now than years ago and while we will never stamp it out completely, there is more help and awareness in place and it is not tolerated.
The scenes felt like pieces from my childhood (not exactly the same) but I could easily imagine the house, the next door neighbours, their profiles and feelings.
I loved this book and feel like I can`t say its fantastic because of the violence and abuse but it was wonderfully written because it had me right there beside Jane.
March 14, 2024
Wildflower by Monique Mulligan 🎧
What a stunning, beautiful and thoughtful read (listen) this one was. I have been wanting to read it for so long, drawn by the beautiful title - it was well worth waiting for and thanks to the talents of Monique as an author. Told in two timelines, we enjoy Australia in the late 1970’s and life of a typical hard working family with three kids growing up at a time where a woman’s place was in the home and not to question the male leader/partner/husband. The main character Jane is almost eleven years old, a lovely kid who seems to see things the right way but has suffered some awful bullying because of her approach to life. We share almost a year with Kate and her family and their new neighbours, who include Acacia, similar age to Kate and destined to become her close friend. If all of that is not interesting enough (it is) we have second and current time line, a sad story featuring a lady who has moved into a domestic violence refuge. Her past is not clear, but the reader enjoys seeing her grow, learn and slowly share her story too. The connection between the timelines is a surprise and special once it is revealed. I feel I’m all mixed up here with my description, but there is so much that is best left for you to read yourself. Another author to watch and thank you for your lovely craft and writing this novel.
What a stunning, beautiful and thoughtful read (listen) this one was. I have been wanting to read it for so long, drawn by the beautiful title - it was well worth waiting for and thanks to the talents of Monique as an author. Told in two timelines, we enjoy Australia in the late 1970’s and life of a typical hard working family with three kids growing up at a time where a woman’s place was in the home and not to question the male leader/partner/husband. The main character Jane is almost eleven years old, a lovely kid who seems to see things the right way but has suffered some awful bullying because of her approach to life. We share almost a year with Kate and her family and their new neighbours, who include Acacia, similar age to Kate and destined to become her close friend. If all of that is not interesting enough (it is) we have second and current time line, a sad story featuring a lady who has moved into a domestic violence refuge. Her past is not clear, but the reader enjoys seeing her grow, learn and slowly share her story too. The connection between the timelines is a surprise and special once it is revealed. I feel I’m all mixed up here with my description, but there is so much that is best left for you to read yourself. Another author to watch and thank you for your lovely craft and writing this novel.
November 8, 2023
Absolutely loved this book.. beautifully written ♥️
August 13, 2022
Wildflower is one of those books that everyone needs to read. Powerful, important and necessary, it deals with topics that are always hard to discuss- physical and emotional abuse.
This is a really hard book to review. Especially because there are children involved. What happens to eleven year old Acacia made me want to cry. The things she endures are unnecessary and uncalled for. There's a moment where you know exactly what's going to occur, and you are helpless because you can't stop it. For crying out loud, she is just an innocent child and should never be placed in these impossible situations at all.
I also felt really helpless for Jane, Acacia's friend. Being an adolescent is awkward enough, but being bullied and also wanting to help her bestie makes it even worse. Especially when she's continuously told by her father 'to mind her own business' and 'boys will be boys'. That made me so angry. It's hard to believe that these social norms and attitudes are still rampant today.
The woman who actually did escape from her own abuser was quite the surprise though. Really appreciated her story and the strength to make wrongs right.
Thankyou to those people who continue to help victims of abuse.
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟/5
This is a really hard book to review. Especially because there are children involved. What happens to eleven year old Acacia made me want to cry. The things she endures are unnecessary and uncalled for. There's a moment where you know exactly what's going to occur, and you are helpless because you can't stop it. For crying out loud, she is just an innocent child and should never be placed in these impossible situations at all.
I also felt really helpless for Jane, Acacia's friend. Being an adolescent is awkward enough, but being bullied and also wanting to help her bestie makes it even worse. Especially when she's continuously told by her father 'to mind her own business' and 'boys will be boys'. That made me so angry. It's hard to believe that these social norms and attitudes are still rampant today.
The woman who actually did escape from her own abuser was quite the surprise though. Really appreciated her story and the strength to make wrongs right.
Thankyou to those people who continue to help victims of abuse.
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June 20, 2022
Such an emotional story beautifully written, there are trigger warnings for domestic abuse, so check them out if you decide to pick this up. Bottom line here is abuse is never acceptable.
July 25, 2023
As a child of the 80s, I grew up with a fascination with Australian TV. Neighbours, Home and Away, A Country Practice, Flying Doctors, Blue Heelers and, a show I was probably too young to watch at the time but did and also have rewatched all 692 episodes of it at least twice over since, Prisoner: Cell Block H.
So this book, set in Australia, dubbed as a coming of age story but is actually so much more, was always going to speak to me. Especially in its mirroring PCBH’s stories of women being imprisoned for assault and murder of the abusive men in their lives, be them fathers, husbands, brothers or ‘uncles’ (mother’s boyfriends). The law offered them no protection from domestic violence but would punish any self-defence harshly.
The story is split between 2 eras.
The book opens in 1999 with a nameless narrator arriving at a women’s refuge after leaving her husband.
The story then alternates with the summer of 1979/80, to 10 year-old Jane Kelly looking forward to the long summer holidays away from the school bullies and to a magical family Christmas.
Jane is a brilliant character. Full of questions and confusion about the world. She has an elder sister, Sal, and an elder brother, Jim.
When new neighbours move in next door, Jane has the opportunity to make a new friend; a friendship that opens her eyes about the world and it’s wrongs as well as providing much needed companionship.
Seeing the world through Jane’s eyes resonated with everything I know about the era, both from living just after it and how Australia in particular was portrayed on TV in that era.
- A woman’s place is in the home
- What happens in a man’s home is his business
- Police don’t get involved in domestic disputes
- Single parent (mother) stigma
- The common use of ‘boys will be boys’ to excuse bad behaviour
- Blame culture
This book uses the coming of age plot contrasted with the more modern escape from domestic violence to highlight not just how far we women have come in our fight for equality, but also just how far we still have to go.
“Remember, you deserve to feel safe, supported, and respected. Violence is never your fault.”
So this book, set in Australia, dubbed as a coming of age story but is actually so much more, was always going to speak to me. Especially in its mirroring PCBH’s stories of women being imprisoned for assault and murder of the abusive men in their lives, be them fathers, husbands, brothers or ‘uncles’ (mother’s boyfriends). The law offered them no protection from domestic violence but would punish any self-defence harshly.
The story is split between 2 eras.
The book opens in 1999 with a nameless narrator arriving at a women’s refuge after leaving her husband.
The story then alternates with the summer of 1979/80, to 10 year-old Jane Kelly looking forward to the long summer holidays away from the school bullies and to a magical family Christmas.
Jane is a brilliant character. Full of questions and confusion about the world. She has an elder sister, Sal, and an elder brother, Jim.
When new neighbours move in next door, Jane has the opportunity to make a new friend; a friendship that opens her eyes about the world and it’s wrongs as well as providing much needed companionship.
Seeing the world through Jane’s eyes resonated with everything I know about the era, both from living just after it and how Australia in particular was portrayed on TV in that era.
- A woman’s place is in the home
- What happens in a man’s home is his business
- Police don’t get involved in domestic disputes
- Single parent (mother) stigma
- The common use of ‘boys will be boys’ to excuse bad behaviour
- Blame culture
This book uses the coming of age plot contrasted with the more modern escape from domestic violence to highlight not just how far we women have come in our fight for equality, but also just how far we still have to go.
“Remember, you deserve to feel safe, supported, and respected. Violence is never your fault.”
August 8, 2023
This is the 1979 story of Jane, the victim of relentless bullying at the hands of Mary Evans, who then finds a new best friend when Acacia moves in next door. It is also the story, set 20 years later, of a survivor of domestic abuse, leaving her husband and finding support at a refuge as she rebuilds her life.
I must be honest; I should have posted this yesterday and I had timed my reading to finish the book so I could review it immediately. But, I had to take some time to think after reading it. In all the years of reading, in all the recent years of writing reviews, I have never had a book affect me so emotionally, especially at the end. Reading the story through the eyes of an insecure 10 year old child in a time when looking the other way was the norm resonated with me. It took a moment for me realise that I was the same age as Jane in 1979, and all those long forgotten memories of my experiences as a 10 year old boy came flooding back. A time of such curiosity. It made the book more real for me.
I loved the character Jane, still finding her way in the world while becoming more and more concerned for the welfare of her friend Acacia. Reading through the eyes of a child is always thought provoking. When she was told “mind your own beeswax” she often ignored the warning which opened her young mind to a world where there is such injustice, violence, deception, and family drama. Jane’s father who had served in Vietnam was struggling with his own demons and had good days and very dark days, as many of us veterans do. It made his character more real for me and I liked him a lot. There are other characters I sympathised with, empathised with, or downright disliked. All were essential to the story and all were credible.
Overall, I think this is a book that everyone should read. I can’t go into the story any further because I really don’t want to ruin anybody’s reading experience. Suffice to say I recommend this book to all readers of coming of age family dramas. I gave Wildflower, by Monique Mulligan, five stars.
I must be honest; I should have posted this yesterday and I had timed my reading to finish the book so I could review it immediately. But, I had to take some time to think after reading it. In all the years of reading, in all the recent years of writing reviews, I have never had a book affect me so emotionally, especially at the end. Reading the story through the eyes of an insecure 10 year old child in a time when looking the other way was the norm resonated with me. It took a moment for me realise that I was the same age as Jane in 1979, and all those long forgotten memories of my experiences as a 10 year old boy came flooding back. A time of such curiosity. It made the book more real for me.
I loved the character Jane, still finding her way in the world while becoming more and more concerned for the welfare of her friend Acacia. Reading through the eyes of a child is always thought provoking. When she was told “mind your own beeswax” she often ignored the warning which opened her young mind to a world where there is such injustice, violence, deception, and family drama. Jane’s father who had served in Vietnam was struggling with his own demons and had good days and very dark days, as many of us veterans do. It made his character more real for me and I liked him a lot. There are other characters I sympathised with, empathised with, or downright disliked. All were essential to the story and all were credible.
Overall, I think this is a book that everyone should read. I can’t go into the story any further because I really don’t want to ruin anybody’s reading experience. Suffice to say I recommend this book to all readers of coming of age family dramas. I gave Wildflower, by Monique Mulligan, five stars.
August 18, 2023
This is not my usual type of read, but somehow, it compelled me to read it, and I'm so glad I did.
It's a wonderful, gripping, and touching story with great characters.
It touches on difficult and emotional subjects and told in a lovely, caring way.
This is set in Penrith, Australia, and the story alternates between 1979 and 1999. It talks about such a different kind of family life as then.
The early years are told by 11 year old Jane and the later an unnamed female who has escaped from an abusive relationship.
This is one of those books that once you start reading, it's very hard to put down. You just need to know what's happening.
It has you through alsorts of emotions when reading and those twists you just don't see coming.
It's a book I would definitely recommend reading.
My thanks to Bloodhound books for the advanced copy. This is my honest and unbiased review.
It's a wonderful, gripping, and touching story with great characters.
It touches on difficult and emotional subjects and told in a lovely, caring way.
This is set in Penrith, Australia, and the story alternates between 1979 and 1999. It talks about such a different kind of family life as then.
The early years are told by 11 year old Jane and the later an unnamed female who has escaped from an abusive relationship.
This is one of those books that once you start reading, it's very hard to put down. You just need to know what's happening.
It has you through alsorts of emotions when reading and those twists you just don't see coming.
It's a book I would definitely recommend reading.
My thanks to Bloodhound books for the advanced copy. This is my honest and unbiased review.
August 7, 2023
A novel with a powerful, poignant plot. Taking tropes from a dark psychological thriller; a brutal bildungsroman; and Australian crime noir at its finest - this is a story with many layers and thought-provoking messages.
It felt so unusual to read about Christmas and New Year during a heatwave, I found it totally compelling. I loved the way the story unfolds in two different timelines: 1979/80 and 1999. I also loved the tension and suspense of not knowing who the adult narrator is until the very end.
The author writes with compassion and integrity, and brilliantly evokes time and place as a backdrop for well-formed characters. The fast approaching storm as the denouement unfolds was extraordinarily tense and well-paced.
A book much bigger than its bindings.
It felt so unusual to read about Christmas and New Year during a heatwave, I found it totally compelling. I loved the way the story unfolds in two different timelines: 1979/80 and 1999. I also loved the tension and suspense of not knowing who the adult narrator is until the very end.
The author writes with compassion and integrity, and brilliantly evokes time and place as a backdrop for well-formed characters. The fast approaching storm as the denouement unfolds was extraordinarily tense and well-paced.
A book much bigger than its bindings.
July 21, 2023
Wow….my heart is full after finishing this one, and I just need to breathe. The story switches from past to present, and the building of the characters and storyline are excellently done. The story is mostly told from the viewpoint of 11-year-old Jane, and includes all the angst of being the youngest child trying to find her place in the world, while confronted with grown-up situations which always seem just beyond her understanding. Jane embodies everything we seek as we grow: friendship, fitting in, a clear path of what’s ahead, and ultimately, responsibilities and compassion as we grow into the people we are meant to be.
This story was so good - highly recommended!
This story was so good - highly recommended!
July 22, 2023
This was a well-written dark and emotional story told from the point of view of Jane living with her family in the late 1970’s and early 80’s as a ten and eleven year old, switching between then and twenty years later which really adds to the story. It features domestic abuse and the changing times with regard to women’s rights and people’s opinions of domestic abuse. There are some good descriptions throughout, using similes to enhance. The descriptions of people’s attitudes such as not getting involved in other people’s business, turning a blind eye to domestic abuse and that ‘boys will be boys’ resonated with me as accurate for the times depicted in the story. The perceptiveness of the author regarding the attitudes of the past and sexism is astute. It is humourous in places, even in some serious circumstances and the way the characters are described, really makes you feel for them and what they are going through. The relationship between Jane and Acacia is especially poignant. I also enjoyed the relationship between Jane and her mum, and liked the way the story ended.
I received an ARC from BloodHound Books for an honest review, thank you, and all thoughts are my own.
I received an ARC from BloodHound Books for an honest review, thank you, and all thoughts are my own.
August 8, 2023
It feels weird saying I enjoyed this book given its content but I really did enjoy it.
It is well written with a compelling narrative and well developed characters. I loved that it is a dual narrative with the story being told both through the eyes of a child and of an abused woman.
There is a lot of hard hitting topics in this book such as domestic violence and the effects that that has on everyone involved. However it is because of that, that this is the beautifully poignant and heartbreaking read it is.
I loved it and can't wait to read more by this author
It is well written with a compelling narrative and well developed characters. I loved that it is a dual narrative with the story being told both through the eyes of a child and of an abused woman.
There is a lot of hard hitting topics in this book such as domestic violence and the effects that that has on everyone involved. However it is because of that, that this is the beautifully poignant and heartbreaking read it is.
I loved it and can't wait to read more by this author
May 22, 2022
Beautifully written story on the topic of domestic abuse. Jane Kelly is bullied and a very lonely girl until Acacia moves into the house next door. They become fast friends but things are happening in Acacia's home.
It was hard to put this book down even though you were worried about what was going to happen next. Interwoven between 1979-80 and current times.
This is a very important book with a very important message for women.
It was hard to put this book down even though you were worried about what was going to happen next. Interwoven between 1979-80 and current times.
This is a very important book with a very important message for women.
July 25, 2023
Thank you for the advanced readers copy in exchange for an honest review
It’s a story about a girl named Jane who was bullied in school and had no friends. One day a new family moves in next door and she befriends the little girl named Acacia.
The story is told in two views the past and the present. It’s not until near the end that you realize whose point of view you are reading. Either way this was a beautiful book and should be read by women every where.
It’s a story about a girl named Jane who was bullied in school and had no friends. One day a new family moves in next door and she befriends the little girl named Acacia.
The story is told in two views the past and the present. It’s not until near the end that you realize whose point of view you are reading. Either way this was a beautiful book and should be read by women every where.
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